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LaTigresse -> RE: Why is every gay woman gorgeous? (7/9/2006 6:08:21 PM)

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ORIGINAL: PlayfulOne

Wow, I see you have your panties in a bunch.  I don't search the profiles of lesbian women, why would I?  Why would it matter to me IF some large portion of those profiles are men playing fake.  It would only matter to me if I was posing as a lesbian female,  Is there something you want to tell us?  Have you been pretending to be a lesbian female trolling for pics and hot chat?  Were you duped by one of the other posers?

As far as sex, I happen to like beating, setting on fire, cutting, and generally torturing what I screw.  Try making that fly on  just any of those abundant sex sites you pointed out.  Everything here in the end leads to sex whether it is bondage, a knife session, washing the dishes or cutting the grass.  I guess we are just horn dogs who have to much fricking sex and should pack up our chains and go home so as not to taint your pure intentions.

NOT,  next time buy panties that fit so they don't cut off your blood supply.

K



Ya know.............call me a little slow but it wasn't until I read this that I should be the one bitching moaning and whining!!!

yet I still cannot find it in me to get pissy........

Oh yeah, I just remembered why! The guys pretending to be women are all so bloody obvious! I remember one guy that tried under three different fake profiles. The one thing he did not realize was that he always made the same errors in grammer and spelling under each one so it was glaringly obvious. He also had and still has a "submissive male" profile on here that he contacted me with. I had so much fun toying with that boy....




LadyJulieAnn -> RE: Why is every gay woman gorgeous? (7/9/2006 6:09:02 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DrkLord33

Ok... so have you all noticed how about 70% of women on this site are first either bisexual, and only looking for women, or gay... and why is it absolutely all of them are drop dead gorgeous... like they just come off of a cover of a magazine.... well maybe because 90% of those women are FAKE!!!! And maybe because those pictures were more than likely stolen from a magazine or a website somewhere.

Guys... honestly now... quit being such desperate horny lying freaks... What the hell people... this lifestyle is about TRUST, and HONOR... not just about jerking off to a few stupid words on a computer screen, and its not even about sex people... 90% of you out there who have a profile on collarme think BDSM is nothing more than a kinky swingers site... people... if all you want is to get fucked, or to fuck someone else, are you HONESTLY telling me there arent enough sites out there dedicated to sex for you to take advantage of?

God... the more people jump on the BDSM bandwaggon, the more this lifestyle is turning into nothing more than sex, and fucking, and I dont give a fuck about anyone else as long as I get what I want, and it doesnt matter who I hurt in order to get it. Its so sad that such an honorable lifestyle has been turned into the same shit as everything else.


I still wonder why so many people think relationships that involve BDSM make them instantly immune to the problems that all relationships suffer.  Humans are involved in BDSM and vanilla life, so the problems that humans experience will be present in both.

I also notice that most of the people who complain about how this lifestyle is falling apart are those who are still seeking partners.  I know because I was there once, and yes it's frustrating when you are seeking one thing and everyone else seems to be seeking something else.  However, I really wonder how the people who choose to experience this lifestyle in ways different to you own truly have an effect on your personal life.  So what if there are BDSM kinky swingers.  I'm sure they will eventually meet up with other kinky swingers and everyone will be happy.  Will they affect me and how I choose to live this lifestyle?  No.

Be well,
Julie




PlayfulOne -> RE: Why is every gay woman gorgeous? (7/9/2006 6:24:32 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse
Ya know.............call me a little slow but it wasn't until I read this that I should be the one bitching moaning and whining!!!

yet I still cannot find it in me to get pissy........

Oh yeah, I just remembered why! The guys pretending to be women are all so bloody obvious! I remember one guy that tried under three different fake profiles. The one thing he did not realize was that he always made the same errors in grammer and spelling under each one so it was glaringly obvious. He also had and still has a "submissive male" profile on here that he contacted me with. I had so much fun toying with that boy....


