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RE: I sooooo want to do this. - 4/15/2014 9:58:48 PM   
FightingChains


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Status: offline 		Not at all, LP. That was a mutual decision, and that was great. To be honest, love the idea myself. Really sexy.

Judge not lest ye be judged.

But I do want to commend you for stepping back. You left a void for him to step into if he wanted, and he did. I think an element some players can miss is this stuff isn't just about consent, it's about wellbeing. Someone who consents but hates everything you do won't stay with you for long, and may be as scarred psychologically as if they had no consent. It leaves resentment and pain. Disliking some thing things but liking the overall experience is fine, but destroying someone's soul isn't really BDSM or D/s is it?

You stepped back, let him come forward, and made a potentially life-long decision together with consent and desire from both. Extremely beautiful. I admire you for that.

That's my 2 cents, anyway.

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RE: I sooooo want to do this. - 7/5/2014 4:44:02 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		The update, a couple of months later.....

So far, we're good. I've asked a number of times if he regrets being marked. Hell! He was still showing it off just a couple of weeks back. I can't promise that he'll always feel that way. Then again, nobody can predict the future.

We do regret that we didn't take the picture in the bathroom mirror. I do wish I had that.


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RE: I sooooo want to do this. - 7/5/2014 5:37:07 PM   
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ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders

I can't tell if you're just teasing me, but I meant where on the body.



LadyP said already................... Downstairs.


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RE: I sooooo want to do this. - 7/5/2014 5:40:37 PM   
Politesub53


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

The update, a couple of months later.....

So far, we're good. I've asked a number of times if he regrets being marked. Hell! He was still showing it off just a couple of weeks back. I can't promise that he'll always feel that way. Then again, nobody can predict the future.

We do regret that we didn't take the picture in the bathroom mirror. I do wish I had that.



I had a tattoo done on my bum....... very sensual knowing she was watching it. That said, we are no longer an item.

Do I regret the tattoo....... no, not one iota. That said it can take some explaining to a new partner.

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RE: I sooooo want to do this. - 7/5/2014 6:39:53 PM   
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I had a tattoo done on my bum......


Please tell me it wasn't of Big Ben.

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RE: I sooooo want to do this. - 7/6/2014 4:04:19 PM   
Politesub53


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

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I had a tattoo done on my bum......


Please tell me it wasn't of Big Ben.


No silly, I saved that one for my penis.

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RE: I sooooo want to do this. - 7/6/2014 5:25:42 PM   
PeonForHer


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RE: I sooooo want to do this. - 7/7/2014 1:32:28 AM   
SlavingGrace79


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Status: offline 		Very very cool LP, I personally would love a permanent mark from my Daddy - no matter how things end up, but have never considered the possibilities of the intimacy involved in a scene like you described. I very much enjoyed learning from your post. Love it. Thank you!

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RE: I sooooo want to do this. - 7/10/2014 9:31:39 AM   
orgasmdenial12


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Status: offline 		I love being cut. I have a sharp knife that I like to be cut with, especially on my back. I heal well, so it doesn't leave marks, but some years ago I was cut deep enough to leave a little mark, which I enjoyed. I've experimented with different blades and I like one that is sharp enough to pierce the skin, but blunt enough to feel scratchy as it does it - scalpels are too smooth and the cutting feeling is different with them.

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