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Help Please! sub requiring ideas to please... - 4/17/2014 7:03:05 AM   
briefNcounters


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Status: offline 		As a sub about to meet with a new Master for the first time (following on from lengthy and intense online & telephone discussions) I would ask any experienced Masters who may be inclined to help if They might offer some suggestions. My new Master has indicated that He likes to 'give my sub the freedom to find innovative ways to pleasure her Master' once discipline is dealt with, and I am a bit lost as to how I might do this in 'innovative' ways that will set me apart from his other, previous subs. My aim is to please as best I can (of course) but also to please better than any other before me.

I would appreciate any advice from any Master/s who feel they may be able to help this sub on her journey.

Respectfully,
subK.
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RE: Help Please! sub requiring ideas to please... - 4/17/2014 7:11:26 AM   
freedomdwarf1


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Status: offline 		Every master will be different, just like personalities in real life.

Only your master can really tell you what actually pleases him and trip his triggers.

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RE: Help Please! sub requiring ideas to please... - 4/17/2014 7:46:36 AM   
AthenaSurrenders


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Status: offline 		At the risk of giving you a boring answer, I'd say the first meet really needs to be about chemistry, getting to know each other, checking that you are both what you claimed to be online.

Until you get to know him, you don't have a chance in hell of guessing ways to please him that others haven't thought of before.
You bake him a pie - turns out he hates blueberries
You write him an essay on the history of e-stim - he doesn't want to sit down and read it
You book tickets to the opera - he's more of a monster truck kind of guy

The cynical side of me suspects that he wants your innovative way of pleasing him to be 'turn up wearing no panties, give him a bj in the car park' but hey, maybe I'm wrong.

After reading your profile, I'm guessing this is a fuck-buddy type arrangement, so yeh, I'd go with the no panties plan. Innovative or not, if this is primarily a kinky sex encounter, then what he wants to be offered is sex.

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RE: Help Please! sub requiring ideas to please... - 4/17/2014 8:40:21 AM   
Chwilfrydig


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Status: offline 		I like to answer the specific question that is asked, so here are my suggestions. Like AthenaSurrenders, I am making the assumption that "innovative ways to pleasure her Master" = blow job.

First off, as soon as he reveals his wankie say something along the lines of "Oh my LORD, I have never seen anything so magnificent!" Kneel before him and tease it for ten minutes with a peacock feather. Next, prepare a bowl of ice water and a bowl of hot water. Alternate stroking him lightly with cold, then hot hands. Next, take a sable paintbrush and coat his wankie with a light layer of honey - not too thick. Gaze adoringly up at him now and then while you paint. Then break out the container of fire ants, which I've recently learned (from this very forum) you can purchase online. Dump the fire ants on his wankie and tell him he's a very lazy Master and that you don't put cock in your mouth until you've determined that 1) there is physical chemistry and 2) he has earned your devotion through HIS innovative ways of dominance.

Please note that this is what I would like to do in this situation. If you're OK with his attitude, then delete step five and enjoy yourself.

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RE: Help Please! sub requiring ideas to please... - 4/17/2014 8:55:54 AM   
AthenaSurrenders


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Status: offline 		Great ideas but.... aren't peacock feather's unlucky? Ostrich might bode better for a good first date.

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RE: Help Please! sub requiring ideas to please... - 4/17/2014 10:11:35 AM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		Slow down. You've never even met the guy. No need to figure out dynamics with him yet.

I confess that I feel uncomfortable that you're specifically looking for ways to differentiate yourself from his previous subs. The best way go do that is if you're in his present and they're in his past.

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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

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RE: Help Please! sub requiring ideas to please... - 4/17/2014 10:34:05 AM   
searching4mysir


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So you are 50 and married and can't figure this shit out yet? You aren't his first "sub" and you won't be his last either. He is looking for either sex or a BJ. If that is all you want too, fine, but don't try to dress it up under the guise of "submission".

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RE: Help Please! sub requiring ideas to please... - 4/17/2014 10:38:06 AM   
FieryOpal


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Chwilfrydig

I like to answer the specific question that is asked, so here are my suggestions. Like AthenaSurrenders, I am making the assumption that "innovative ways to pleasure her Master" = blow job.

