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RE: Guys...PLEASE DON'T DO THIS - 5/14/2014 10:29:59 AM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		So, I pissed off a girl, wouldn't be the first, and I can fuckin guarantee you, it won't be the last.

Now, as for you Greta, where the fuck do you get off interpreting what I said, and criticizing it? Isn't that a little shabby, considering the gravamen of your remarks?

Oh, yeah.............I ain't all that serious about that up there ^^^^^^

I could give a glimmer of a fuck less, its mirthful stuff; this. This is looking more and more like an inside CIA job, everyone in the room is killed but the intended target.



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RE: Guys...PLEASE DON'T DO THIS - 5/14/2014 10:35:56 AM   
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I think you are missing the fact that it is supposed to be comical, not serious

Can't really hear the tone in text unfortunately. Maybe more friendly teasing smiley required, but I still don't see how it is comical at all to tell someone to grow real hair.


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Thank you ever so much for the perve. I have eyefucked the shit out of your profile, I must confess. Exactly how many motherfuckers would I have to kill to own you? I am probably a little too extreme for you. (I can certainly live without beating up a girl), but the first order of our business would be for you to lose the weaves and wigs, and start a program for getting your hair natural, good looking thing like you. But the little I can see of you, you are really pretty.

You have a smile that is astonishing, as well.



Eyefucked the shit out of your profile? How many motherfuckers would I have to kill? Unless he really envisioned placing his member into the ocular orifice of her web page, then slaughtering many potential prospects in order to win her affections, I would wager those statements were meant in a comical fashion

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RE: Guys...PLEASE DON'T DO THIS - 5/14/2014 10:36:57 AM   
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Now, as for you Greta, where the fuck do you get off interpreting what I said, and criticizing it? Isn't that a little shabby, considering the gravamen of your remarks?

You can get mad, but I'm interpreting it the same way your intended message to the intended lady took offense too.

Rather than get irritated or upset, maybe you might be able to see our point of view of how that is offensive and hurtful.

But if that doesn't bother you, then that's fine too. You want to say it's a compliment just because it turn out to be her real hair, but that's only because it turned out to be real hair. What if it really was a weave then what? It turns back into a criticism of her hair.

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RE: Guys...PLEASE DON'T DO THIS - 5/14/2014 10:37:47 AM   
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RE: Guys...PLEASE DON'T DO THIS - 5/14/2014 10:38:49 AM   
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That better be a joke.

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RE: Guys...PLEASE DON'T DO THIS - 5/14/2014 10:39:51 AM   
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Eyefucked the shit out of your profile? How many motherfuckers would I have to kill? Unless he really envisioned placing his member into the ocular orifice of her web page, then slaughtering many potential prospects in order to win her affections, I would wager those statements were meant in a comical fashion

Yea, but that's not the part where is criticizing, you are only quoting all the fluffy complimenting parts.

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RE: Guys...PLEASE DON'T DO THIS - 5/14/2014 10:41:11 AM   
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Now, as for you Greta, where the fuck do you get off interpreting what I said, and criticizing it? Isn't that a little shabby, considering the gravamen of your remarks?

You can get mad, but I'm interpreting it the same way your intended message to the intended lady took offense too.

Rather than get irritated or upset, maybe you might be able to see our point of view of how that is offensive and hurtful.

But if that doesn't bother you, then that's fine too. You want to say it's a compliment just because it turn out to be her real hair, but that's only because it turned out to be real hair. What if it really was a weave then what? It turns back into a criticism of her hair.


Uh, last thing I am is irritated or upset, you can quote me. I ain't guilty cuz the Chinese are communists, and I ain't guilty because everything that flows from my mouth is not a compliment, and may be considered a critique.

I just ain't feelin it, you're right there, by god. If someone gets their pissflaps fluttering over that, we may all be killed, ya think?


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RE: Guys...PLEASE DON'T DO THIS - 5/14/2014 10:43:07 AM   
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Eyefucked the shit out of your profile? How many motherfuckers would I have to kill? Unless he really envisioned placing his member into the ocular orifice of her web page, then slaughtering many potential prospects in order to win her affections, I would wager those statements were meant in a comical fashion

Yea, but that's not the part where is criticizing, you are only quoting all the fluffy complimenting parts.


Oh come now, you are just picking apart his email then. I put it to you that if I send an email with a comical opening, I meant for the entire email to have an aire of comedy. What is the point of getting you to smile, then making you pissed off?

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RE: Guys...PLEASE DON'T DO THIS - 5/14/2014 10:43:20 AM   
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I ain't guilty because everything that flows from my mouth is not a compliment, and may be considered a critique.

Now you exaggerate, not everything was inappropriate, except the telling her to grow real hair, assuming her hair is fake, now that is super inappropriate. I did say, your message could have been super duper sweet if it omitted that criticism.

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RE: Guys...PLEASE DON'T DO THIS - 5/14/2014 10:44:12 AM   
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RE: Guys...PLEASE DON'T DO THIS - 5/14/2014 10:46:22 AM   
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Oh come now, you are just picking apart his email then. I put it to you that if I send an email with a comical opening, I meant for the entire email to have an aire of comedy. What is the point of getting you to smile, then making you pissed off?

