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RE: Masochists, what's the best thing to say to you? - 4/26/2014 7:38:30 PM   
masmiss


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Status: offline 		I don't know anything about this particular fetish but any way I look at it it seems to be a very dangerous activity. Punching someone hard enough and repeatedly enough to be considered "exercise" could seriously injure a person. I'm thinking emergency room type injuries.

Not surprised you're not getting too many welcome responses.

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RE: Masochists, what's the best thing to say to you? - 4/26/2014 8:45:34 PM   
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< Message edited by thishereboi -- 4/26/2014 8:46:42 PM >

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RE: Masochists, what's the best thing to say to you? - 4/26/2014 9:40:33 PM   
hlen5


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ORIGINAL: poise


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ORIGINAL: stebbinsd


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ORIGINAL: poise

Well let's see...you aren't getting the responses you want, so you want people who don't know anything about you except
that you want a human punching bag or three to suggest things to say to someone that they also don't know in order for you to get
your jollies. Hence, you want some magic script that someone else thinks up for you.

Wow... snappy!

You know, you may be used to talking that way to submissive men, since you're the authority in that relationship, but in case you haven't noticed, I'm a dom. I expect to be treated as an equal.

Hahahahahahaha! Don't worry, when you are my equal, I will treat you as such.
Until then, you are here for advice. Take it or fuck off.




Stebbinsd,

My hat is off to you. You, among so many, have actually gotten Poise, of all people, to tell you to take it or fuck off. Consider that an achievement by itself!

What you are NOT HEARING is that women don't trust men who aren't safe. Any one who thinks of me as "exercise" can keep right on going by. You obviously have no experience and will not get any if you keep your current attitude. How's that working out for you so far??

Speaking for myself, I prefer to keep my kidneys intact.

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RE: Masochists, what's the best thing to say to you? - 4/26/2014 10:16:55 PM   
Spiritedsub2


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ORIGINAL: stebbinsd
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...but in case you haven't noticed, I'm a dom. I expect to be treated as an equal.

This is hilarious! I am Dom, hear me roar (through my keyboard)


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RE: Masochists, what's the best thing to say to you? - 4/27/2014 12:17:34 AM   
Bunnicula


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Status: offline 		I'm a masochist, and I read your trainwreck of a profile from beginning to end. In fact, I read it twice because I couldn't quite believe what I'd just read!

Man, you really need to keep that thing EXACTLY as it is, grammatical errors and all.

I mean, it's the funniest thing I've read for a long time!

It IS a joke profile, right?

Right??






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RE: Masochists, what's the best thing to say to you? - 4/27/2014 4:56:37 AM   
InHisHeart


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Status: offline 		Awww.......a domly dom throwing a hissy fit.

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RE: Masochists, what's the best thing to say to you? - 4/27/2014 8:53:50 AM   
Lynnxz


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ORIGINAL: Killerangel


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ORIGINAL: stebbinsd


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ORIGINAL: DominantWoman65

Call me crazy but perhaps women in general, masochist or not, feel that being a human punching bag is a huge turn off.

No, I have found a few profiles on here that are like that. Here are just a few, to prove it:
(profile links removed)


Those profiles are either scams or men or both, they prove nothing.


I think the last one is for real. I flipped though the pictures.


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RE: Masochists, what's the best thing to say to you? - 4/27/2014 9:40:07 AM   
Killerangel


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ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

I think the last one is for real. I flipped though the pictures.



Amazingly enough, in the last profile her owners have decided to discard her and are 'bored of her', so she needs a new owner- one of the oldest scams around. They've also tasked her with getting 'clients'. She can cure herself of any injury since she knows acupuncture and Chinese herbs, and also says that it's ok to kill her.

Sure, "she" could be real, but I'd bet money that she's making bucks off people like the OP who don't seem to know anything about BDSM at all, and just as much about relationships in the online world.

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RE: Masochists, what's the best thing to say to you? - 4/27/2014 10:05:38 AM   
poise


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ORIGINAL: hlen5
Stebbinsd,

My hat is off to you. You, among so many, have actually gotten Poise, of all people, to tell you to take it or fuck off. Consider that an achievement by itself!

I would like to apologize for my poor choice of words in responding, as it is very uncharacteristic of me to use foul language.
This time however, my keyboard apparently overpowered me, and I had no choice but to submit.
I hope I've not offended anyone.

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RE: Masochists, what's the best thing to say to you? - 4/27/2014 10:10:13 AM   
freedomdwarf1


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ORIGINAL: poise

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ORIGINAL: hlen5
Stebbinsd,

My hat is off to you. You, among so many, have actually gotten Poise, of all people, to tell you to take it or fuck off. Consider that an achievement by itself!

