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ThePrincessKali -> Big breasts=slut? (4/13/2014 7:26:39 PM)
This is a topic I have dealt with since I was a young teenager. I would like to get some males point of view on this as well as women. I know I started a similar topic recently on sexual harassment of women but this is a bit different. Do you assume that because a woman has a large bust that she is automatically "easy" or a slut? I mean obviously (plastic surgery aside) someone's bust size is genetic so logically that wouldn't make sense. It's essentially that same as assuming because someone was born with blonde hair that they're stupid. But I have fought against this since I was about 14 years old and started "developing." It was rumored that I was a slut when I was in high school, even though the most I had done sexually with a guy was kiss until I was a senior and it was all because I had a big chest. I've been accused of "looking like a hooker" because I was wearing a fitted top or moderately low cut top because of my breast size. Even when I'm with girls wearing much more provocative tops who had smaller boobs. I have had men tell me to my face I had "a great rack." And after saying it was rude and have had responses like, "well you shouldn't have them out then." I don't dress overly provocative. I mean I don't wear turtlenecks every day but why should I have to? So think about it, even if it's subconscious, do you assume a woman is a slut because she has large breasts? Have other women experienced this?

RedMagic1 -> RE: Big breasts=slut? (4/13/2014 8:07:20 PM)
My first serious gf was a major brainiac. Super intelligent. And she often wished she still had a 12-year-old's body, because both men and women focused more on her mind when she had no breasts. It royally sucks. She was really hot, and college friends of mine would ask questions like, "How did you land her?" which I suppose, looking back, was not super complimentary to me. I told them, "I cared more about her mind than her body." But I don't think they really got the point -- and I went to a "good" school. A friend of mine had a breast reduction because she was a DD and it started to cause her back issues. She told me that, within a week, she started getting hit on by more intelligent, higher income men. Completely anecdotal, no idea if there's anything to that. But a lot of kinky guys, dom and sub, are major ass men, and interest in BDSM covaries with higher income. So who knows?

DaddySatyr -> RE: Big breasts=slut? (4/13/2014 8:17:44 PM)
Big breasts=slut? Well, one can always live in hope! I don't really mean that but I will get back to it, later. I have never been a breast man. I don't know why but I'm not. I have observed some guys that just lose their fuckin' minds, when they see a lady with larger than average breasts. I've seen cops, not write traffic citations. I've seen men, throw oodles of money at women who I didn't find all that attractive (either aesthetically or as a person) but they had big boobs. I used to have a word for the men that behaved this way but for the last year or so, ToS forbids me to use it. Now, I will get back to the "live in hope" comment. I think that some (many) men who are breast-obsessed treat ladies with what they consider to be desirable chests like sluts because they're hoping, deep down in their hearts, that the ladies they covet will give in to them. If a lady truly is a "slut", it makes their task, that much easier. Screen captures *still* RULE! Ya feel me?

DarkSteven -> RE: Big breasts=slut? (4/13/2014 8:52:13 PM)
I'm kinda shocked. That is one of the stupidest linkages I've ever heard, and it disheartens me to hear that it's actually held by many people. :(

RemoteUser -> RE: Big breasts=slut? (4/13/2014 8:53:45 PM)
Desirable attributes in a potential mate are hard wired but unlike animals, what is considered desirable amongst humans changes with social and cultural influence. In other words, if your tatas bring the boys to the yard, it's because something in them inherently sees this as a sign of sexual development that makes you a viable potential mate. It's not an issue for fair or right, it's genetic. How they handle that is a whole other story, and is primarily dictated by environmental conditioning. It would be one thing if a man wooed you, tried to impress and flatter you and demonstrate that he was worth your time, and something else if they hoot and leer and spread rumours. Chances are, if they do that to you now, they did it along with every other Jack and Johnny in the playground. Lack of conditioning the response as a negative one led to reinforcement through repetition of the act. You can't control their responses and frankly, it's not your job to educate them; so do what you need to for yourself, and perhaps with repeated rebuffs (from you and others) they may eventually get the hint.

Darkfeather -> RE: Big breasts=slut? (4/13/2014 9:20:35 PM)
Wait, does that mean if a guy has a big penis women assume he is good in bed?

