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RE: why are all mistressess not using diapers for disci... - 5/2/2014 7:20:30 AM

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But I bet if Peon here decided he wanted to do some diaper play, he would have no problem finding someone to indulge him.

Thank you for that, Athena. I can honestly say that I've never received that compliment before.

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RE: why are all mistressess not using diapers for disci... - 5/2/2014 7:47:43 AM

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Diapers are for incontinent humans so what would the Mistress be restricting you from? Oh, you mean you want to be made to keep a dry diaper? but if you can remain dry what's the point of a diaper? or did you mean you want to feel humiliated? what has that got to do with training? and what's in it for the Mistress who knows full well this isn't humiliating at all for you because as you declare, its on your BIG wish list.

There are sites that have been specifically built for adult babies, scat play and diaper play. You should google them and go and take a browse. If its your fetish then cool, I sincerely hope you find the woman of your dreams. What you can't do is stamp your feet when a dominant woman on here shows no interest in "Your" fetish.

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RE: why are all mistressess not using diapers for disci... - 5/2/2014 7:51:46 AM

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How would a diaper serve as a chastity device? When it can just be removed and replaced.

I'm not selfish, just stubborn and usually right.

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RE: why are all mistressess not using diapers for disci... - 5/2/2014 8:33:12 AM

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Since your fetish is wearing diapers and humiliation, why would a Mistress use something you find erotic as discipline?

I love a good flogging so Master wouldn't flog me as discipline because I like it. How would giving me something I enjoy be discipline? It's very rare when he needs to discipline me but on those rare occasions, one of his punishments is making me cook dinner. He enjoys cooking and he does 90% of the cooking, he knows I hate cooking but he's made me cook dinner for X amount of days as discipline when he felt I needed to be disciplined. Whatever I did that warranted the discipline of having to cook will sure as hell get me not to do that again any time soon.

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RE: why are all mistressess not using diapers for disci... - 5/2/2014 8:40:45 AM

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Actually, that's only HALF true.

Diapers very often have THERAPEUTIC VALUE as a way to establish a headspace of "safety", softness and the (brief) return to a time when someone ELSE was the one in charge, PROTECTING.
Many AB's have high stress jobs (doctors, lawyers, corrections officers, etc.) or have suffered mental trauma (PTSD sufferers) and being a "little" is a way to wash away some of the stress for a period of time so the mind can get a break. Other people seek out drugs and alcohol, which I consider far less acceptable.

I have, on occasion, "prescribed" diapers to specific subs who were suffering chronic insomnia and nightmares. It actually improved the situation temporarily so they could get some much needed rest.

Also, just because someone enjoys wearing diapers (soft and fluffy feeling of safety), doesn't mean they like MESSING in them. Same thing, just because a Domme has Her subs wearing diapers doesn't mean She allows them to soil them (personally, you soil in it, I'll cram it down your fucking throat and make you EAT it, and thereafter you are BANNED).

Some Dommes use diapers to MAKE a sub soil it (that in itself can be humiliation). This would put it in the "pushing limits" category. Some do, some don't.

I don't specifically diaper My subs...but if they are proving themselves useful (Tasks, Projects) I will *REWARD* them by ALLOWING them to wear diapers, or a dress, or a costume, or whatever, so long as their Tasks don't suffer and they don't cross MY Hard Limits. D/s is not just about Punishment. Rewards for being an especially GOOD BOY (or girl) should factor in as well.

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ORIGINAL: OriginalRebel

Diapers are for incontinent humans so what would the Mistress be restricting you from? Oh, you mean you want to be made to keep a dry diaper? but if you can remain dry what's the point of a diaper? or did you mean you want to feel humiliated? what has that got to do with training? and what's in it for the Mistress who knows full well this isn't humiliating at all for you because as you declare, its on your BIG wish list.

There are sites that have been specifically built for adult babies, scat play and diaper play. You should google them and go and take a browse. If its your fetish then cool, I sincerely hope you find the woman of your dreams. What you can't do is stamp your feet when a dominant woman on here shows no interest in "Your" fetish.

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RE: why are all mistressess not using diapers for disci... - 5/2/2014 8:45:50 AM

MAINEiacMISTRESS

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Actually, that's only HALF true.

Diapers very often have THERAPEUTIC VALUE as a way to establish a headspace of "safety", softness and the (brief) return to a time when someone ELSE was the one in charge, PROTECTING.
Many AB's have high stress jobs (doctors, lawyers, corrections officers, etc.) or have suffered mental trauma (PTSD sufferers) and being a "little" is a way to wash away some of the stress for a period of time so the mind can get a break. Other people seek out drugs and alcohol, which I consider far less acceptable.

I've actually "prescribed" diapers for specific subs who were suffering insomnia and nightmares. They did seem to improve those issues temporarily so My subs could get some much needed sleep.

Also, just because someone enjoys wearing diapers (soft and fluffy feeling of safety), doesn't mean they like MESSING in them. Same thing, just because a Domme has Her subs wearing diapers doesn't mean She allows them to soil them (personally, you soil in it, I'll cram it down your fucking throat and make you EAT it, and thereafter you are BANNED).

Some Dommes use diapers to MAKE a sub soil it (that in itself can be humiliation). This would put it in the "pushing limits" category. Some do, some don't.

I don't specifically diaper My subs...but if they are proving themselves useful (Tasks, Projects) I will *REWARD* them by ALLOWING them to wear diapers, or a dress, or a costume, or whatever, so long as their Tasks don't suffer and they don't cross MY Hard Limits. D/s is not just about Punishment. Rewards for being an especially GOOD BOY (or girl) should factor in as well.

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ORIGINAL: OriginalRebel

Diapers are for incontinent humans so what would the Mistress be restricting you from? Oh, you mean you want to be made to keep a dry diaper? but if you can remain dry what's the point of a diaper? or did you mean you want to feel humiliated? what has that got to do with training? and what's in it for the Mistress who knows full well this isn't humiliating at all for you because as you declare, its on your BIG wish list.

There are sites that have been specifically built for adult babies, scat play and diaper play. You should google them and go and take a browse. If its your fetish then cool, I sincerely hope you find the woman of your dreams. What you can't do is stamp your feet when a dominant woman on here shows no interest in "Your" fetish.

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RE: why are all mistressess not using diapers for disci... - 5/2/2014 8:48:44 AM

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You should research fetishes in this community before you go around giving them to everyone. "AgePlay" is concerned with diapers. I Dom adults not babies and that fetish isnt my kink nor would I indulge in that. Theres nothing "erotic" or arousing about acting like an infant and nothing related to infancy or being juvenile do I mix with kink - I personally would feel like a perv/pedo. No thanx.

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RE: why are all mistressess not using diapers for disci... - 5/2/2014 9:01:06 AM

MAINEiacMISTRESS

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Actually diapers can be rigged with a secure padlock (I require locking chastity devices on all subs when they are here Serving). Talk to My sub, dannydoo about the gadget he made to lock his diaper. He may even have photos posted. I know he does on FL.
It definitely works, as he's had a few close calls. LMAO. I recommend standard chastity cages for that reason, at least subs can still use the toilet if Mistress misplaces their key. (oops)

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ORIGINAL: Sexyladydee

How would a diaper serve as a chastity device? When it can just be removed and replaced.

I'm not selfish, just stubborn and usually right.

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