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Looking for a way - 3/13/2014 2:29:14 PM   
RickandMimi2011


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Hello out there. I am Rick and I need help. I am married to a wonderful slave and she means the world to me. But we have fallen on hard times. I lost my job two years ago and it's looking that I won't be able to work again. She can't work already so we are in quite a jam. She is drawing an SSI check every month and I have an application in for it myself. But I want to be able to provide for her and a future family. I have tried a lot of things to try to make ends meet and we are currently living with my father-in-law. I am at my wits end and don't know what else to do. I like to think of myself as smart but I have not been able to get my degree at this time. I can't live here for ever and am looking to the community for help in the form of ideas, opportunities, anything legal. I look forward to an suggestions you guys may have.
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RE: Looking for a way - 3/13/2014 2:33:32 PM   
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Hello Rick and Mimi. Best of Luck to you on what you seek from Collarme. I'm thinking you need to concetrate on getting on your feet, before you go full bore into Pharoah mode.

Why aren't you able to work?

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RE: Looking for a way - 3/13/2014 2:34:34 PM   
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May I ask why you can't work?

You're 24 and 23 years old and look young and healthy to me.





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RE: Looking for a way - 3/13/2014 2:44:55 PM   
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I cannot work, at least for now, due to seizures. I have the petty maul kind, but that causes me to zone out a lot. If I cannot take medication then I won't be able to work. And the pharoah thing is really a fantasy of mine rather than mandatory.

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RE: Looking for a way - 3/13/2014 2:57:47 PM   
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Ok - I'll go there - you can't earn a living for yourself, your girlfriend can't earn a living for herself - the two of you don't need to reproduce.

and having petit mal seizures doesn't stop anyone from working. Take your meds, decrease the number of seizures and get a job. Problem solved.

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RE: Looking for a way - 3/13/2014 3:01:35 PM   
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There is the chance that the meds either won't work, or I will have horrible side effects from them, and yes, I am going to try medication. So Kiwi, please get all your facts straight before going off the deep end like that.

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RE: Looking for a way - 3/13/2014 3:05:23 PM   
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Someone at dinner was telling me how cannabis helped an acquaintance tremendously with seizures. Been meaning to look into this.

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RE: Looking for a way - 3/13/2014 3:08:34 PM   
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In the past, when I have taken meds for mental things I was in the small percentage of people where the side effects were worst that the illness, I am going to doctors and getting as much info about what's going on in my particular case as I can. And where I live, weed is illegal, even for medical use.

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RE: Looking for a way - 3/13/2014 3:12:19 PM   
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quote:

So Kiwi, please get all your facts straight before going off the deep end like that.


You'll find that many posters here are rather blunt. A friend of yours may have done a lot of dancing around before making those same points. Doesn't mean that blunt points are not valid, but you may need to take a step back and not take things personally.

I too believe that people who cannot afford children (or pets for that matter) should not have them. But I'm willing to spend a lot of time focusing on the getting back to work aspects of your OP before going there. (Or would have been, lol.)

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RE: Looking for a way - 3/13/2014 3:17:39 PM   
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For most people, disability is years down the road. I have recently heard of some getting it very quickly, which shocked the hell out of me, but all systems were go from the start and with what you say is going on... it will most likely be a long, long road before you get any assistance. I once asked a person in the know... what happens to people between work and disability funds. He said, what I found to be true... but we were knocking heads trying to make a difference... If they don't have support from family and friends, they tend to end up homeless.

Many of us fought for change in a very broken system that becomes more broken by the year. Think of the economy... then think of those losing unemployment and unable to find a job. If they have anything they can apply for disability for and if they do... they need to apply because of work hour credits to get disability... they are all flooding to apply. Work hour credits mean you have to work a certain amount of time out of a certain amount of time. That typically means, two out of five years. Not applying soon enough can hurt you, but applying too soon can hurt you too. I have argued this with lawyers and won, because I studied the social security disability handbook.