I know, if anyone should be upset over guys posing as lesbians it should be the actual lesbian females who have to wade thru those.  He is a single male looking for a partner, spending his time looking at profiles of lesbian females.  Gee, I can't possibly put my finger on some of the reasons why he still might be single.

K




Kedikat -> RE: Why is every gay woman gorgeous? (7/9/2006 6:26:53 PM)

And they never get dissed for posting pussy shots!!!!!!




kc692 -> RE: Why is every gay woman gorgeous? (7/9/2006 6:31:48 PM)

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ORIGINAL: TreSwank

    Although I've got nothing but love for those sapphic-dabblers out there who also happen to be BDSM enthusiasts, I'm also sort of leery of the superfluous amount of lesbian profiles on CollarMe.  Most statistical evidence from the last decade puts the percentage of gay women at about 1% of the total population (much less than gay men), with about half of those being "ideological lesbians" (biologically straight, but gravitating towards women out of frustration with men...........and who can blame them?) While I can't find any plausible reason to criticize women that want to stay AWAY from men, you've got to admit that the number of profiles from attractive "woman-only" gals are a little too prevalent to be legit.............especially with so few profiles from gay men, who wrote the book on spice!!!


I have not read to the end of the thread, but my husband is commenting that he never knew there were so many bisexual women, but has met a plethora and some drop dead gorgeous, since we started our relationship.  I think that 1% is very skewed, as I have known a LOT of women in my life, grinz...




TreSwank -> RE: Why is every gay woman gorgeous? (7/9/2006 7:05:18 PM)

I believe that alot of straight women have adopted the "bisexual" label because they, like almost every person who is honest with themselves, have the occasional gay fantasy, or sometimes participate in same-gender intercourse.  My personal definition of "bisexual", pertains to someone who likes both genders equally............and those are really far and in between. 




juliaoceania -> RE: Why is every gay woman gorgeous? (7/9/2006 7:08:39 PM)

My definition of bi-sexual is the ability to sustain romantic relationships with both sexes and have romantic attachment to both sexes. Our sexual orientation is deeper than what we do with our genitals... just my opinion




iliv2servher -> RE: Why is every gay woman gorgeous? (7/9/2006 7:13:53 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DrkLord33

Ok... so have you all noticed how about 70% of women on this site are first either bisexual, and only looking for women, or gay... and why is it absolutely all of them are drop dead gorgeous... like they just come off of a cover of a magazine.... well maybe because 90% of those women are FAKE!!!! And maybe because those pictures were more than likely stolen from a magazine or a website somewhere.

Guys... honestly now... quit being such desperate horny lying freaks... What the hell people... this lifestyle is about TRUST, and HONOR... not just about jerking off to a few stupid words on a computer screen, and its not even about sex people... 90% of you out there who have a profile on collarme think BDSM is nothing more than a kinky swingers site... people... if all you want is to get fucked, or to fuck someone else, are you HONESTLY telling me there arent enough sites out there dedicated to sex for you to take advantage of?

God... the more people jump on the BDSM bandwaggon, the more this lifestyle is turning into nothing more than sex, and fucking, and I dont give a fuck about anyone else as long as I get what I want, and it doesnt matter who I hurt in order to get it. Its so sad that such an honorable lifestyle has been turned into the same shit as everything else.


Here we go again!  Wheeee! 


Let no minority escape the wrath of those who disbelieve.




TreSwank -> RE: Why is every gay woman gorgeous? (7/9/2006 7:14:43 PM)

That's a very good point, juliaoceania..........but behind all the modern-day gender- fluidity rhetoric, sexual orientation is something that's usually hard-wired towards one polarity or the other.  Some people may stray from their biological orientation because of emotional issues with men, but I don't believe that it qualifies them as being genuinely bisexual




LaTigresse -> RE: Why is every gay woman gorgeous? (7/9/2006 7:14:45 PM)

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ORIGINAL: TreSwank

I believe that alot of straight women have adopted the "bisexual" label because they, like almost every person who is honest with themselves, have the occasional gay fantasy, or sometimes participate in same-gender intercourse.  My personal definition of "bisexual", pertains to someone who likes both genders equally............and those are really far and in between. 