ThePrincessKali -> RE: Big breasts=slut? (4/13/2014 10:28:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Darkfeather Wait, does that mean if a guy has a big penis women assume he is good in bed? Nope.

blacksword404 -> RE: Big breasts=slut? (4/13/2014 11:03:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ThePrincessKali This is a topic I have dealt with since I was a young teenager. I would like to get some males point of view on this as well as women. I know I started a similar topic recently on sexual harassment of women but this is a bit different. Do you assume that because a woman has a large bust that she is automatically "easy" or a slut? I mean obviously (plastic surgery aside) someone's bust size is genetic so logically that wouldn't make sense. It's essentially that same as assuming because someone was born with blonde hair that they're stupid. But I have fought against this since I was about 14 years old and started "developing." It was rumored that I was a slut when I was in high school, even though the most I had done sexually with a guy was kiss until I was a senior and it was all because I had a big chest. I've been accused of "looking like a hooker" because I was wearing a fitted top or moderately low cut top because of my breast size. Even when I'm with girls wearing much more provocative tops who had smaller boobs. I have had men tell me to my face I had "a great rack." And after saying it was rude and have had responses like, "well you shouldn't have them out then." I don't dress overly provocative. I mean I don't wear turtlenecks every day but why should I have to? So think about it, even if it's subconscious, do you assume a woman is a slut because she has large breasts? Have other women experienced this? Depends really. Some women with big breast are sluts. It's easy. Their tits are like atm's. But I don't assume any woman is a slut because of her breast size. Unless she has fake porn star sized breast. For a normal woman to want breast that size tells me she has issues. So I wouldn't be interested under those conditions.

Darkfeather -> RE: Big breasts=slut? (4/13/2014 11:26:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ThePrincessKali quote: ORIGINAL: Darkfeather Wait, does that mean if a guy has a big penis women assume he is good in bed? Nope. See, that one word settled the argument for the male side, heh. Honestly, its that easy for the size of a woman's breasts

AthenaSurrenders -> RE: Big breasts=slut? (4/13/2014 11:47:25 PM)
fr If Big breasts=slut then I'm a total whore, as is my mother. I'm a natural 36G, she might even be a little bigger than that. But if we're sluts, we're doing a poor job of it since we've both been in monogamous marriages since we were 20 and 19 respectively. I'm not sure if people think big boobs = slut - most people would tell you that's absurd. (Leaving aside fake breasts which are so prevalent in the porn/celebrity circles some correlation might be drawn). But I think a lot of people, including other women, do tend to assume that if your breasts are on display, you're looking for sexual attention. And to be honest, big boobs are usually on display. High street clothes are made for women of a certain body type then sized up or down in proportion. I really struggle to find clothes that fit both boobs and waist because I'm out of those proportions - so a shirt that looks perfectly modest or unremarkable on another woman looks low cut or tight on me. A high necked shirt might not show skin, but it doesn't hide the considerable swell of big boobs. So unless I'm wearing a baggy sweater, you might think I'm deliberately flaunting what I've got. Which I almost never do, having been body-concious since the age of about 11 when grown men started eyeing up both me and my mother in the supermarket.

ThePrincessKali -> RE: Big breasts=slut? (4/14/2014 12:34:20 AM)
Athena I'm not that big but I have a fairly thin frame so my 36 C's look pretty big on me. So I understand what you're saying about proportion. And I also agree that wearing a simple tank too one would wear to go to the gym looks much more sexual if you have a big chest. My mother and Aunt are both busty and have had issues their whole lives with being self conscious by the unwanted attention a large chest brings. I just feel like people assume you're "showing them off" and trying to attract attention when in reality it's not the case at all

ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Big breasts=slut? (4/14/2014 3:26:35 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Darkfeather Wait, does that mean if a guy has a big penis women assume he is good in bed? NO. It means men with big penises think they are good in bed, and don't have to do anything to get a woman off other than bang around a bit. So sad. But then most men have no idea how to really make love to a woman. As for the topic, I've also had big breasts since I was 12 years old and began to develop. I literally had boys grabbing at my breasts in junior high. I've been at a meeting with my kid's principal when he never looked me in the eye, his were at breast level. There are way too many men who turn into complete idiots when they see big breasts. And no, it's not fun. It's why I've never understood women who get enlargements. What? You want this kind of attention? Again, sad.

CandiDanielz -> RE: Big breasts=slut? (4/14/2014 4:46:36 AM)
natural 34HH totally not a slut! lost my virginity in college, can count the number of guys ive slept with on one hand started to develop when i was 12 too, i started secondary school and developed the name tissue tits as guys assumed i must stuff my bra because no girl in school had large breasts. still waiting on my breast reduction referal. Wish i was a DD again :(

jlf1961 -> RE: Big breasts=slut? (4/14/2014 6:59:20 AM)
Actually, from what I have heard, naturally large breasts usually mean back pain. Artificially augmented breasts could mean a lot of things, from stripper to nut jobs who think large breasts = beauty. Personally, I am more attracted to women with smaller breasts. Not saying that women with naturally large breasts arent attractive, I just follow the old saying, "more than a mouthful is a waste."

DesFIP -> RE: Big breasts=slut? (4/14/2014 9:14:34 AM)
I have had the exact same experiences as the op. I'm a DDD now and although older, I still get hit on. However as the guys get older they do get less crude. It's not like I'm going to start binding them just to get through the grocery store. About the only good thing as a result of being heavier is that more guys look me in the eyes. Lose weight and they go straight back to staring at the chest. And this kind of nonsense when girls are developing is why I am a proponent of single sex high schools. It made life so much easier. Nobody cared what you wore. Teachers had to pick the girls to answer which meant you were accustomed to speaking when you got to college.

