Questioning my profile

You have a basic bitch profile.

You write about your music tastes, your previous army history, hobbies. I can't speak for other women, but honestly, those are things better left for private conversation. Write about what you would think a woman would want to see.

The reality is that even the most desirable man on this website will get a low response rate from women.

Location is another issue. Many aren't looking for somebody far away from them, if they are real then they will want something real.

What do your messages look like? Why are you messaging these women? Are you reading their profile first, are you ensuring that you look like a good match for them? Do you read their journal entries if they have any? These are all major factors.

I consider myself an intellectual, so I often do not have time for those that are under me, in that sense. If you don't represent yourself properly, I've no reason to reply.

The internet is more about looks and presentation than real life is or can be. You can explain yourself in real life, assuming the woman feels too bad to simply walk away. You may change her mind and she may be glad she didn't judge you. On the internet she has a very easy decision. Do I like him enough to respond? Yes, or no.

Lastly, nobody wants an insecure Dominant to control their lives. If you're introverted and out of control of your own life, how can you ever expect to control and own another human? Of course each relationship differs, but submissives are looking for direction and control. If you do not convey that, then what's the point?

Cut your hair, take out the piercings, straighten up and you may be amazed at what you find.

The double spacing in your profile also needs to be fixed. It's annoying to read. You only need to press enter once to line break on CM, because it automatically adds a space between the lines with one 'enter' press. Where as every other logical formatting tool would do as you're used to.

Talk about what you're looking for in a submissive and a small bit about your values. What you do for a living, what you eat, what you like to do outdoors isn't as important as connecting with somebody on a kink level. I can learn to deal with the fact that you like to hike if I don't, I may not be able to deal with the fact that you don't like bondage if it's an extreme fetish for me.

I personally stay away from all profiles that have anything in their likes and dislikes list about their outer-BDSM world likes and dislikes. I don't give a fuck if you like cycling or mathematics. All that does is distract me from the likes and limits I give a fuck about.

You don't need to state that you have piercings if there's photos of your piercings on your profile. And nobody gives a flying fuck if you have tattoos. Everybody has tattoos these days. It isn't some big, dirty secret anymore.

Saying you don't like to share sounds childish. Change that to 'I will not be a part of an open relationship.' Or something along those lines.

Take the beginner and expert stuff out of anything that doesn't matter to a submissive. Again, nobody cares if you're a beginner at surf boarding.

Read your own profile and ask yourself if you would reply to it, if you were a submissive. If the answer is no, then change it.