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Had to go to the local college library, where I was essentially floored by the risqué vestments habitually found on some of the young ladies. Subsequent googling for why many women dress the way they do, I found this enlightening opinion piece regarding, not provocative vestments, but why basal sexual attitudes are so very different between men and women.
The quoted article is not about why men and women are so extremely fundamentally different about suggestive garb; but, it partially explains why the women and men at this school seemingly dressed so very differently, one with carefully chosen salacious abandon, the other with seemingly nonchalant gear:
Why Men Want Sex and Women Want Love, by Elena Solomon
Some of the potential platitudes:
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The reason humans want sex is due to the hormone testosterone, which is predominantly male hormone. A normal male’s body produces 20 times more of this hormone than a female’s.
In other words, a male feels the same way after one day without sex as a female after 20 days without sex. A male that has not had sex in 20 days feels the same way as a female after more than a year without sex.
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For generations women were paying too high a price for making a wrong choice. Women that have chosen men with bad genes had a weaker offspring and their children struggled to survive. Women that have chosen men with good genes had a stronger offspring and their children survived disproportionably. Those children were carrying their picky mother’s genes
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For a man, sex is a physical act that eases the testosterone pressure he experiences constantly. Only after this tension has gone, can a man feel love towards a woman. This is why it often happens that men disappear after they got what they wanted: it wasn’t love; it was the testosterone pressure. Sex for men is the reality check of their passio
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This is why having sex early in the relationship is hazardous for women: the man has not had the time to develop any romantic feelings for her. He needs time to develop those feelings, and the only way to do it is through keeping the sexual tension going for as long as practicable. Sex must be attainable, nearly possible - but not quite. When the sexual tension is at its peak, its release is mind-blowing - and once is never enough, which lays a proper foundation for a future relationship - and love.
And, most appropriate to the point of what I was trying to better understand regarding female choice of vestments:
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By Nature men are made to seek as much sex as they can get, so they can spread their seed wider.
By Nature women are made to seek as many admirers as they can get, so they can make a better choice and get the best seed.
Do you have a better reference for why young women tend to dress far too provocatively for what they're actually doing?
No and, frankly, all I care is that they continue to do so.
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