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Financial Domination - 5/23/2014 4:05:42 AM

PrincessCourt710

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Does anyone here know or understand the concept of financial domination? Or into it at all? I seem to be the only one.

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RE: Financial Domination - 5/23/2014 4:32:44 AM

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I'd recommend putting "financial domination" into search and reading what comes up. At this point, I'd say all of us are familiar with at least some of the forms it can take, and it tends to be a can of worms around here.

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RE: Financial Domination - 5/23/2014 9:44:56 AM

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ORIGINAL: PrincessCourt710

Does anyone here know or understand the concept of financial domination? Or into it at all? I seem to be the only one.

On this site it would appear that Financial Domination gets practiced as pay-per-cam-show. Is this what your concept of it is, because there is no shortage of both female and male cyber-Dominants, from what I hear.

Let's just say that fin-Dommes and on-line and/or phone Mistresses for hire are not welcomed with open arms by most male submissives. Even the married cheaters want to get something for nothing.

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RE: Financial Domination - 5/23/2014 10:07:03 AM

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I don't know, I get warm welcomes. :)

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RE: Financial Domination - 5/23/2014 10:15:39 AM

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I don't know, I get warm welcomes. :)

I mean specifically here at CM who practice on-line financial domination and who mass-spam CM users, specifically male subs, with worthless slut/bitch/lowly worm/paypig slurs in their opening messages.
(Including hairy male HNGs operating behind fake female profiles)

That's not your style, K, from what I've gathered.

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RE: Financial Domination - 5/25/2014 4:41:33 AM

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Princess, financial domination is the most popular form of D/s on this site and most likely in life everywhere. The internet is responsible for its popularity and it is the perfect venue for its practice Be aware there are a lot of haters who will try to make You feel bad about what You do. Just ignore them and follow Your heart and don't let the simple minded bother You.

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RE: Financial Domination - 5/25/2014 6:54:03 AM

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Princess, financial domination is the most popular form of D/s on this site and most likely in life everywhere. The internet is responsible for its popularity and it is the perfect venue for its practice Be aware there are a lot of haters who will try to make You feel bad about what You do. Just ignore them and follow Your heart and don't let the simple minded bother You.

It would be interesting to hear just how you came up with that conclusion! It is true that there are a LOT of "findommes" on CM (I have over 300 on "hide" and that number grows every day), but the majority of those are either men posing as women looking to trick some guy into sending them money, or women looking for nothing more than some fool to send them money for no reason other than that the woman is "so special" that she deserves someone else' cash. To me, that does not make it "the most popular form of D/s", but rather a very popular scam.

But just to be clear...IF...a woman actually offers something in return for the guys "tribute", then more power to her, good luck, and best wishes.

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RE: Financial Domination - 5/25/2014 4:50:13 PM

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ORIGINAL: Miyani

I'd recommend putting "financial domination" into search and reading what comes up. At this point, I'd say all of us are familiar with at least some of the forms it can take, and it tends to be a can of worms around here.

that or "princess" or "pay pig" and from what I have seen coming up in my search there are a shitload more princess profiles than not. Of course that doesn't take into account the ones who have multiple profiles out there.

But maybe it would be more helpful if you profile showed up and we could tell more about what you mean by financial domination. Your pic is all over the web on many sites but when I try to look at the profile itself it's not found.

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RE: Financial Domination - 5/25/2014 6:58:55 PM

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ORIGINAL: PrincessCourt710

Does anyone here know or understand the concept of financial domination? Or into it at all? I seem to be the only one.

I think a lot understand it, PC710. Unfortunately, I think you're late to the game. Word has spread like wildfire. There are so many 'financial dominants' (or whatever the latest term is) around these days - and especially at CM - that, astonishing as it seems, the demand from gullible men is at last beginning to spread quite thin in relation to the supply of said financial dominants.

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RE: Financial Domination - 5/25/2014 7:04:29 PM

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ORIGINAL: PrincessCourt710

Does anyone here know or understand the concept of financial domination?

