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straight dominatriaces - 5/4/2014 11:30:14 AM   
nervousnovice1


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Status: offline 		Hi Mistresses I want to know how do you keep from getting bored in your relationships with subs and how many of the Dommes straight?
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RE: straight dominatriaces - 5/4/2014 11:32:38 AM   
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Status: offline 		I would like to know do you prefer men with intelligence and a mind or do you prefer a doormat

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RE: straight dominatriaces - 5/4/2014 12:16:35 PM   
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Hi Mistresses I want to know how do you keep from getting bored in your relationships with subs

I suppose they could always beat the slaves that aren't entertaining enough?

You may not be aware of this yet since you're somewhat new to the lifestyle, judging by your name,
but Mistresses are HUMAN, and they usually prefer relationships with other HUMANS.
Therefore, when there seems to be a lull in the excitement of a relationship, which will happen,
I'd imagine they would do what HUMANS do and work it out together.
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And how many of the Dommes straight?

All of the straight Dommes are straight. If you want a more serious answer, you'll have to create
a poll and contact every single Domme to get an accurate figure.
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I would like to know do you prefer men with intelligence and a mind or do you prefer a doormat

I'm no Domme, but I can't imagine what value a doormat could bring to a relationship. Can you?

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RE: straight dominatriaces - 5/4/2014 12:43:06 PM   
MissToYouRedux


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Status: offline 		I prefer intelligent men who give *me* abject obedience. That's pretty much the job description.

Since my submissive does exactly what I want, if I'm bored, that's on me. To date, it hasn't been a problem.


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RE: straight dominatriaces - 5/4/2014 6:27:25 PM   
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ORIGINAL: nervousnovice1

Hi Mistresses I want to know how do you keep from getting bored in your relationships with subs and how many of the Dommes straight?

I'm imaginative, that's how I don't get bored. Plus, my sub is a very interesting man. As for my sexual orientation, actually I'm mostly straight but, under the right circumstances, I could see myself with a woman. CM doesn't offer heteroflexible as an orientation choice though, hence my listing as bisexual.

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I would like to know do you prefer men with intelligence and a mind or do you prefer a doormat

I totally DO prefer a man with intelligence & a mind of his own. My sub is exactly like that. I can't imagine anything more boring than having a "doormat" of a man for a sub. That's why I don't go there. EVER.

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RE: straight dominatriaces - 5/5/2014 3:09:22 AM   
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RE: straight dominatriaces - 5/5/2014 10:51:50 AM   
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ORIGINAL: poise

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ORIGINAL: nervousnovice1
I would like to know do you prefer men with intelligence and a mind or do you prefer a doormat

I'm no Domme, but I can't imagine what value a doormat could bring to a relationship. Can you?



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RE: straight dominatriaces - 5/5/2014 6:05:36 PM   
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I'm trying to work out where this question is coming from. Is the OP implying that female dominants don't have sex with their subs?

Yeah, I was wondering that too. I know I certainly do!

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RE: straight dominatriaces - 5/8/2014 5:56:24 PM   
Sexyladydee


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Status: offline 		How does one keep from getting bored in general? By doing something that stimulates them or that they find exciting. Depending on what type of Domme you are or what type of relationship you have with your sub or slave might determine what might excite you. I was taught growing up that only "stupid" people get bored. So I always have something in my back pocket to keep me interested.

In your vanilla life what makes you excited or interested.

For me, this week I'm going to see the Spider-Man movie. Whether I leave my sub tied up in a room with his ass red and burning is another issue.




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RE: Straight Dommes - 5/14/2014 8:28:08 AM   
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ORIGINAL: nervousnovice1
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Hi Mistresses I want to know how do you keep from getting bored in your relationships with subs and how many of the Dommes straight?

I would like to know do you prefer men with intelligence and a mind or do you prefer a doormat

Nothing could be more boring that having a doormat. How much FemDom porn have you been watching? Because I'll set you straight right now that Dominant women DON'T act the way we get portrayed BY men who dream this commercialized stuff up FOR other men. Furthermore, most Dommes who are serious about being Dominant in their everyday lives ("lifestyle" Dommes) don't want weak men for subs, much less their life partner.

Being submissive does not mean being weak or acting like a weak-willed, feeble-minded fool.
Being Dominant does not mean acting like a domineering psychotic who needs to be committed for observation.
I will admit we can be demanding at times, but it's not a mandatory element of any D/s dynamic.

As with answers you've already received, I don't get bored. Period. Nobody and no thing can wield that sort of power over me.
If I find my submissive boring to be around, then I've chosen the wrong person to be with and vice versa.
I'm straight and a handful of Dommes I know are straight. I know one who is bisexual and one who is lesbian. (There's a bisexual female Switch I don't know very well.)

How could I not prefer an intelligent man to one who can't think for himself or carry on a decent conversation? That would be absurd.

ETA: P.S. Another dead giveaway you've been watching too much porn -- We aren't called Dominatrices. Dominatrix is a term from the 70's or 80's for a pro-Domme or for-hire BDSM provider.

< Message edited by FieryOpal -- 5/14/2014 8:33:41 AM >

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RE: straight dominatriaces - 5/14/2014 6:30:46 PM   
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Status: offline 		I keep hearing about "doormats" but I have yet to really run across one.

Personally, I see nothing wrong with someone who is willing to do whatever it takes.



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