Some people do that. Faux Pas happens. And wrongly worded sentences causes misunderstanding if the intent was not to soften the intended criticism by compliments.

On top of that, after the receiver of the message got upset because of how it was phrased, it was brushed aside, as now that he knows she has real hair, it's now a compliment, talk about adding salt.


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RE: Guys...PLEASE DON'T DO THIS - 5/14/2014 10:46:32 AM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		Well, I am set like a motherfucker and a half then. Cuz I didn't tell her to grow real hair. Hell, I expect an imminent marraige after your skillful arguments there.

I know it could have been sweet, and she does (the OP) have a minor cavil coming to her over it, and I told her so.

But inappropriate? I was born inappropriate, what ever shall I do?

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RE: Guys...PLEASE DON'T DO THIS - 5/14/2014 10:50:18 AM   
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Oh come now, you are just picking apart his email then. I put it to you that if I send an email with a comical opening, I meant for the entire email to have an aire of comedy. What is the point of getting you to smile, then making you pissed off?

Some people do that. Faux Pas happens. And wrongly worded sentences causes misunderstanding if the intent was not to soften the intended criticism by compliments.



No, some people get upset because of how one interprets another's meaning. He sent that message in all intents of being snarky, light hearted, and comical. I see it, he sees it. She and you see it as criticizing. All we can say is maybe next time he needs to include a list of definitions with said email

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RE: Guys...PLEASE DON'T DO THIS - 5/14/2014 10:51:32 AM   
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Do explain if losing the weaves and wig and starting a program to get one hair natural is not telling her to grow natural hair, then what exactly is that sentence telling her? To get fake hair that looks natural? Clearly my English comprehension is very deficit here, or either this is some extremely strange American humour.

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RE: Guys...PLEASE DON'T DO THIS - 5/14/2014 10:52:38 AM   
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No, some people get upset because of how one interprets another's meaning. He sent that message in all intents of being snarky, light hearted, and comical. I see it, he sees it. She and you see it as criticizing. All we can say is maybe next time he needs to include a list of definitions with said email

Men are from Mars, women are from Venus.
A woman would never say anything like that to another woman, that's for sure. And to be clear, I was simply referring to the critique about a woman's hairstyle.

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RE: Guys...PLEASE DON'T DO THIS - 5/14/2014 10:54:42 AM   
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On top of that, after the receiver of the message got upset because of how it was phrased, it was brushed aside, as now that he knows she has real hair, it's now a compliment, talk about adding salt.




Not so fast there, smutpeddler, you are not privy to the cmails that followed. However if that is rubbing salt, maybe you can hep me to how fucked up a girls mind has to be for that to be happening.

Cuz, to admit a mistake because it looks so perfect..........ain't no guy gonna understand what the fuck is in a womans head over sandpapering that wound.

This is fuckin ridiculous now.

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RE: Guys...PLEASE DON'T DO THIS - 5/14/2014 10:55:44 AM   
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Oh come now, you are just picking apart his email then. I put it to you that if I send an email with a comical opening, I meant for the entire email to have an aire of comedy. What is the point of getting you to smile, then making you pissed off?

Some people do that. Faux Pas happens. And wrongly worded sentences causes misunderstanding if the intent was not to soften the intended criticism by compliments.

On top of that, after the receiver of the message got upset because of how it was phrased, it was brushed aside, as now that he knows she has real hair, it's now a compliment, talk about adding salt.




Except she said he apologized after- so her upset WAS NOT brushed aside- instead- met with an apology- which she chose to ignore, and then bring his message into the forums...

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RE: Guys...PLEASE DON'T DO THIS - 5/14/2014 10:57:14 AM   
mnottertail


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Men are from Mars, women are from Venus.
A woman would never say anything like that to another woman, that's for sure. And to be clear, I was simply referring to the critique about a woman's hairstyle.



But you know what? There ain't no interpreters for those languages, you only get that by communication, it ain't like you can pick up that book and understand, both those authors have been married multiple times, they make micky rooney look like a fuckin monk. So if a woman wants another woman, that's just fine, I ain't hating you.

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RE: Guys...PLEASE DON'T DO THIS - 5/14/2014 11:00:23 AM   
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ain't no guy gonna understand what the fuck is in a womans head over sandpapering that wound.

This is fuckin ridiculous now.

Yea I don't know what went on in private email, but for her to post it on here, tells me she's upset, and if there were private emails to clarify further, then it's not healed the wound, and I am simply explaining why she would take offense, and you are insisting that it's her problem if she wants to take what you say offensively.

Anyway I was just explaining how a woman's brain process that sentence. If you don't want to take into consideration that women do process things differently from men, that is fine too.


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RE: Guys...PLEASE DON'T DO THIS - 5/14/2014 11:00:56 AM   
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No, some people get upset because of how one interprets another's meaning. He sent that message in all intents of being snarky, light hearted, and comical. I see it, he sees it. She and you see it as criticizing. All we can say is maybe next time he needs to include a list of definitions with said email

Men are from Mars, women are from Venus.
A woman would never say anything like that to another woman, that's for sure.



he already explained he was trying to be complimentative. It was a snarky comical way of saying he found her hair attractive. It seems that the one line is putting the entire email out of focus, and changing its entire meaning for you

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