DarkSteven
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ORIGINAL: MistressMary51 okay I like everything that everyone has told me but I have a new twist he wants me to find a domme that I trust to be there the next time we meet the thing is I don't want another person there with us I would rather talk the advice to use a blind fold him help Tell him to jump in a lake. 1. If you're the Domme, you're in control. Not your place to do his work for him. 2. Dommes are in demand. Lotsa male subs, relatively few Dommes. So why would a Domme pick your guy, who's already in a relationship, over a single man? Especially since he's a pretty demanding sub. He's sending you on a fool's errand. 3. If you DO land him his dream Domme, you'll feel shut out when the New Relationship Energy hits. Sit him down. Explain that you're a Domme, not an errand girl. You never agreed that he's get another woman, and you're sure as hell not doing it now. And just a suggestion - if my sub pulled that on me, she wouldn't be able to sit for a day or two. ************* Okay, I wrote the above thinking that he wanted an actual Domme. He likely wants another play partner to co-top him with you. If so, I take back a lot of what I wrote, but it's still a nonstarter for you. You're the Domme, you get what you want, and in this case it's no other woman there.
< Message edited by DarkSteven -- 3/26/2014 9:06:32 PM >
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