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BecomingV -> RE: Guys...PLEASE DON'T DO THIS (5/14/2014 11:02:31 AM)
FR - OP, mnottertail is apparently not a good fit for you and now he knows the same. Greta - the hypothetical is the part where he says, "would be" like this. A vanilla guy might approach a woman saying, "With me, you'd be wearing gowns and diamonds and touring the world." Or, "with me, you'd shed your belongings and share my tent, be all natural." Depends on how classy or earthy the guy is. So, mnottertail sort of fits a D version of natural guy. It's brassier in D/s form, for some. mnottertail - You've been around here long enough to know what offends. I find myself wondering why you would choose to offend a woman if you really had sincere interest. OP - please don't confuse "bossy" with "dominant." One's about getting more for the self and the other is about accepting responsibility for another.

chatterbox24 -> RE: Guys...PLEASE DON'T DO THIS (5/14/2014 11:02:50 AM)
Wow your head looks like a massive bowling ball, it's sexy. How many pins do I have to knock down with it to get to your scrumptious self? Want to date?[sm=rofl.gif]

mnottertail -> RE: Guys...PLEASE DON'T DO THIS (5/14/2014 11:03:29 AM)
as it did for her. I notice she is not defending this vociferously out here, but others are donning their hairshirts and beserking like vikings over it. beserker means hair-shirted by the way for all you non-PC (people of the cold countries, as in Scandinavia) LOL yet again.

Greta75 -> RE: Guys...PLEASE DON'T DO THIS (5/14/2014 11:04:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Darkfeather he already explained he was trying to be complimentative. It was a snarky comical way of saying he found her hair attractive. It seems that the one line is putting the entire email out of focus, and changing its entire meaning for you He has thrown in alot of compliments in the whole spew yes. But I think the issue is that, the part where he said, it's now a compliment is because he mistaken her real hair as fake hair, it means her hair was so perfect that it looked fake. But that's not complimentary for a woman to hear that her hair looks like fake hair. Just saying! This is like such a typical clueless male faux pas! But of course clueless male is saying that a woman has issues if she is gonna get upset with that sentence.

mnottertail -> RE: Guys...PLEASE DON'T DO THIS (5/14/2014 11:05:56 AM)
quote: mnottertail - You've been around here long enough to know what offends. I find myself wondering why you would choose to offend a woman if you really had sincere interest. 2 things, apparently I do not, and I didn't have to put myself out here, did I?

Darkfeather -> RE: Guys...PLEASE DON'T DO THIS (5/14/2014 11:08:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Greta75 quote: ORIGINAL: Darkfeather he already explained he was trying to be complimentative. It was a snarky comical way of saying he found her hair attractive. It seems that the one line is putting the entire email out of focus, and changing its entire meaning for you He has thrown in alot of compliments in the whole spew yes. But I think the issue is that, the part where he said, it's now a compliment is because he mistaken her real hair as fake hair, it means her hair was so perfect that it looked fake. But that's not complimentary for a woman to hear that her hair looks like fake hair. Just saying! This is like such a typical clueless male faux pas! No, it is not a faux pas, he was under the assumption that the woman he sent the email to, might actually have a sense of humor. You know, read the email and go, hey, this guy who is white by the way, sent me an entire email sounding black. Made some snarky comments, and said some interesting things. But apparently, what he got was don't ever try to be creative because sense of humor just wasn't there?

mnottertail -> RE: Guys...PLEASE DON'T DO THIS (5/14/2014 11:09:35 AM)
But of course clueless male is saying that a woman has issues if she is gonna get upset with that sentence. *********************************** And millions (or not) of clueless females are going to get upset with that sentence, because they have issues.

Greta75 -> RE: Guys...PLEASE DON'T DO THIS (5/14/2014 11:10:05 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BecomingV A vanilla guy might approach a woman saying, "With me, you'd be wearing gowns and diamonds and touring the world." Or, "with me, you'd shed your belongings and share my tent, be all natural." Depends on how classy or earthy the guy is. So, mnottertail sort of fits a D version of natural guy. It's brassier in D/s form, for some. Um..., that still doesn't sound good if a vanilla said all that, it's gonna make any woman's eyes roll. quote: mnottertail - You've been around here long enough to know what offends. I find myself wondering why you would choose to offend a woman if you really had sincere interest. For me, this surprises me of mnottertail because he has been long enough here and I had the expectation that he would have the experience to charm the socks off women haha, clearly many people are familiar with him, so those who knows him already know he wouldn't have any nasty intentions, but from a point of view of someone who is completely new and not familiar with him yet, and just judging from that statement alone without knowing his history would definitely take offense big time. Just saying!

Greta75 -> RE: Guys...PLEASE DON'T DO THIS (5/14/2014 11:11:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Darkfeather No, it is not a faux pas, he was under the assumption that the woman he sent the email to, might actually have a sense of humor. You know, read the email and go, hey, this guy who is white by the way, sent me an entire email sounding black. Made some snarky comments, and said some interesting things. But apparently, what he got was don't ever try to be creative because sense of humor just wasn't there? In what world would telling a woman her hair looks like a weave be having a sense of humour? Seriously you guys??? Seriously???? OMG! How do you guys pick up chicks? I'd love for you guys to try that exact same pick up line to a woman in real life and watch her real life reaction.

mnottertail -> RE: Guys...PLEASE DON'T DO THIS (5/14/2014 11:13:57 AM)
LOL. Do you think I should have told her it looks like its dripping Jeri Curl? She would never have bought that, even at the outset. LOL had to edit, I spelled it like the lawnmower.

