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RE: Subs going out of their way to send rude messages - 5/9/2014 4:10:05 AM

vestigialwilly

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Anyone who reads your profile find themselves being called a pig. So you may not understand why someone writes you a rude message, you have to realize that you you've gone out of your way to write a rude profile.

Then if one doesnt like being called a pig dont get into a relationship with her. Its there to turn on people who LIKE to be called pigs. If you dont, then obviously she isnt what one is looking for.

I would much prefer someone be upfront on their profile what they are than hide it. I have had a few I have messaged (politely) return with a "piggy" laden reply that was in no way solicited from my message or expected from the profile. That is I feel only slightly less rude than the people who just send rude first messages.

The Findomme/Pay Princess/Piggy scene is definitely my thing but there's never a reason to be rude to someone you've never spoke to before.

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RE: Subs going out of their way to send rude messages - 5/9/2014 2:10:07 PM

evesgrden

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ORIGINAL: CobaltRose

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ORIGINAL: evesgrden

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Anyone who reads your profile find themselves being called a pig. So you may not understand why someone writes you a rude message, you have to realize that you you've gone out of your way to write a rude profile.

Then if one doesnt like being called a pig dont get into a relationship with her. Its there to turn on people who LIKE to be called pigs. If you dont, then obviously she isnt what one is looking for.

Saying that you are looking for a pig is qualitatively different than addressing any reader who clicks on your profile as a pig. She wants to know why she gets rude messages when her first communication with anyone who happens by is also extremely rude. Some get off on that, some don't.

And clearly, some take quite a bit of offense at it and offend right back. It's a silly thing to do, but I'm certainly not at all surprised that it's happening.

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RE: Subs going out of their way to send rude messages - 5/9/2014 4:14:37 PM

flss1

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I think people, that resort to that type of behavior, are just pathetic, miserable people with nothing better to do. I certainly wouldn't let it bother me in the least. This site, as I'm sure all others, is inundated with phonies, bs'ers and rude people. Some of us would like to think that, although we all don't share the same interests, we do share the love of the lifestyle and should treat each other with some degree of respect. I don't understand people that can't extend the common courtesy of a "no thanks" when someone they' re not interested in replies to their profile, but that's just my opinion.

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RE: Subs going out of their way to send rude messages - 6/7/2014 5:35:54 PM

slaveoubliette

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it is weird if you have not initiated the communication, but if there is a history than what you say here is suspect because we only get half the story.... does that make sense Ma'am

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