FieryOpal -> RE: Big breasts=slut? (4/14/2014 9:16:29 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: jlf1961 Actually, from what I have heard, naturally large breasts usually mean back pain. Artificially augmented breasts could mean a lot of things, from stripper to nut jobs who think large breasts = beauty. Personally, I am more attracted to women with smaller breasts. Not saying that women with naturally large breasts arent attractive, I just follow the old saying, "more than a mouthful is a waste." Before getting pregnant and shooting up to a D cup (larger when I was nursing) from the B I'd been since adolescence and so forth, my husband used to say "more than a handful is a waste." He had large hands. I used to wish my breasts were larger. I had gone through a phase as a student where I went braless, which I could afford to do at the time (not needing the support as much). I sat right in front of my Journalism teacher's desk, and I swear he spent most of the classroom time furtively glancing at my chest to catch a sight of hardened nipples through my top. Young girls do foolish things without really thinking. He did once give me a higher grade than I deserved one marking period when I had uncharacteristically been goofing off. My advice to young women wanting breast augmentation is to wait until your body changes naturally with motherhood before taking this risk, because you might find later that you don't need to go there.

thompsonx -> RE: Big breasts=slut? (4/14/2014 4:36:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Darkfeather Wait, does that mean if a guy has a big penis women assume he is good in bed? To be equivilant it would have to mean he would have to be a slut. A slut may or may not be good in bed.

SailingBum -> RE: Big breasts=slut? (4/14/2014 6:04:14 PM)
Following that assine logic. All tall men play basketball. All jews are rich. Most Hispanic are illegals. And the beat goes on.... BadOne

LookieNoNookie -> RE: Big breasts=slut? (4/14/2014 9:33:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ThePrincessKali This is a topic I have dealt with since I was a young teenager. I would like to get some males point of view on this as well as women. I know I started a similar topic recently on sexual harassment of women but this is a bit different. Do you assume that because a woman has a large bust that she is automatically "easy" or a slut? I mean obviously (plastic surgery aside) someone's bust size is genetic so logically that wouldn't make sense. It's essentially that same as assuming because someone was born with blonde hair that they're stupid. But I have fought against this since I was about 14 years old and started "developing." It was rumored that I was a slut when I was in high school, even though the most I had done sexually with a guy was kiss until I was a senior and it was all because I had a big chest. I've been accused of "looking like a hooker" because I was wearing a fitted top or moderately low cut top because of my breast size. Even when I'm with girls wearing much more provocative tops who had smaller boobs. I have had men tell me to my face I had "a great rack." And after saying it was rude and have had responses like, "well you shouldn't have them out then." I don't dress overly provocative. I mean I don't wear turtlenecks every day but why should I have to? So think about it, even if it's subconscious, do you assume a woman is a slut because she has large breasts? Have other women experienced this? Princess, I totally get it....completely. You have an unusual, not horrifying, but aside from the general populace, something a bit distinct...some may call it a gift....I too have been frustrated (having the 3rd largest penis on Earth....I actually am only one of 7 men on the planet that can actually come....several hours before I even arrive). It is a dilemma. Personally, I've learned to deal with it.

ThePrincessKali -> RE: Big breasts=slut? (4/14/2014 11:39:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie quote: ORIGINAL: ThePrincessKali This is a topic I have dealt with since I was a young teenager. I would like to get some males point of view on this as well as women. I know I started a similar topic recently on sexual harassment of women but this is a bit different. Do you assume that because a woman has a large bust that she is automatically "easy" or a slut? I mean obviously (plastic surgery aside) someone's bust size is genetic so logically that wouldn't make sense. It's essentially that same as assuming because someone was born with blonde hair that they're stupid. But I have fought against this since I was about 14 years old and started "developing." It was rumored that I was a slut when I was in high school, even though the most I had done sexually with a guy was kiss until I was a senior and it was all because I had a big chest. I've been accused of "looking like a hooker" because I was wearing a fitted top or moderately low cut top because of my breast size. Even when I'm with girls wearing much more provocative tops who had smaller boobs. I have had men tell me to my face I had "a great rack." And after saying it was rude and have had responses like, "well you shouldn't have them out then." I don't dress overly provocative. I mean I don't wear turtlenecks every day but why should I have to? So think about it, even if it's subconscious, do you assume a woman is a slut because she has large breasts? Have other women experienced this? Princess, I totally get it....completely. You have an unusual, not horrifying, but aside from the general populace, something a bit distinct...some may call it a gift....I too have been frustrated (having the 3rd largest penis on Earth....I actually am only one of 7 men on the planet that can actually come....several hours before I even arrive). It is a dilemma. Personally, I've learned to deal with it. Care to share what your personal problem with me is that you feel the need to write nasty comments on every thread I start?

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