Can a male submissive be trained to be sexually aggressive?

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ettaj -> Can a male submissive be trained to be sexually aggressive? (3/16/2014 1:21:34 AM)
I want to know if you can train a submissive male into being sexually aggressive during role play or is that oppositional to his submissive DNA?

crazyml -> RE: Can a male submissive be trained to be sexually aggressive? (3/16/2014 1:39:28 AM)
Sure... All it takes is a little imagination and a willingness on the part of the male sub. Whether they enjoy it or not is another question...

AthenaSurrenders -> RE: Can a male submissive be trained to be sexually aggressive? (3/16/2014 1:48:41 AM)
I must've missed the news when they discovered the sexually-submissive genome... He can be trained to act the part, if he's willing. He probably won't ever come to enjoy it or crave it unless there was a little bit of that urge in him to begin with.

DarkSteven -> RE: Can a male submissive be trained to be sexually aggressive? (3/16/2014 1:53:18 AM)
Why not? I've heard of submissive women who work as pro Dommes - it's just role play to them.

pg4g -> RE: Can a male submissive be trained to be sexually aggressive? (3/16/2014 2:06:21 AM)
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Lucylastic -> RE: Can a male submissive be trained to be sexually aggressive? (3/16/2014 2:12:04 AM)
Very easily if thats what the domme wants, knows the submissive well and knows how to press the right buttons, but it is individual. Im another one for there not being a submissive DNA

pg4g -> RE: Can a male submissive be trained to be sexually aggressive? (3/16/2014 2:22:40 AM)
I'm an aggressive man, and I have a big streak of submission in me. It's not the typical submissive streak, but it's there. They do not contradict. You can get the guy to be aggressive, and he can be aggressive. We can all role-play aggression. If you want the guy to be innately aggressive, that you cannot change. It needs to be part of him, and that may well be there. An aggressive nature DOES NOT contradict with submission. You can, however, stoke the flames of aggression that he has inside him if they're there. My recommendation is talk to the sub, and ask if that aggressive fire is there. He can either Role Play, or he can do it for real.

Lucylastic -> RE: Can a male submissive be trained to be sexually aggressive? (3/16/2014 2:24:51 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pg4g I'm an aggressive man, and I have a big streak of submission in me. It's not the typical submissive streak, but it's there. They do not contradict. You can get the guy to be aggressive, and he can be aggressive. We can all role-play aggression. If you want the guy to be innately aggressive, that you cannot change. It needs to be part of him, and that may well be there. An aggressive nature DOES NOT contradict with submission. You can, however, stoke the flames of aggression that he has inside him if they're there. My recommendation is talk to the sub, and ask if that aggressive fire is there. He can either Role Play, or he can do it for real. THIS well except Im not male and am a lousy submissive.

pg4g -> RE: Can a male submissive be trained to be sexually aggressive? (3/16/2014 2:33:54 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lucylastic THIS well except Im not male and am a lousy submissive. You had me fooled! [;)]

Lucylastic -> RE: Can a male submissive be trained to be sexually aggressive? (3/16/2014 2:38:00 AM)
LOL which one had you fooled?

pg4g -> RE: Can a male submissive be trained to be sexually aggressive? (3/16/2014 2:40:29 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lucylastic LOL which one had you fooled? Just kidding hehe. Your profile says female dominant. I sort of guessed that you weren't also male submissive bahaha.

Lucylastic -> RE: Can a male submissive be trained to be sexually aggressive? (3/16/2014 2:50:02 AM)
LOL I honestly thought that you were kidding, im just having some fun back:)

pg4g -> RE: Can a male submissive be trained to be sexually aggressive? (3/16/2014 3:03:19 AM)
From the avatar, I was certain you were a man... Ok, I can't keep a straight face saying that hehehe

Lucylastic -> RE: Can a male submissive be trained to be sexually aggressive? (3/16/2014 3:12:45 AM)
I love men with awesome asses:)

pg4g -> RE: Can a male submissive be trained to be sexually aggressive? (3/16/2014 3:16:51 AM)
That's what my guy says. [;)]

ettaj -> RE: Can a male submissive be trained to be sexually aggressive? (3/16/2014 3:45:23 AM)
Thank you for your input. True story, most people with the right motivation can pretend to be anything. I guess I would like to hear from experienced male sub missives that have been trained by their Masters to do this during role play or on schedule and have liked it or have hated it. I'd like real time sharing. My experiences with male subs were pretty much all of the same ilk they were very aggressive and dominant males outside of the bedroom in their work life they were extremely intense and stereotypically happened to be oppressive males leaders but sexually they wanted to be forced to eat their own shit or have their balls beaten till blue. Perhaps they weren't "real submissive males" but at that point in my life I wasn't asking these questions so I don't know Incidentally, no offense, but I think it's a little disrespectful to go off topic and leg hump in someone's thread. N'est ce pas?

Lucylastic -> RE: Can a male submissive be trained to be sexually aggressive? (3/16/2014 3:48:27 AM)
nobody was humping anyones leg and thread drift happens. but back to your topic....

pg4g -> RE: Can a male submissive be trained to be sexually aggressive? (3/16/2014 4:03:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ettaj Thank you for your input. True story, most people with the right motivation can pretend to be anything. I guess I would like to hear from experienced male sub missives that have been trained by their Masters to do this during role play or on schedule and have liked it or have hated it. I'd like real time sharing. My experiences with male subs were pretty much all of the same ilk they were very aggressive and dominant males outside of the bedroom in their work life they were extremely intense and stereotypically happened to be oppressive males leaders but sexually they wanted to be forced to eat their own shit or have their balls beaten till blue. Perhaps they weren't "real submissive males" but at that point in my life I wasn't asking these questions so I don't know Incidentally, no offense, but I think it's a little disrespectful to go off topic and leg hump in someone's thread. N'est ce pas? What exactly do you want to know? Whether they'd enjoy it? I can tell you the other way around, if I was demanded to role-play being happily sedate submissive, I'd hate it. It isn't in my nature.

Lucylastic -> RE: Can a male submissive be trained to be sexually aggressive? (3/16/2014 4:06:03 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ettaj <snipped for relevance> I guess I would like to hear from experienced male sub missives that have been trained by their Masters to do this during role play or on schedule and have liked it or have hated it. I'd like real time sharing. MY submissive doesnt post here, so he cant tell you how I "trained" him to be "aggressive" when I feel like it , or what his feelings are about it. however we have been Domme and sub for 16 years in may. I know him quite well and his psyche....Its my job

Politesub53 -> RE: Can a male submissive be trained to be sexually aggressive? (3/16/2014 4:35:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ettaj I want to know if you can train a submissive male into being sexually aggressive during role play or is that oppositional to his submissive DNA? Lets give it a go........ [8D]

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