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RE: Why don't people read profiles???? - 9/21/2005 3:00:07 PM   
caitlyn


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I really don't mind the email so much. I read them and respond if there is something worth responding to.

Its a little hard for me to understand why so many people crack on guys that are just looking for women to have sex with, or HNG's, or even trolls.

Aren't guys supposed to be looking for women to have sex with?
What's so wrong with being a horny net guy? Isn't horny a good thing?
And come on now ... trolls are people too.

As a person relatively new to this lifestyle, I have to say that some of the dychotomies of it crack me up. We get on here and talk about what kind of whips to use on each other, how to put big objects in small places, and putting our significant others in cages ... then turn into innocent schoolgirls or women from the misfit nunnery, when someone trolls us, or when someone admits to having a little fun outside their relationship.

Very funny stuff, if you ask me.

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RE: Why don't people read profiles???? - 9/21/2005 4:43:39 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

I know it's all fun and worthwhile, but you do realize we're perpetuating a thread started by someone who's no longer on the site...right?

Since when have we let little details like that hold us back?

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Just one more idea, I'm beginning to think that the people sending out the e-mails are sending them in bulk, and you are right...not reading the profiles. Just throwing out the net, and seeing what they can reel in. It isn't right, but it's my idea of what these people seem to be doing.

Absolutely there are... that's what I meant by trolls "fishing". Awhile back I had a couple friends join here, both female submissives. They got quite a few emails... and of those that were trolling, quite a few of those were identical emails. That is, both girls got an identical letter from the same "dom" and there were numerous examples of this (we had a bit of a laugh over it... pity I couldn't post a list of names but that's against the TOS). That's fishing, its not someone taking any sort of personal interest in you but just some twit sending out form letters hoping to get a few responses. They're operating on the same principle as telemarketers. Telemarketers call literally millions of people in a given area, they know most of those people will hang up on them and not respond, but they also know a small percentage will buy whatever they are selling, and that small percentage is what keeps it profitable. The trolls are doing the same thing knowing that there is always that small percentage of the naive or whomever who will fall for their spam.

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No we just grow sugar cane.....

Mmmmm... sugar cane.... used to make taffy when I was a kid. You never had so much fun making a mess!

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Aren't guys supposed to be looking for women to have sex with?
What's so wrong with being a horny net guy? Isn't horny a good thing?
And come on now ... trolls are people too.

Hehe... not sure if trolls count as people or not... jury is still out on that one.
Here's the thing that bugs people about them... trolls don't really give a damn about the people they are writing too, they're just writing to virtually everyone in hopes somebody will respond. That's annoying, not to mention low class... as in absence of. Horny can be a good thing, but like anything there's a time and a place for it... first impressions usually aren't that time or place. Its one thing to have someone flirting with you personally... that can be flattering. But when you realize that email you got is a form letter they've sent to 500 other people... and that's just today... it goes from being flattering to insulting in 3.2 sec (or less). Funny thing about these trolls is that about half of them don't really know what to do if someone does respond, after a few emails from an experienced and skeptical submissive, the reality of how little they know about anything becomes all to clear (the other half are unfortunately a bit more sophisticated than that).

Now about having sex... ever thought of vacationing in NC?

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RE: Why don't people read profiles???? - 9/21/2005 7:56:10 PM   
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Ummm...exactly.

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ORIGINAL: happypervert

BTW Lam, though the person who started this thread may be gone, that's irrelevant because seems like we get one on this topic about every 6 weeks or so.


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RE: Why don't people read profiles???? - 9/21/2005 8:43:05 PM   
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Most show skills in the kitchen, hiuse work and gardening

If you get any that say they can do roofing and plumbing, let me know!


Colorado apparently has more of our share of manual & not just household laborers desiring servitued. I found one that does dishes, construction & even auto care woo hoo until we spoke further & his wife & THREE CHILDREN BY 2 other women came up.

Amazing how quickly one can hit the block button.

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RE: Why don't people read profiles???? - 9/22/2005 7:12:49 AM   
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ORIGINAL: IronBear
Nooooooooooooooooo PLEASE inform them.. They can send a deputation headed by George W himself.. I could get them all so plasted that Australia would anex the US instead. Next move is to oust our Government and place a mix of Hard Core BDSMers and Hard Arsed Goreans and we'll all be happy......

Sits immaging all the polititions in fishnets and garter belts and any unruly members getting publically caned......




Sir, be careful what you wish for! LOL .... although it wouldn't be too hard to get anyone from the family of our esteemed leader plastered, doesn't appear to take too much. Hmmmmm. Then, after Australia has annexed the US I could say "krikey" instead of "holy moly" without people looking at me funny!

<starts flipping through the Yellow Pages for Halliburton>

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RE: Why don't people read profiles???? - 9/22/2005 3:40:27 PM   
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Ah, the age old question? Are some people actually literate? I still get mail like that, after quite a while on the site, after repeatedly fending them off, after putting MONOGAMOUS in big, bold letters at the top of my profile. However, it does get better. It's not nearly as bulky a load of e-mails as it used to be. For now, just reply with a polite no and make sure that OWNED AND NOT INTERESTED is at the top of your profile.

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RE: Why don't people read profiles???? - 9/27/2005 8:19:59 AM   
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hello i have been on here for awhile i have changed my profile a couple of times but no matter what i put on there i still get the ONES who think THEY can say as they please. i am owned by my MASTER and here for info. only to help me and my MASTER beter OUR/our relationship within this lifestyle. how hard is that to understand? so how can a DOM email my MASTER and ask if HE can train me ONE on one. WHO out there honestly thinks that a true MASTER who loves HIS slave/sub would allow ANOTHER DOM to even touch them. to me HE would want to train them the way HE sees fit not the way another would.

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RE: Why don't people read profiles???? - 9/27/2005 8:46:07 AM   
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Why don't people read profiles???? they are myopic and forgot to bring the reading glasses. OR they only read reall simple one sylable words and need lots of pictures (basic ones) to follow the directions? Y'all think I'm joking?

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RE: Why don't people read profiles???? - 9/27/2005 8:51:03 AM   
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IS THE US READY FOR ME TO MOVE THERE???


We love & respect your opinions but I don't think the US is ready for you IronBear

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