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FieryOpal -> RE: Are there any bdsm dating sites? (3/18/2014 11:24:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GoddessManko LOL yea, true. Well my moments were not few. I have only laid with two men all my life(one nilla, one Dom I chose). And it had nothing to do with religion or holding out for Mr Right but just the mere fact I would not let most men bed me, ever, try as they might. The thought repulses me actually. And I am very fascinated by the phallic member. I use my sexuality as a weapon, bit of sadism there. Hmmm...more than a bit. The outlet issue is governable only through an extreme amount of self discipline to be honest, and even then your body rebels. So those types of sensations have to be something you enjoy. As far as heightening desire, 100 fold. Definitely and literally. It's no secret I hope that I am an extremely lustful creature who tugs at her own leash because I like the way men beg. :) I feel like we completely hijacked this thread by the way, hahahahaa!!! We can't take all the credit, thanks to littlebuck. I can't resist mentioning that it's the guys who are gung-ho about being put into chastity and expect Dominant women to be as enthused about their flaccid peckers as they are. [8\|]

GoddessManko -> RE: Are there any bdsm dating sites? (3/18/2014 11:29:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FieryOpal quote: ORIGINAL: GoddessManko LOL yea, true. Well my moments were not few. I have only laid with two men all my life(one nilla, one Dom I chose). And it had nothing to do with religion or holding out for Mr Right but just the mere fact I would not let most men bed me, ever, try as they might. The thought repulses me actually. And I am very fascinated by the phallic member. I use my sexuality as a weapon, bit of sadism there. Hmmm...more than a bit. The outlet issue is governable only through an extreme amount of self discipline to be honest, and even then your body rebels. So those types of sensations have to be something you enjoy. As far as heightening desire, 100 fold. Definitely and literally. It's no secret I hope that I am an extremely lustful creature who tugs at her own leash because I like the way men beg. :) I feel like we completely hijacked this thread by the way, hahahahaa!!! We can't take all the credit, thanks to littlebuck. I can't resist mentioning that it's the guys who are gung-ho about being put into chastity and expect Dominant women to be as enthused about their flaccid peckers as they are. [8\|] LOL it's no fun if their peckers are flaccid, the more bull, the better. [;)]

Inghammar -> RE: Are there any bdsm dating sites? (3/19/2014 10:45:12 AM)
'Chastity' is as focused on sex as it is not so it wont solve any problems - even less so if the OP has no interest in enforced celibacy. It appears the OP is looking for a relationship in which the traditional elements of love, mutual respect, etc have primacy over sex.

MistressLeSang -> RE: Are there any bdsm dating sites? (3/30/2014 9:54:03 AM)
it was interesting to read all replies here. I am new at this site and a life style Mistress and looking for a long term D/s relationship with a submissive man or a lady and new friends among submissives and Dominant and switches. Finding a genuine person is about luck. Good luck to all of us. Mistress LeSang

FieryOpal -> RE: Are there any bdsm dating sites? (4/1/2014 11:39:33 PM)
There's a new free social kink site up, Princess, which you can get in on the ground level at kinkytoo.com. It might be the closest thing you'll find to a BDSM site which has not yet been glutted by sex-crazed maniacs. Oh, retraction. Friendly sex maniacs, I should say, comprised of many of our forum regulars here. You'll feel more at home, dear.

sissycdmiranda -> RE: Are there any bdsm dating sites? (12/23/2014 4:27:27 AM)
alt and fetlife

LookieNoNookie -> RE: Are there any bdsm dating sites? (12/23/2014 2:25:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl Not really. BDSM sites will always have a group of guys that just want their kink itch scratched (or to talk endlessly about that itch) I've heard that some had some success on OK Cupid. The best advice I can give you is to set firm boundaries. Don't discuss sex or engage in power dynamics before you have met that person and ignore anyone that isn't willing to wait for you to be ready. That's actually not fair (to men). I'm sure that's true for most women....you're the recipient of our lust. (Sue us....you look better in....well....everything). We have a chemical inside us that makes us....uhhhmmm....unusual. You have a chemical inside you that makes you well....soft/desirable/smell good....and...fucking crazy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sue us. I think, if aliens came down....you'd be the one's they'd want to take away. We'd be the one's in worn, unwashed jeans. We love you. Don't hold that against us. We love to listen in to your conversations even as.....EVERYTHING YOU SAY confuses the FUCK out of us and MAKES NO FUCKING SENSE!!!!! You....wimmens....are magnificent beings. We're amazed by you...yet...confused. You make NO FUCKING SENSE!!!! Yet we are enamored. We love you. You think we're crazy. We KNOW you're crazy! In the end....you always win.

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