Everyone says a lawyer is your best bet. I say, it depends. These lawyers get paid a percentage of your funds once you get disability. Key factor here is that the longer it takes you to get it, the more they make. You tell me how that's going to work. I worked my son's case that had been ruined from the start by a hospital afraid and refusing to send records. I was terrified I was making the wrong move, but I was able to get around the hospital covering their ass and I got in front of that judge and left the women in the court room crying over the story. It can be done if you have documentation by good record making doctors, etc. The hospital didn't know what I had. lol

Look in the front of your local phone book at the blue pages. Call everyone in that area if you need to, to get the help or advice you need. Look up, Disability Resources. That is actually a name of an agency. They can sometimes find employers that are willing to hire you or give you odd jobs. Like, I put together mailing lists, documents or advertisements from Realtors that send information to lots of people.

It used to be that a number of states would have some funds, typically welfare, of a couple hundred a month, plus food stamps and no medical unless you had children. Most states got rid of that. Washington State is the best for that now. Kansas has recently modified but they came second. There are a couple, east coast that may still have something and nothing in the south.

You need to apply for public housing. Not just HUD for anything you can find that rents to HUD. Do a search from the HUD website looking for rentals for the disabled in your area or an area you will do better in. Get onto the list for on site housing. You don't have to be on disability for many of them. You take a form to your doctor and they state that you would benefit from the housing for this or that medical reason. The lists can be long... so do it now. I cannot impress upon you enough on that. It can be a safety net at some point.

If you get help, you can always improve and go back to work, but you are in transition medically and you need to secure your future as much as you can, however it goes. Keep records of everything the doctors do or test on. Don't depend on getting them at a later time. I even kept prescription notes anything that doctor wrote. One document can make or end your case.

When dealing with seizures... things can be up in the air and it can take a long while to sort out. Many illnesses are like that. So start now, be diligent on your own behalf because I am going to tell you... there is very little help out there. When I worked with Disabled Resources, we found that most work from home things were a scam and there wasn't as much as people thought out there unless you had specialized training. Online schooling at the time didn't take any of the grants that funded some for schooling at in person institutions. We fought for that, but I am not up to date on any changes, so you can check that out.

It is hard to sum up years of working at this, especially when I am in my morning hours, though it is evening. lol

One thing we have a shortage with. Elder care. If you can be a care giver, you can often times make it through these times, depending on what the person needs and what is required. Many found their way by assisting others in similar situations and with the two of you, you might just fit someone out there, that would provide housing in exchange for assistance.

I can't do the research for you, like I used to do for people, but I can give you key words to search for to help lead you in a direction.

The best way is to be healthy... to work, to try to work as long as you can and never need help... but if you are one of those that can't find a way... do try and do not wait, to get the help you need. It is vital that you not wait if you have quality doctors saying you cannot work.

Good luck, you will need it. Don't give up!

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RE: Looking for a way - 3/13/2014 3:18:56 PM   
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We have not had kids yet for the reason that we could not afford to give them a good life. I will not exclude the idea of working, I really want to. That's why I am here. I am looking for ideas of kinds of jobs that would be effected as badly if I zone out on the job. So if I can't take meds I have an ideawhat I need to look in to.

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RE: Looking for a way - 3/13/2014 3:19:58 PM   
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quote:

In the past, when I have taken meds for mental things I was in the small percentage of people where the side effects were worst that the illness, I am going to doctors and getting as much info about what's going on in my particular case as I can. And where I live, weed is illegal, even for medical use.


I tried a good half dozen anti depressants before I found one that worked for me w/o side effects - Welbutrin.

My brother's meds get tinkered with all the time.

My man's father was on three or four meds for his dementia/paranoia before they found one that worked.

Stay positive and keep trying :)

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RE: Looking for a way - 3/13/2014 3:23:25 PM   
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Kudos to Rawni for outlining informed and positive steps for Rick to take!

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RE: Looking for a way - 3/13/2014 3:24:59 PM   
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I'm also unsure why petit mal seizures would stop you working entirely, could you clarify a little?