I think most people here understand the concept.

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Or into it at all? I seem to be the only one.

Sadly, that's about as far from the truth as you can get. We're infested with the wallet-siphoning "royalty" version of internet cockroaches here and there's nary an exterminator to be found.

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RE: Financial Domination - 5/25/2014 7:16:57 PM

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It's as though CM rebooted and lost all previous conversations. Square one.

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RE: Financial Domination - 5/25/2014 8:21:54 PM

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Well 95% of online financial domination is a bunch of clueless young women who think that telling everyone they're inferior pay pigs is financial domination. Said women then expect to be showered with money and expensive gifts.

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RE: Financial Domination - 5/26/2014 8:53:33 AM

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There are a lot of opportunistic young ladies here but it doesn't deny that financial domination is a legitimate fetish. If You are into it, don't let the uninformed, uneducated and intolerant effect you and your happiness. Just as I predicted this thread would attracted all the haters. They are not the D/s police so my advice is to just ignore and pay no attention to them.

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RE: Financial Domination - 5/26/2014 9:50:48 AM

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Just as I predicted this thread would attracted all the haters. They are not the D/s police so my advice is to just ignore and pay no attention to them.

Which posts exactly are the hateful posts in this thread? Please feel free to refer to them by either username or post number.

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RE: Financial Domination - 5/26/2014 11:15:50 AM

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What I find to be ironic is that while I've read the CM threads and profiles which are dominated by femfindoms, the only instances I know of with respect to financial domination was real time and a man taking money from his women.

One got a monthly 'submission fee' and where she was also about ready to sign over her debt-free home...acquired from inheritance.

The other was a poly master who took all of the money his slaves earned while laying around waiting for their pleasure. Just proves the old adage...a fool and his/her money...are soon parted.

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RE: Financial Domination - 5/26/2014 2:07:36 PM

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Hate is making comments on another's activities without having an understanding these activities. As an example, take the gay community. While for the life of me I cannot see what is remotely attractive as wanting to stick your face in another man's hairy sweaty bunghole after he's been on the beach all day, but there are men who find it a total turn on. But because I don't enjoy what they do I have no right to bash them. The same holds true for financial domination. The only people who bash financial domination are those who do not understand or enjoy it... which is clearly hate. Now go back to the past posts with your new knowledge and I think you will be able to see the hate for yourself

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RE: Financial Domination - 5/26/2014 2:14:38 PM

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Female lead financial domination relationships are very common in real life. I could site you many many examples I have seen in my practice. But they are not something that most people advertise, just like other D/s fetishes are often hidden from others.

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What I find to be ironic is that while I've read the CM threads and profiles which are dominated by femfindoms, the only instances I know of with respect to financial domination was real time and a man taking money from his women.

One got a monthly 'submission fee' and where she was also about ready to sign over her debt-free home...acquired from inheritance.

The other was a poly master who took all of the money his slaves earned while laying around waiting for their pleasure. Just proves the old adage...a fool and his/her money...are soon parted.

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RE: Financial Domination - 5/26/2014 2:18:10 PM

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Hate is making comments on another's activities without having an understanding these activities.

No, not in a mainstream dictionary, nor in clinical nomenclature, caringShrink. "Hate" means "intense dislike." You can prove me wrong by posting any dictionary definition, or peer-reviewed psychology paper, that uses the word in the way you define it. But you'll be hard-pressed to find such a source.

The posters on this thread don't have any intense emotions toward financial domination at all. Except for the ones who intensely enjoy practicing it. I wonder if you think the findommes on this thread are commenting without knowing what they are talking about.

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RE: Financial Domination - 5/26/2014 2:25:33 PM

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You just proved my point without knowing it. Again to the OP, if you enjoy it and it isn't hurting anyone else then do it all you want and tune out the haters.

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RE: Financial Domination - 5/26/2014 2:29:16 PM

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CM is filled with haters. For every fake domme I a sware there are 3 hates. I get about a dozen nasty emails a week from people hating on me because of my name and my fetish.

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