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MistressDarkArt -> RE: I was blocked (3/16/2014 1:07:50 AM)
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John, besides the married part, another thing that may be tripping you up is this part of your profile:
I have released my current sub <snip> In any case, she will allow my potential subs to speak with her and she will give me a reference.
I think what would be more useful here is that a new potential partner be able to speak to your wife about your involvement. She's entitled to a face-to-face discussion with your other half about boundaries, limits, expectations and safety so that all are fully informed and consenting.
There are a few regular posters on this board who are married with outside partners. Virtually all of them insist their spouses be kept in the loop; full disclosure. It would be a rare (and unsavory) female who would accept being a piece on the side without your wife's full knowledge and consent. For that matter, an above-board married sub-partner would insist on extending the same requirements to you and her husband.
That said, sub women are in great demand. They can pick and choose the best of the A-game best. They don't need to bother with messy spousal attachments from the dominant's end.
So if your wife is cool with all this and willing to negotiate with your outside partner(s), say so in your profile. If she's not, apologize to her for your mistake marrying someone who was not sexually compatible, compensate her as the law requires, and get the eff out. YOU got yourself into this situation; it is not unique or compelling in any way. Quit d*cking around and make it right so everyone involved has the chance to find their bliss in an honest, straightforward fashion.
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