I had a period off work many years ago through injury as opposed to illness, drove me banana's being stuck in the house every day, I found ways to keep occupied and make some income, envelope stuffing was one, sure I had to stuff like a thousand envelopes to earn a pound but when you are stuck home all day you would be surprised how many you get through, other ventures I tried were telephone canvassing, and in the run up to the festive season Christmas cracker filling of all things, Look in your local small ads for home workers. In the tech drenched age of today I'm sure there is stuff you can do from home on a PC that could turn a few bucks too.

Good luck

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RE: Looking for a way - 3/13/2014 3:25:05 PM   
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Thank you. I am trying to but it is hard to.

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RE: Looking for a way - 3/13/2014 3:46:51 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: kalikshama

Someone at dinner was telling me how cannabis helped an acquaintance tremendously with seizures. Been meaning to look into this.

(edited to delete my question that the OP answered in the post above)







It is nothing short of a miracle for children suffering from seizures. Some dear friends of mine moved to Colorado to try it for their son, and the results are amazing.

Google Charlottes Web and HB 885.


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RE: Looking for a way - 3/13/2014 3:48:52 PM   
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I knew someone had an avatar about this :)

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RE: Looking for a way - 3/13/2014 3:59:20 PM   
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For the op... Cannabis oil is getting some very good press. It is not illegal in any state that I know of. However, getting quality cannabis oil... is questionable. You can look at this site and Rick has some wild comments, but he seems to be the man to know when it comes to cannabis oil.

http://phoenixtears.ca/

I wish I could just order some myself as making it... isn't possible.

Some people are going to need to move to other areas in this political environment and with how things go. OP... Washington State... check it out. They have hud on site house, they have assistance between work and disability and you can work with the cannabis. The medical community isn't the only community that can help you. Sometimes you need to go outside it and more are finding this true than ever before.

Washington State... please don't hate me. lol

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RE: Looking for a way - 3/13/2014 4:24:24 PM   
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The nationwide legal status of the oil is somewhat murky:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Charlotte's_Web_(cannabis)#Legal_status

Legal status

While the use of medical marijuana products is allowed in many U.S. states, the nationwide legal status of Realm Oil is less clear.

Josh Stanley has said that Charlotte's web is 0.5% THC and 17% CBD,[4] and he claims that "Alepsia.... is as legal as other hemp products already sold in stores across Utah, including other oils, clothing and hand creams, but is illegal, federally, to take across state lines."[28]

In Utah, Rep. Gage Froerer, R-Huntsville, said in October 2013: "Nothing in federal or state law prohibits the sale or use of hemp products."[9] He pledged to consult with the Utah Substance Abuse Authority, saying: "We need to take a strong look at this and make sure that we as a legislature and we as citizens understand really what this is and what it's not."[29] In November 2013, he said he would address "three components in sponsoring legislation: access, quality control and research. He said the Utah Department of Health would probably be involved in quality-control efforts ..."[30] Annette Maughan, President of the Epilepsy Association of Utah, said: "The current Utah law doesn't exclude its use but also doesn't allow for its use. We are in limbo until Utah lawmakers decide what to call it."[29]

In 2013, the parents of a two-year-old with Dravet's syndrome confronted New Jersey governor Chris Christie, who signed a bill allowing access for sick children to medical marijuana[8] in a controversy dubbed "pot for tots".[19][8][31] In 2014, legislative proposals in New York,[32] Washington state,[8] Minnesota,[24] and Florida are being considered, where "even some staunch opponents of medical marijuana now are willing to make an exception" to allow the marijuana extract for medical treatment.[1]

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RE: Looking for a way - 3/13/2014 4:32:20 PM   
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There is a difference in the oils... between Alepsia and something else, I can't remember the name of. Rick talks about it in one of his many video's. You can take the thc out of it and the other stuff in it works to do many things. According to the claims and I believe some of them. Sorry, frying out here. I need cannabis oil and green magma.

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