Darkfeather -> RE: Guys...PLEASE DON'T DO THIS (5/14/2014 11:14:33 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Greta75 quote: ORIGINAL: Darkfeather No, it is not a faux pas, he was under the assumption that the woman he sent the email to, might actually have a sense of humor. You know, read the email and go, hey, this guy who is white by the way, sent me an entire email sounding black. Made some snarky comments, and said some interesting things. But apparently, what he got was don't ever try to be creative because sense of humor just wasn't there? In what world would telling a woman her hair looks like a weave be having a sense of humour? Seriously you guys??? Seriously???? OMG! How do you guys pick up chicks? Ok I'll say it. Don't take this as an offense, but you aren't black...

Greta75 -> RE: Guys...PLEASE DON'T DO THIS (5/14/2014 11:16:40 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Darkfeather Ok I'll say it. Don't take this as an offense, but you aren't black... She's black and she didn't get the humour! And I assume she's American too. Granted I am not black or white or American, so I thought maybe this is some secret American humour, but not the case!

Darkfeather -> RE: Guys...PLEASE DON'T DO THIS (5/14/2014 11:19:34 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Greta75 quote: ORIGINAL: Darkfeather Ok I'll say it. Don't take this as an offense, but you aren't black... She's black and she didn't get the humour! And I assume she's American too. Granted I am not black or white or American, so I thought maybe this is some secret American humour, but not the case! Look, I had to spend the first third of my life in black guy school, just to grasp 1/3 of an understanding of the black female. I don't know how he got his knowledge. But yes, dealing with a black woman is a whole nother art form

mnottertail -> RE: Guys...PLEASE DON'T DO THIS (5/14/2014 11:20:51 AM)
Check my post about JeriCurl (it is american humor, although inappropriate) https://www.google.com/search?q=coming+to+america,+jeri+curl+guy+photo&rlz=1C1KMZB_enUS510US510&es_sm=93&tbm=isch&imgil=h3p-DeK6g4aZSM%253A%253Bhttps%253A%252F%252Fencrypted-tbn2.gstatic.com%252Fimages%253Fq%253Dtbn%253AANd9GcTDk7LhJG5SN8kmc0inW3S0t43P2KQZ6aqfmtISqTvy6W3HmMxb%253B380%253B383%253BZVqhoYwrD2FGsM%253Bhttp%25253A%25252F%25252Fwww.cocoandcreme.com%25252F2013%25252F11%25252Fopen-thread-did-you-rock-a-jheri-curl-back-in-the-day%25252F&source=iu&usg=__-E_e8jlN_8cdqcNwb0bfIznnRdQ%3D&sa=X&ei=YrNzU7XMN4KLyATRw4HYAQ&ved=0CCoQ9QEwAA Oh, Well.

BecomingV -> RE: Guys...PLEASE DON'T DO THIS (5/14/2014 11:22:31 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail quote: mnottertail - You've been around here long enough to know what offends. I find myself wondering why you would choose to offend a woman if you really had sincere interest. 2 things, apparently I do not, and I didn't have to put myself out here, did I? LOL, okay. Fair enough. Been there, done that! I don't understand the second part though. Do you mean that the fact you wrote to a woman at all counts for something, regardless of what was said? Or, do you mean something else? From my background, your communication style on these posts would be considered, crass and provocative. A bawdy sense of humor helps to enjoy some of your posts (and I have one), so sometimes, I fall off the proverbial stool laughing. However, I can see how that may work against you in an initial contact. I think that happened here. But, Dude... shut up about women's hair until they ask you to comment, and then lie! OP, men being insensitive about women's appearances seems to be inborn. I think the ones who don't step in it, have gone out of their way to acquire savvy and charm and diplomacy. Talk about things that don't come naturally. LOL

Greta75 -> RE: Guys...PLEASE DON'T DO THIS (5/14/2014 11:24:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail LOL. Do you think I should have told her it looks like its dripping Jeri Curl? She would never have bought that, even at the outset. Haha, you could have simply said all that sweet stuffs you initially said without mentioning about her hair, unless you simply want to tell her that her hair is beautiful, without any comment about it possibly being weave. That would have charmed her for sure!

Darkfeather -> RE: Guys...PLEASE DON'T DO THIS (5/14/2014 11:24:38 AM)
Got that Soul Glo!

mnottertail -> RE: Guys...PLEASE DON'T DO THIS (5/14/2014 11:25:34 AM)
No, I could have let this thread go by without saying shit, and identifying myself as the horrid monster who wrote that sick racist shit or whatever it is that has rent the space-time continuum and set back race-relations to a time before Lerone Bennett Jr wrote, 'Before the Mayflower'. (If you get my drift...)

Greta75 -> RE: Guys...PLEASE DON'T DO THIS (5/14/2014 11:27:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BecomingV But, Dude... shut up about women's hair until they ask you to comment, and then lie! Exactly! LOL! Walking on landmines attempting to talk about a woman's hair.

shiftyw -> RE: Guys...PLEASE DON'T DO THIS (5/14/2014 11:27:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Darkfeather quote: ORIGINAL: Greta75 quote: ORIGINAL: Darkfeather Ok I'll say it. Don't take this as an offense, but you aren't black... She's black and she didn't get the humour! And I assume she's American too. Granted I am not black or white or American, so I thought maybe this is some secret American humour, but not the case! Look, I had to spend the first third of my life in black guy school, just to grasp 1/3 of an understanding of the black female. I don't know how he got his knowledge. But yes, dealing with a black woman is a whole nother art form Dealing with each individual woman varies, in my opinion.

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