First off, as soon as he reveals his wankie say something along the lines of "Oh my LORD, I have never seen anything so magnificent!" Kneel before him and tease it for ten minutes with a peacock feather. Next, prepare a bowl of ice water and a bowl of hot water. Alternate stroking him lightly with cold, then hot hands. Next, take a sable paintbrush and coat his wankie with a light layer of honey - not too thick. Gaze adoringly up at him now and then while you paint. Then break out the container of fire ants, which I've recently learned (from this very forum) you can purchase online. Dump the fire ants on his wankie and tell him he's a very lazy Master and that you don't put cock in your mouth until you've determined that 1) there is physical chemistry and 2) he has earned your devotion through HIS innovative ways of dominance.

Please note that this is what I would like to do in this situation. If you're OK with his attitude, then delete step five and enjoy yourself.

ROFLMAO--I can't even type right now....
The red highlighted part is killing me!

briefNcounters, please repeat after us: On line is not real. Nothing is real until you meet.
Your cyber "Master" is not your *real* Master YET. He is a man with whom you are acquainted and will be meeting for the first time on an introductory date. You owe him NOTHING.
Let me repeat that again. NOTHING. He's the man, have him prove himself to YOU as deserving of your submission.

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There is no remedy for love but to love more. - Thoreau

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RE: Help Please! sub requiring ideas to please... - 4/17/2014 10:48:59 AM   
SeekingTrinity


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From: The 'burbs of Portland, OR
Status: offline 		~FRing it~

I think this is a pretty impossible task for someone who hasn't yet met the person whom you are supposed to figure out innovative ways of pleasuring. It's akin to being expected to expertly perform cardiac surgery without ever having even studied the heart. How are you to honestly know of what past subs did to please him to be able to set yourself apart? And why are you being held to past standards anyway? I'm sure you see what Im saying. I think this is honestly putting way too much pressure on you because it's a task that right now is pretty much an impossibility. In my honest opinion, I think a dominant should set his/her submissive up to succeed.

To personalize this, I couldn't have pleased my guy expertly when we first met. But spending 2 years together has made it easy. I know what foods he likes and his drink preferences. I know how warm he likes his bath or shower water. I know just the right way to touch him when I give him a massage so that I can put him in a state of mind where he loses track of time for a bit. I know when he needs a sounding board to talk about things on his mind. I know when to do what I do to help him transition from Type A business professional mind to relaxation mind.

It took time, a desire to learn on both our parts, and an understanding of who we both are to make our connection. I hope yours gives you that same time

< Message edited by SeekingTrinity -- 4/17/2014 10:49:37 AM >

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RE: Help Please! sub requiring ideas to please... - 4/17/2014 11:12:56 AM   
Chwilfrydig


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quote:

ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders

Great ideas but.... aren't peacock feather's unlucky? Ostrich might bode better for a good first date.


You're right. Looking at it from his perspective, let me change it to: a peacock feather if she's carrying ants and an ostrich feather if she's not.

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RE: Help Please! sub requiring ideas to please... - 4/17/2014 11:57:51 AM   
SailingBum


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Status: offline 		The OP has updated her profile she is now"under consideration". I guess that means her guy is considering if she sucks cock in a innovative fashion...

BadOne

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RE: Help Please! sub requiring ideas to please... - 4/17/2014 1:54:45 PM   
JstAnotherSub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Chwilfrydig

I like to answer the specific question that is asked, so here are my suggestions. Like AthenaSurrenders, I am making the assumption that "innovative ways to pleasure her Master" = blow job.

First off, as soon as he reveals his wankie say something along the lines of "Oh my LORD, I have never seen anything so magnificent!" Kneel before him and tease it for ten minutes with a peacock feather. Next, prepare a bowl of ice water and a bowl of hot water. Alternate stroking him lightly with cold, then hot hands. Next, take a sable paintbrush and coat his wankie with a light layer of honey - not too thick. Gaze adoringly up at him now and then while you paint. Then break out the container of fire ants, which I've recently learned (from this very forum) you can purchase online. Dump the fire ants on his wankie and tell him he's a very lazy Master and that you don't put cock in your mouth until you've determined that 1) there is physical chemistry and 2) he has earned your devotion through HIS innovative ways of dominance.

Please note that this is what I would like to do in this situation. If you're OK with his attitude, then delete step five and enjoy yourself.

Dammit this is EXACTLY what I was gonna type!