Hmmmmmm..........food for thought. I guess by this definition I went from hetro to bi to gay........okay I am good with that!




PlayfulOne -> RE: Why is every gay woman gorgeous? (7/9/2006 7:14:51 PM)

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

My definition of bi-sexual is the ability to sustain romantic relationships with both sexes and have romantic attachment to both sexes. Our sexual orientation is deeper than what we do with our genitals... just my opinion


I think everyone is different.  We have talked about this in depth and my little one could never have a relationship with just another frmale.  She loves being sexually involved with another female but could not have a strictly lesbian relationship.  Now in the context of a triad with a male and two females she can happily function having a relatinoship with the other female which goes deeper than sexual interaction.   There has to be a male involved for her to have anything other than just sex with another female.

K




sleazybutterfly -> RE: Why is every gay woman gorgeous? (7/9/2006 7:18:07 PM)

There is more to it than sex..there is emotional involvment.. love..time together..common interests..things of that nature.   It always amazes me that people think the only thing lesbians or bisexuals do together is have sex. 
 
I have had long relationships with both sexes.  I find I fall in love with the person, not the genitals.  I know there are a lot of women that say they are just because it will make the guys give a second glance..and maybe a hard-on, but there really are those of us out here that find both attractive and have all of our lives. 
 
 
                                   ~*****Andrea*****~




LaTigresse -> RE: Why is every gay woman gorgeous? (7/9/2006 7:24:44 PM)

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ORIGINAL: sleazybutterfly

There is more to it than sex..there is emotional involvment.. love..time together..common interests..things of that nature.   It always amazes me that people think the only thing lesbians or bisexuals do together is have sex. 
 
I have had long relationships with both sexes.  I find I fall in love with the person, not the genitals.  I know there are a lot of women that say they are just because it will make the guys give a second glance..and maybe a hard-on, but there really are those of us out here that find both attractive and have all of our lives. 
 
 
                                   ~*****Andrea*****~


Very well put Andrea.




TreSwank -> RE: Why is every gay woman gorgeous? (7/9/2006 7:26:29 PM)

I guess that must be the point where men REALLY differ from women.




LaTigresse -> RE: Why is every gay woman gorgeous? (7/9/2006 7:32:10 PM)

and THAT is the first really deep thing you have posted, that I have read




orfunboi -> RE: Why is every gay woman gorgeous? (7/9/2006 7:40:52 PM)

Ya want some cheese to go with that whine...........[8|]




TreSwank -> RE: Why is every gay woman gorgeous? (7/9/2006 7:41:31 PM)

LaTigresse,
  Being deep on a BDSM chat site is like wearing a Gucci outfit to a monster-truck rally;  it's just pretentious and painful to look at.




orfunboi -> RE: Why is every gay woman gorgeous? (7/9/2006 7:45:54 PM)

Could be, but also consider the possibility that they are not lesbians at all, but just tell him that, hoping he will go away.....




enigmabrat -> RE: Why is every gay woman gorgeous? (7/9/2006 8:07:28 PM)

why do we always have in engage in OP bashing!!!!

-da enigma-




caitlyn -> RE: Why is every gay woman gorgeous? (7/9/2006 8:08:24 PM)

There is no bi-curious selection on this website.
 
There is also no selection for, "I got naughty with a friend once, when we drank too much SKYY ... and I still think about it in the bubble bath."
 
I don't know about online, but offline I have two lesbian friends, and one gay male friend. They are all hot. The girls are both beautiful and continually make me wish one of them would get me drunk and seduce me. I want to turn my guy friend over to the dark side, although I would never tell him this. He's easy to be around. When we hang out, he lets me drive, since it is my car after all. I can beat him at pool and he has never farted with me around. He may be the perfect guy. [;)]




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