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Looking forward - 5/3/2014 6:21:09 PM

dmleeusa

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I find it difficult to take seriously any responder who has pictures of his private parts in his profile. So, this is my introduction. I hope you agree, that unless you are looking for a quick hookup, a one night stand, or a a pimp, legitimate tops should be scanning a sub's state of mind and willingness to serve. The body pics can come later. This is a great site and look forward to hearing from sincere people.

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RE: Looking forward - 5/3/2014 7:27:09 PM

Rasciallymisty

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Hello and welcome to the discussion forum where we talk about a wide variety of subjects ranging from relationship issues to exchanging recipes. If you have any questions, we have a Search feature that will help you find past threads on just about any topic you can imagine. Take a look around and see what we are all about and if a topic interest you, then join in and tell us your thoughts and feelings. ......Good luck in your search.

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RE: Looking forward - 5/4/2014 6:00:42 AM

alicerabbit

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I agree with you. Unless I give a sub permission, I don't want to see it. Then again, subs seek me out so I get to avoid sifting through those photos.

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RE: Looking forward - 5/6/2014 12:21:30 PM

dmleeusa

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Posting nude with sexually explicit pictures is both personally gratifying and an offering in the hopes of being rewarded with a compliment. These elements are not consistent with the core of a submissive. The arguments about what makes a true Dom or true sub go on and on, but the basic elements are clearly defined. Sure, we want to know what you look like, but at the same time it must be when the Dom is ready to require it. Most subs take for granted the needs of the Dom, and what pleases the Dom - and usually get it wrong.

- Can I serve him or her at all times?
- Am I willing and able to make a total commitment to him or her?
- Am I proud of myself for serving selflessly, honestly and sincerely?
- Am I willing do do all that he or she asks of me?
- Am I ready to love him or her as I am loved?
and lastly
- Do I think I am a good match to a particular him or her, both physically and mentally?

This last point sounds like a paradox, but I think its important to ensuring the comfort level of the sub as well as for the Dom. And, after all the other questions are answered, might come the request for a picture....

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RE: Looking forward - 5/6/2014 5:28:10 PM

NiceButMeanGirl

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Hi dmleeusa.

Welcome to CM & the forums. I do agree w/ you about the body parts pics.

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