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Profile picture - 5/5/2014 8:54:20 AM

boytocontrol

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Hi,
I want to put a profile picture, pref. nude because this is how i feel, though no face for now
how should i pose .. can you give me instructions please ?

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RE: Profile picture - 5/5/2014 9:07:50 AM

AthenaSurrenders

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You should pose in a position that doesn't show your penis, testicles or butt hole, because the vast majority of women hate that (and penises aren't allowed in your primary photo).

Other than that, it depends what your goal is. If you're just getting a thrill from showing yourself off, then use whatever picture works for you. If you're hoping to attract interested women, I'd honestly use clothed pictures that show a bit of personality (like playing sports, with a pet, playing a musical instrument). Naked bodies are ten a penny here and don't stand out at all.

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RE: Profile picture - 5/5/2014 9:09:25 AM

MzArianaPA

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Do you drop your pants too when first introduced to someone face to face? "Hi, here's my penis....."

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RE: Profile picture - 5/5/2014 9:13:08 AM

boytocontrol

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hi Thanks for the hints, i know naked bodies are 10 a penny but i feel naked i want to show that, can you suggest a position for me, i do not want to be offensive , but if you give me a list of a few positions i will do them all , also in the thrill that i feel i am following instructions ..

please be detailed .

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RE: Profile picture - 5/5/2014 9:17:22 AM

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Sorry but most of the people on this board are not going to be interested in giving you orders until we either get to know and like you, or (in a few cases) if you are paying.

There are tons of women on the other side who will give you detailed instructions if you don't mind a pay-for-play situation. You will probably find someone to exchange such messages, but in reality it's more likely to be a man.

I have nothing against you posing nude for your own enjoyment, but most ladies won't want to take part until they care about you - we tend to like people, not just bodies.

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RE: Profile picture - 5/5/2014 9:20:01 AM

MzArianaPA

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What's your goal in posting pictures like that of yourself?

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RE: Profile picture - 5/5/2014 9:21:50 AM

boytocontrol

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Ok, no i am not into paying, it is not what i am looking for.
and again thank you for your hints again ..

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RE: Profile picture - 5/5/2014 9:28:57 AM

MzArianaPA

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Well, either you can pay for a prodomme.....or you can learn how to behave in a manner that might attract a lifestyle domme.

Naked pics aren't going to attract a lifestyle domme.

Again - think very hard about what your goal is to post said pictures.

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RE: Profile picture - 5/5/2014 9:29:00 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: boytocontrol

Ok, no i am not into paying, it is not what i am looking for.
and again thank you for your hints again ..

Methinks the ladies are being a little too polite.

So... lemme spell it out for you: We are NOT going to tell you what to do. Simples!

Put whatever pic you want on your profile and as long as it's within the ToS it'll be allowed.
If not, it'll get reported and your profile could be deleted.

Simple enough for you??

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RE: Profile picture - 5/5/2014 9:32:57 AM

boytocontrol

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My Goal was to express myself ..

now i understand no one will help me .. it is alright.

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RE: Profile picture - 5/5/2014 9:35:24 AM

freedomdwarf1

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quote:

ORIGINAL: boytocontrol

My Goal was to express myself ..

now i understand no one will help me .. it is alright.

We are helping you.
What we won't do is to pander to your fetish and tell you what to do.
We are not an instant fetish delivery system here.
You need to do some of the work for yourself.

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RE: Profile picture - 5/5/2014 9:59:32 AM

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You want help, I'll give you some (additional) suggestions.

Unless you are super hot-looking and have a body like JFK Jr. did, don't show it off. No woman wants to see unhot nudity. Also, any nudes need to be in your photo gallery, not featured as your main profile pic.

If you REALLY must go skyglad, then do a shirtless photo. Again, only if you have the physique to pull it off, preferably with nicely toned abs.

Don't have a six-pack? Showing some flab? Short in stature? Small dick? Unshapely butt? Please do spare us your indignity.

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RE: Profile picture - 5/5/2014 9:59:45 AM

boytocontrol

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i did not ask for an instant fetish delivery :) it sounds crazy but i did not have that in mind
anyway thank you for your help, i just feel lost . there is also the worry of being ignored and i wanted to know how i can make myself interesting .
also i am kind of a discrete person , but i do not want that to stand in the way of knowing people of similar mindset ..

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RE: Profile picture - 5/5/2014 10:05:47 AM

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Honestly if you want to appear interesting, don't bother with the nudie shots. It is really not interesting - we see it over and over again. It is a quick way to get yourself ignored, because it's so common and often means that a guy is only looking for quick sex.

Once again, if you just wanna show off because it makes you happy, then go crazy. But if your goal is to hook a partner it might not be the best move.

The reason people are talking about fetish delivery systems is because when you come on here and say 'please boss me around' to strangers it does sound like you just want someone to get you off. That's why people don't want to suggest poses. And I might also point out, that you're not really expressing YOURSELF if you're just acting out what a bunch of strangers say.

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RE: Profile picture - 5/5/2014 10:08:25 AM

freedomdwarf1

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Look at your ID and also re-read your first post.

You are looking for control and your first post was to ask for instructions and tell you what pose to make.
That sure as hell sounds like asking for instant fetish delivery!!

You can make yourself interesting by following what FieryOpal suggested.
And treat people as people first, fetish second.

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RE: Profile picture - 5/5/2014 10:19:20 AM

boytocontrol

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well i have an average body , i am slim, and fit but not buff..
i got one tattoo .. on the shoulder .. i am tall too .. average body hair ..

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RE: Profile picture - 5/5/2014 10:27:05 AM

MzBlackOnyx

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What the ladies are conveying to you is that a vast majority of men in alternative lifestyle communities think because a woman is here it validates caveman tendencies: oooh you like to swing lets go fuck, your into 3sums so come blow me and my buddy, your a sub come do as I command, your a D so come control me. Men have been tricked by the porn industry to believe he can just show up fat, bald, short, unattractive and the woman opens the door and falls to her knees. We really DONT understand why men think because we are sexually and socially liberated that equals EASY or WHORE. We have standards. Theres too many ugly and non sexy fucks running around naked like thats what turns us on or will get them noticed - nudity (genitals) is actually a strike against men but like always they dont fuckn listen and then run to forums crying and complaining that they're non civil, ignorant and stupid asses arent getting noticed and cant find anyone.

You say that you genuinely like to be naked and why you want a nude profile pic. Okay, granted. But asking women to help you with a issue we have been harping on for a long time now is not going to get the support your looking for. We dont really dig the nude male thing and like someone said, he better have a nice body and it must be tasteful nudity. Other than that we arent going to advocate or support what we ordinarily detest so you may want to go to other Subs or someone els with nude pics for input on this one.

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RE: Profile picture - 5/5/2014 10:32:01 AM

boytocontrol

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Thank you too MzBlackOnyx .

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RE: Profile picture - 5/5/2014 12:26:52 PM

boytocontrol