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ORIGINAL: GoddessManko

LOL yea, true. Well my moments were not few. I have only laid with two men all my life(one nilla, one Dom I chose). And it had nothing to do with religion or holding out for Mr Right but just the mere fact I would not let most men bed me, ever, try as they might. The thought repulses me actually. And I am very fascinated by the phallic member. I use my sexuality as a weapon, bit of sadism there. Hmmm...more than a bit.
The outlet issue is governable only through an extreme amount of self discipline to be honest, and even then your body rebels. So those types of sensations have to be something you enjoy. As far as heightening desire, 100 fold. Definitely and literally.
It's no secret I hope that I am an extremely lustful creature who tugs at her own leash because I like the way men beg. :)
I feel like we completely hijacked this thread by the way, hahahahaa!!!

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ORIGINAL: FieryOpal

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ORIGINAL: GoddessManko

LOL yea, true. Well my moments were not few. I have only laid with two men all my life(one nilla, one Dom I chose). And it had nothing to do with religion or holding out for Mr Right but just the mere fact I would not let most men bed me, ever, try as they might. The thought repulses me actually. And I am very fascinated by the phallic member. I use my sexuality as a weapon, bit of sadism there. Hmmm...more than a bit.
The outlet issue is governable only through an extreme amount of self discipline to be honest, and even then your body rebels. So those types of sensations have to be something you enjoy. As far as heightening desire, 100 fold. Definitely and literally.
It's no secret I hope that I am an extremely lustful creature who tugs at her own leash because I like the way men beg. :)
I feel like we completely hijacked this thread by the way, hahahahaa!!!

We can't take all the credit, thanks to littlebuck.

I can't resist mentioning that it's the guys who are gung-ho about being put into chastity and expect Dominant women to be as enthused about their flaccid peckers as they are.

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

Not really. BDSM sites will always have a group of guys that just want their kink itch scratched (or to talk endlessly about that itch) I've heard that some had some success on OK Cupid.

The best advice I can give you is to set firm boundaries. Don't discuss sex or engage in power dynamics before you have met that person and ignore anyone that isn't willing to wait for you to be ready.