I would like to apologize for my poor choice of words in responding, as it is very uncharacteristic of me to use foul language.
This time however, my keyboard apparently overpowered me, and I had no choice but to submit.
I hope I've not offended anyone.

Way ta go poise!!
No offense at all.
And for once, nice to see you riled up enough to not sit on the fence

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RE: Masochists, what's the best thing to say to you? - 4/27/2014 10:11:59 AM   
Moderator3


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If you haven't already gotten gold on this one, I wouldn't worry about it.

Have a wonderful day!

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RE: Masochists, what's the best thing to say to you? - 4/27/2014 10:30:48 AM   
poise


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RE: Masochists, what's the best thing to say to you? - 4/27/2014 10:43:46 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		And the little boy has pulled his profile and gone home to his mommy's basement to sulk.



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RE: Masochists, what's the best thing to say to you? - 4/27/2014 10:55:10 AM   
MsLadySue


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RE: Masochists, what's the best thing to say to you? - 4/27/2014 11:05:24 AM   
Moderator3


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Status: offline 		FR and this isn't because of the last posters.

Let's not beat up on the OP. Everyone has an opinion and some debate is expected, but he has the same right to post as anyone else. I am trying for a bit less in moderation and while I still enforce TOS and Guidelines, I hope to not be a hard rear end about it. What I posted wasn't meant as permission for a free-for-all. Maybe this is my mistake, but as we go along, things will even out and you will see a consistency in how things go.

Now, I have a meeting to get to. Have a wonderful day!

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RE: Masochists, what's the best thing to say to you? - 4/28/2014 9:31:56 AM   
orgasmdenial12


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ORIGINAL: stebbinsd
I'm looking for a household of about two or three masochistic painsluts who I can use as human punching bags for exercise.


Not that. It makes you sound like a domestic abuser.

Masochists are in a lot of demand because we tend to be more play / sensation oriented, which a lot of Doms like. We enjoy what we do and are often more upfront about what we want, making us easy and fun to play with. We can be a lot more intense than other submissives, and a lot of Doms like going to that deeper level with a play partner.

Your profile was reasonable until this part:

quote:

I'm looking to take it to the next level: A few 24/7 live-in slaves, with new names that I give them, all of them at my beck and call 24/7/365. Human punching bags get special consideration. [...] by the way, if I enslave you, you'll be monogamous, but I won't).


One of the things I love about being a masochist is that I can satisfy my kink on without feeling the need to be controlled by anyone. So why would a masochist want to submit to all those restrictions, when they can play without them? I like my name, thanks very much, and if you're not going to be monogamous, then why should I? I do submit, but I wouldn't on those terms.

I think you need to be clearer about what you want - is it a submissive, a slave or a masochist?

I think you need to recognise that very few masochists are into being punched (and those who are, often like punching back - aka wrestling or primal).

I think you need to downgrade your expectations about name changing and one-sided polygamy - few slaves have anything to gain by entering into that relationship.

Finally, remember that submissives, slaves and masochists are all in demand. Unless you're offering something that they want, then they'll simply look elsewhere. What can you offer a slave that's different to or better than what other Doms are offering?

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RE: Masochists, what's the best thing to say to you? - 4/28/2014 11:54:35 PM   
metamorfosis


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ORIGINAL: stebbinsd
So, what should I say to them at the start of the message to pigue their interest and get them to read and respond?


Q: How do you punish a masochist?
A: You don't.


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RE: Masochists, what's the best thing to say to you? - 4/29/2014 5:04:06 PM   
kiwisub12


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Status: offline 		OP - I am a submissive and a masochist. I am in a purely masochistic relationship, and the main thing I looked for was a man that I could enjoy life with - not just the play.
You need to address prospective masochists as people first and masochists second, especially if you want them as live-in. You need to be able to convey who you are as a person right away. Any one can do the sadist thing - but it takes a special person to keep the attention of the opposite sex for any length of time.

Now if you are looking for a submissive masochist, then you need to address both of those facets of their personality.

and you need to remember that we are people before all. We look for personality, rather than what you can do.

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RE: Masochists, what's the best thing to say to you? - 4/30/2014 5:13:26 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Additionally, if you want three live in people, you need a house big enough for them. Do you?
Since they're going to be sporting bruises and contusions, and be in pain frequently enough that they won't be able to keep a steady job, you need an income sufficient to support all of them.

That includes health insurance. And since with these kinds of frequent injuries, you should expect to be reported to the police by the ER on an ongoing basis, you need a top notch lawyer. Can you afford the retainer for a good criminal attorney to be on call for you?

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RE: Masochists, what's the best thing to say to you? - 6/7/2014 5:37:32 PM   
slaveoubliette


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Status: offline 		read the profile often these highly valued masochist are already taken it is as simple as that

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