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What if? - 7/9/2006 7:59:10 PM   
Mastersbrat1965


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Status: offline 		I have a friend in this situation and now I am curious. What if a Master has more than one slave and one the slaves jumps him everytime the other makes a mistake. She tells him she wants nothing to do with the other slave who has actually been with the Master in his house for a long length of time. The second slave states she does not care about the first slave.

How would Master's handle this situation? How would the expect the first slave to feel about the second slave?

This is mostly out of curiosity because I do not want to find myself in this situation.
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RE: What if? - 7/9/2006 8:06:19 PM   
Padriag


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Status: offline 		To be blunt, I'd come down on slave #2 like a ton of bricks for that behavior.  Though frankly I wouldn't have collared her in the first place if she exhibited that kind of attitude.  Its not her place to correct anybody but herself and she'd be very firmly reminded of that.  If she didn't accept that, she'd find herself shown to the door, minus a collar.

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RE: What if? - 7/10/2006 3:19:07 AM   
wandering4u


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Status: offline 		I second what Padriag says. There is one Dom and she isn't it. 

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RE: What if? - 7/10/2006 3:22:51 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Padriag
To be blunt, I'd come down on slave #2 like a ton of bricks for that behavior.  Though frankly I wouldn't have collared her in the first place if she exhibited that kind of attitude.  Its not her place to correct anybody but herself and she'd be very firmly reminded of that.  If she didn't accept that, she'd find herself shown to the door, minus a collar.


Absolutely. Is she wearing his collar or does she think he is wearing hers?

A girl who maybe feeling insecure about her position in my collar I will listen to and work with her to help her feel more secure. A girl who is just trying to push her weight around, tries to dictate or even influence how I interact with another of my girls isn't going to be tolerated.

#2 would either have the behaviour corrected or if it wasn't brought into line in short order, as Padraig said, she'd be out the door


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RE: What if? - 7/10/2006 3:51:02 AM   
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Status: offline 		In addition to agreeing with the logic above...

A Dom/me's selection of his submissive(s) is a reflection of the Dom/me. When the sub acts out of place particularly before another, that sub reflects badly upon the Dom/me. Moreover, to insult one's submissive is to insult the Dom/me personally for this reason. Wise Dom/mes choose subs wisely.

Aside from handing loudmouth the walking papers, I might devise something particularly devious. I would charge loudmouth with the responsibility of "shaping" the problem child since I "clearly" can't handle it. Loudmouth does not have the right to rule nor punish, only educate and assist. If problem child fucks up, loudmouth gets punishment A for failing to correct the problem, and doubly severe to boot.  

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RE: What if? - 7/10/2006 4:22:49 AM   
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Seems to me slave #2 isn't playing nice because she's trying to clear the field.  There are those that "accept" a poly relationship with full intention of manipulating the situation in order to become the only slave.  Rarely works, but they do try.  If she wasn't just shown the door immediately, I think I'd probably change her assignments.  She no longer serves Master, she serves slave #1.  No sex, no intimacy, just whatever slave #1 needs done personally.  She does slave #1's laundry and her own, slave #1 does Master's laundry, etc.  slave #1 reports any mistakes or missteps or attitude to Master.  Master decides how to handle things from there. 

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RE: What if? - 7/10/2006 4:49:22 AM   
wandering4u


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RE: What if? - 7/10/2006 4:51:06 AM   
feastie


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RE: What if? - 7/10/2006 9:36:53 AM   
MasterFireMaam


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Status: offline 		My idea of a poly household is that we are a family. Ideally, we want family life to be harmonious, and the advantages of being poly is that get to CHOOSE who we want in our family, unlike vanilla families. If the slaves don't get along, the Master will never had a peaceful family.If he/she is someone who thrives on drama, this may work for them. For me, this would not work. This is why whomever is in the family gets an equal vote when bringing in a new member. Yes, I can be outvoted when putting together my family. The mental and emotional health of my slaves is important to me. They trust me to look for people who will fit; I trust them to be honest about their vote.

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RE: What if? - 7/10/2006 10:14:36 AM   
IronBear


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Status: offline 		Padriag and RavenMuse has said it all. On my part, it would never happen for the original slave would by that time be in My Collar or in Neet's Collar or even if she was still in the House Collar, she would proably be designated first girl and as thus have authority over the new slave in training, duties and disclipline. The first girl would be address by other slave/s as Mistress when the Free were not there and would have the right to administer disclipline to any disobedient slave under her....

