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d3sign3rgirl -> What makes someone a great Dom/Master? (3/17/2014 9:46:28 AM)

Are there any concrete qualities that must be present?



MasterCaneman -> RE: What makes someone a great Dom/Master? (3/17/2014 9:49:37 AM)

Sunglasses in their avatar pic. Definitely. [;)] Seriously, I would say the same qualities that make them a good person in the vanilla sense of the word. I try to be honest, decent, and fair in all my dealings, but that's just me.



OsideGirl -> RE: What makes someone a great Dom/Master? (3/17/2014 9:51:22 AM)

It's all very individual, so this is a question with so many possible answers that it won't provide much use.

I would say that probably the only things that go across the board would be trustworthy, mutual respect, honest and reliable.....which are all things you should be looking for in a partner whether it's vanilla, kinky, poly, traditional, etc.



LadyConstanze -> RE: What makes someone a great Dom/Master? (3/17/2014 9:58:36 AM)


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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

It's all very individual, so this is a question with so many possible answers that it won't provide much use.

I would say that probably the only things that go across the board would be trustworthy, mutual respect, honest and reliable.....which are all things you should be looking for in a partner whether it's vanilla, kinky, poly, traditional, etc.


Pretty much this...

Kinda if you avoid the instant Doms who are practising their swagger and rearrange their cyber crotch every 2 minutes to project their domliness online, you should do alright ;)



crazyml -> RE: What makes someone a great Dom/Master? (3/17/2014 11:55:12 AM)

My first response was ... A great submissive partner.

And, actually, I think that's a pretty fair starting point.

Yes, I think MC nailed it pretty much.. I think to be a great dom (or a great sub) you have to begin by being a pretty ok human being, but for many sub women I make a dismal master/dom... For the right one, I will be the very awesomest.






Kana -> RE: What makes someone a great Dom/Master? (3/17/2014 1:37:34 PM)

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Sunglasses in their avatar pic. Definitely.

Agreed



DaddySatyr -> RE: What makes someone a great Dom/Master? (3/17/2014 1:40:27 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Kana

quote:

Sunglasses in their avatar pic. Definitely.



Agreed



Seconded.
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To answer the question, seriously:

Loyalty
Duty
Respect
Selfless Service
Honor
Integrity
Personal Courage








littlewonder -> RE: What makes someone a great Dom/Master? (3/17/2014 2:04:33 PM)


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ORIGINAL: d3sign3rgirl

Are there any concrete qualities that must be present?


dominance



phoenixasubbie -> RE: What makes someone a great Dom/Master? (3/17/2014 2:05:36 PM)

Agree with OsideGirl-- I look for a compatible partner in vanilla life first. I want a relationship in the real world. Then, are our kinks compatible?



Kana -> RE: What makes someone a great Dom/Master? (3/17/2014 2:06:15 PM)


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ORIGINAL: littlewonder


quote:

ORIGINAL: d3sign3rgirl

Are there any concrete qualities that must be present?


dominance

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littlewonder -> RE: What makes someone a great Dom/Master? (3/17/2014 2:21:26 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Kana


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ORIGINAL: littlewonder


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ORIGINAL: d3sign3rgirl

Are there any concrete qualities that must be present?


dominance

Hey-tautologies are verboten per Internet rule 974,602, subclause B, section 97, row xxi




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ChatteParfaitt -> RE: What makes someone a great Dom/Master? (3/17/2014 2:22:08 PM)

FR

To me a good dominant needs to be emotionally stable and capable of controlling her/his emotions well. In order to actually do that, it takes someone willing to be self-reflective, and someone who looks inside the self for their self esteem and ego.



KnightofMists -> RE: What makes someone a great Dom/Master? (3/17/2014 5:28:46 PM)

Thing of the type of person you admire. Who also happens to be a dominant personality. And you will answer your own question. But you answer will only be good for you.....



ExiledTyrant -> RE: What makes someone a great Dom/Master? (3/17/2014 5:30:40 PM)


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ORIGINAL: d3sign3rgirl

Are there any concrete qualities that must be present?


His skin tone is that of a popular primary color.

Jus sayin
Exiled



slavekate80 -> RE: What makes someone a great Dom/Master? (3/17/2014 8:28:23 PM)

Being a good match for one's partner. That's really the only one. There are some qualities that will help someone be a good match to a greater number of people, like honesty and self-control. But even those aren't strictly required; they're just good things to have in life in general, and they make it easier to find a compatible sub.



Blonderfluff -> RE: What makes someone a great Dom/Master? (3/17/2014 8:57:28 PM)

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His skin tone is that of a popular primary color.



I found him!!!


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ExiledTyrant -> RE: What makes someone a great Dom/Master? (3/17/2014 9:15:37 PM)

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SeekingTrinity -> RE: What makes someone a great Dom/Master? (3/17/2014 9:18:59 PM)

~FRing it~

The qualities of a good dominant are very subjective and unique to you, OP. There is no "one true Dom" or one-size-fits-all answer to your question.

A pulse is a great place to start. But everything else after that is purely on you to decide



GoddessManko -> RE: What makes someone a great Dom/Master? (3/17/2014 9:26:43 PM)


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ORIGINAL: SeekingTrinity

~FRing it~

The qualities of a good dominant are very subjective and unique to you, OP. There is no "one true Dom" or one-size-fits-all answer to your question.

A pulse is a great place to start. But everything else after that is purely on you to decide


Agreed, but when in doubt do pay attention to the handsome gents dropping subtle hints on the message boards, you might be pleasantly surprised there. ;)
Haha! Sorry...couldn't resist.
Very lovely lady OP, welcome!



Kana -> RE: What makes someone a great Dom/Master? (3/18/2014 2:20:37 PM)


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ORIGINAL: slavekate80

Being a good match for one's partner. That's really the only one. There are some qualities that will help someone be a good match to a greater number of people, like honesty and self-control. But even those aren't strictly required; they're just good things to have in life in general, and they make it easier to find a compatible sub.

Hey-don't you be making sense now. The interwebs security will be watching you :-)



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