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ORIGINAL: FieryOpal

Btw, it's called thread drift, and this is allowed. Once your opening post goes out, it takes on a life of its own.

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ORIGINAL: littlebuck

All of it did not copy, but please note the last line in my original post:

Question posed: is orgasm tease and denial an effective training technique to teach obedience and servitude to a submissive/slave?

Please share your thoughts with me.

Note: the focus of this discussion is pleasing HER, not to fulfill his own kink.

If, as you say, the focus of this discussion is on pleasing the Domme, then hearken to what we have been saying.

We use tease & denial techniques, including edging and which can, but don't necessarily include ruined orgasm (that's more a guy thing also), because we enjoy being teases. It doesn't get more complicated than that. There is no "training technique" in mind, in the majority of cases.
Those with the heart of a submissive/slave don't need to be taught "obedience and servitude."
Being obedient and wishing to serve come naturally to them, when they are matched with a Mistress who inspires their submission.

You should reread johnny's post, which has already gotten a positive response from three women, then perhaps memorize this portion: "... but if I love a woman and care for her, I am willing to serve her no matter how many or how few orgasms I had."

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ORIGINAL: littlebuck

Oh, so you have the right to take what I say out of context and make me out to be somebody that I am not?

BTW I did read johnny's post. I do not need for you to claim that I did not do so.

Obviously you feel comfortable attacking other posters based upon a whim, a supposition or just for the hell of it.

Now I have no problems with a discussion opening up and expanding, that is fine. I do have problems of people trying to do a smear job on me. I can assure you that if you ever tried something like that to me face to face that your resulting experience would not be enjoyable. Go ahead and play your game; I am not buying into it.

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Men tend to think with their penises and not with their brains and hearts. The man becomes stimulated and ... off he goes - to the dismay of his mistress.

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His disobedience to his mistress greatly hinders the relationship, something which must be avoided.

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She makes him understand that being kept in a long term state of orgasm tease and denial teaches him obedience, submission and servitude towards his mistress, and that he truly is devoted to serving HER

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Now I have no problems with a discussion opening up and expanding, that is fine. I do have problems of people trying to do a smear job on me. I can assure you that if you ever tried something like that to me face to face that your resulting experience would not be enjoyable. Go ahead and play your game; I am not buying into it.