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RE: Help Please! sub requiring ideas to please... - 4/17/2014 6:35:27 PM   
petitespot


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From: Surfside Beach, SC
Status: offline 		Just blow him. He'll like that. Or let him fuck you up the ass. He'll like that too.

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RE: Help Please! sub requiring ideas to please... - 4/17/2014 7:08:08 PM   
loverly


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Status: offline 		Seriously !! I was going to say Everything pretty much that was already typed but then my more maternal side kicked in and i have to say... DO NOT DO ANYTHING WITH THIS MAN BUT HAVE A NICE LUNCH/DINNER somewhere public until you Really get to know him!! You can talk to a person online and on the phone and he can tell you ANYTHING and it could all be a LIE(and probably some of it is!)! I would be much more concerned with finding a Safe Call in the area you will be that you can trust than worrying about what will please this man...YOU DO NOT KNOW HIM! People have died meeting people they have never met. How do you know he will inspire you to want to Do anything to/with him? Have you asked him that? What HE has to offer to you for your pleasure? *Sighs* Seriously??!! Where is your common sense? And since i know you will ignore all of this good advice... i suggest you go without panties.. kneel in the parking lot in a dark corner telling him how wonderful and masterful he is while he shoves his (probably smallish) penis into your face and degrades you before he leaves you at the bus/train station and goes on to the next "submissive" on his list that he has been chatting with. Oh.. I would eat dinner first.. you might as well get something out of it! No Dom/Master who would respect you would ever ask you to DO anything for him on a first time meet...Seriously!

Do you know this man? ever seen him interact with people? Know about his family? met them? Would you want your daughter to do this?

Just my thoughts.. I wish you good luck!

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RE: Help Please! sub requiring ideas to please... - 4/17/2014 7:15:17 PM   
Aynne88


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quote:

ORIGINAL: petitespot

Just blow him. He'll like that. Or let him fuck you up the ass. He'll like that too.


lol..this. Oh and remember to bring your "sister sub" too. Good luck!

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RE: Help Please! sub requiring ideas to please... - 4/17/2014 9:19:21 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		You haven't even met yet, and he's already announced you need to be 'disciplined'. Considering you don't know him from Adam, his belief he has the right to punish you shows he's an idiot.

Why would you want to please someone who admits he is unable to tell or teach you what he likes.

So if you bake him an apple pie and he prefers cherry, will you get 'disciplined'?

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RE: Help Please! sub requiring ideas to please... - 4/17/2014 9:41:30 PM   
Spiritedsub2


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Upon reading the OP, I am reminded of the guy on fl who just posted his confession of having created a dozen socks on CM recently, the Cindys, LorraineCA, MasterRobert007, etc.

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RE: Help Please! sub requiring ideas to please... - 4/18/2014 2:07:44 AM   
CelticPrince


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quote:

ORIGINAL: briefNcounters

As a sub about to meet with a new Master for the first time (following on from lengthy and intense online & telephone discussions) I would ask any experienced Masters who may be inclined to help if They might offer some suggestions. My new Master has indicated that He likes to 'give my sub the freedom to find innovative ways to pleasure her Master' once discipline is dealt with, and I am a bit lost as to how I might do this in 'innovative' ways that will set me apart from his other, previous subs. My aim is to please as best I can (of course) but also to please better than any other before me.

I would appreciate any advice from any Master/s who feel they may be able to help this sub on her journey.

Respectfully,


K,

Normally there are a ton of clues presented during the on line phase of this coupling, and if you think back there nay be some clues there. Trust me the expectations will be sex orientated so focus on that to "please" him.

CP

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RE: Help Please! sub requiring ideas to please... - 4/18/2014 7:17:53 AM   
briefNcounters


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Status: offline 		Well, thank you all. I asked advice and seems I set myself up for ridicule, Not entirely what was expected. It appears I was naive to think the community might take an honest interest. Many thanks to Celtic Prince for standing apart. Brief.

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RE: Help Please! sub requiring ideas to please... - 4/18/2014 7:40:02 AM   
BBBTBW


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Status: offline 		Another one bites the Dust.

You were given excellent advice based upon the information given. The advice was given out of experience. It was advice for your safety as well as your mental and emotional stability. It seems as if you are just a HORNDOGETTE going for the HORNDOG. Go for what you know. It seems as if you didn't really want advice at all, you just wanted to air your affair in a public forum. Mission Accomplished.

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