Ultimately I or Neets have the responsibility and I have the final say. troublesome girls either to the line or face the slave whip applied hard and possibly being decollared and sent on her way. As Goldilocks found out. Dont fuck with the home of bears.....




< Message edited by IronBear -- 7/10/2006 10:16:54 AM >

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RE: What if? - 7/10/2006 10:18:43 AM   
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I have a friend in this situation and now I am curious. What if a Master has more than one slave and one the slaves jumps him everytime the other makes a mistake. She tells him she wants nothing to do with the other slave who has actually been with the Master in his house for a long length of time. The second slave states she does not care about the first slave.

How would Master's handle this situation?


A "Master" wouldn't have that situation.

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RE: What if? - 7/10/2006 4:02:13 PM   
sublizzie


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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth
A "Master" wouldn't have that situation.


This is what I had thought, but have no real-life experience to back up the thought. Thank you.

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RE: What if? - 7/10/2006 4:31:12 PM   
OsideGirl


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ORIGINAL: Pulpsmack

In addition to agreeing with the logic above...

A Dom/me's selection of his submissive(s) is a reflection of the Dom/me. When the sub acts out of place particularly before another, that sub reflects badly upon the Dom/me. Moreover, to insult one's submissive is to insult the Dom/me personally for this reason. Wise Dom/mes choose subs wisely.

Aside from handing loudmouth the walking papers, I might devise something particularly devious. I would charge loudmouth with the responsibility of "shaping" the problem child since I "clearly" can't handle it. Loudmouth does not have the right to rule nor punish, only educate and assist. If problem child fucks up, loudmouth gets punishment A for failing to correct the problem, and doubly severe to boot.  


This was well said. If a Dominant or Master is in control of the situation, then they have no one but themselves to blame for the behavior of their submissives or slaves.

He's allowed this situation to happen, now he needs to figure out why it's happening, then figure out if he wants to fix it and how to fix it.

She obviously does not respect the relationship of the others in this poly. Personally, I would view her as mono posing as poly to get what she wants.Which means that she's not respecting the desires of the Dominant/Master either. Why keep someone like that around?


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RE: What if? - 7/10/2006 4:56:40 PM   
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Status: offline 		Picking up the dog shit in the back yard daily by hand might stop any squabbling of course.... 

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RE: What if? - 7/10/2006 5:20:33 PM   
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ORIGINAL: IronBear

Picking up the dog shit in the back yard daily by hand might stop any squabbling of course.... 


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RE: What if? - 7/10/2006 7:11:15 PM   
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ORIGINAL: IronBear

Picking up the dog shit in the back yard daily by hand might stop any squabbling of course.... 
Eww..evil, just plain evil !....Tempting

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RE: What if? - 7/11/2006 2:03:36 AM   
Mastersbrat1965


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Status: offline 		Thanks for all the replies, the situation really has me bothered. Not only do I hate seeing my friending hurting. But it makes me want to sit back and take my time before getting in a situation like this one. My friend adores her Master. I just do not think he sees how manipulative the second one is.

The replies to this have made me do a lot of thinking and pondering on things like this. Thank you very much.

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RE: What if? - 7/11/2006 5:17:21 PM   
Mavis


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ORIGINAL: feastie

If she wasn't just shown the door immediately, I think I'd probably change her assignments.  She no longer serves Master, she serves slave #1.  No sex, no intimacy, just whatever slave #1 needs done personally.  She does slave #1's laundry and her own, slave #1 does Master's laundry, etc.  slave #1 reports any mistakes or missteps or attitude to Master.  Master decides how to handle things from there. 


Feastie, i like the way you think too!  That is great.  Perfect solution for a Role-Jockey.

alas, that wouldn't work for me, i actually feel honored when i get to serve Masters #1, What better way to show respect for Him than to honor His "other holdings"?  Besides, bless her heart, she has the much harder role of tending His daily stuff, if anyone deserves somebody to bring her a drink... 

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RE: What if? - 7/13/2006 4:06:11 AM   
feastie


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Status: offline 		That might be the case for you, Mavis, but you're not attempting a coup, are you?

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RE: What if? - 7/13/2006 11:27:10 AM   
Mavis


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ORIGINAL: feastie

That might be the case for you, Mavis, but you're not attempting a coup, are you?


lol.  No!   Matter of fact, i had a run-in with a role-jockey once, and i think that's exactly what makes me a good beta.. 

Turned out fine in the end, that story is better saved for a thread called "When BigD's go insane, waiting-out Sirs midlife crisis".. 

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