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MsNymph -> What ever happened to.... (5/27/2014 5:08:46 PM)

"My kink may not be your kink, or their kink, but to each their own" ?

There are really some rude ass people on this site that feel if you aren't into what they are, or do things their way you are fair game for a nasty mail. Grow up, and get on with your life! I didn't look you up, you looked me up.

I'm sorry, but it really still amazes me how ill mannered some people can be.

MN



tsatske -> RE: What ever happened to.... (5/27/2014 5:18:38 PM)

Total strangers are sometimes ill mannered. It happens in the grocery store and the park, as well. You wouldn't choose those people to be your friends, but that doesn't prevent you from bumping into them. Block and delete.



MsLadySue -> RE: What ever happened to.... (5/27/2014 6:11:34 PM)

To get a better idea why you've been getting nasty messages, perhaps reading this recent thread will help.



shiftyw -> RE: What ever happened to.... (5/27/2014 6:27:06 PM)

I find this is a problem in all of life.
I realize its hard, but buck up, cause its going to happen forever, in all areas.



MsNymph -> RE: What ever happened to.... (5/27/2014 6:40:58 PM)

Oh, I understand there are small minded people, and those that will condemn before they understand what something is about. It's funny how brave someone gets when they have the protection of a computer screen.

The ones I get rude messages from I don't even bother to reply, and block them immediately. I guess I just believe it's not fair for me to get in a battle of wits with an unarmed person.

As long as a kink is legal, and between consenting adults, no one has the right to judge....but it doesn't mean they won't judge you.

Thank you all for your kind replies to this, I do appreciate it.

MN



ivone57 -> RE: What ever happened to.... (5/27/2014 7:11:20 PM)

yeah just forget what they say... its you that has to live with what your into and as long as you can do that then fuck them... just saying [:)]



shiftyw -> RE: What ever happened to.... (5/27/2014 7:38:11 PM)

Everyone has the right to judge.



SweetlySadistic1 -> RE: What ever happened to.... (5/27/2014 7:43:44 PM)

Yes,, some people are just rude judgmental asswipes. I BLOCK & DELETE and move on. They are nothing but pixels on a screen to me.

SweetlySadistic1



ResidentSadist -> RE: What ever happened to.... (5/28/2014 7:39:36 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MsNymph
"My kink may not be your kink, or their kink, but to each their own" ?


It collided head on with the internet's "there is one true way" and "you're doing it wrong, that's not what it says in the book".

You can always blame it on CastleRealm. [:D]



payingoinker -> RE: What ever happened to.... (5/28/2014 7:53:26 AM)

It does seem to happen much more often on this site which really amazes me since we all just want to accepted for whatever are kinks are. Maybe is fear or not understanding. I get bashed for my kink here all the time so I know exactly what you are talking about.


quote:

ORIGINAL: MsNymph

"My kink may not be your kink, or their kink, but to each their own" ?

There are really some rude ass people on this site that feel if you aren't into what they are, or do things their way you are fair game for a nasty mail. Grow up, and get on with your life! I didn't look you up, you looked me up.

I'm sorry, but it really still amazes me how ill mannered some people can be.

MN




MsNymph -> RE: What ever happened to.... (5/28/2014 8:13:45 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

quote:

ORIGINAL: MsNymph
"My kink may not be your kink, or their kink, but to each their own" ?


It collided head on with the internet's "there is one true way" and "you're doing it wrong, that's not what it says in the book".

You can always blame it on CastleRealm. [:D]



Too true LOL



MsNymph -> RE: What ever happened to.... (5/28/2014 8:27:53 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: payingoinker

It does seem to happen much more often on this site which really amazes me since we all just want to accepted for whatever are kinks are. Maybe is fear or not understanding. I get bashed for my kink here all the time so I know exactly what you are talking about.



Yes, I am sure you do know how I feel.

It's OK for someone to want their ass beat until it's red, welted & bruised.....needles stuck all in their junk, covered in wax, and trampled on by stilettos....heaven forbid you criticize them for wanting that. Yet they can judge me for mine....I don't think so.

There is a lot of "online only" kinksters, fetishists, and BDSM people here. I would like to see then step into the real world of BDSM and see how far the judging people will get them LMAO

MN



Vgsjohn -> RE: What ever happened to.... (5/28/2014 9:29:42 AM)

Very sad that W/we have to add "disclaimers" to all O/our posts.






RedMagic1 -> RE: What ever happened to.... (5/28/2014 10:19:37 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MsNymph
"My kink may not be your kink, or their kink, but to each their own" ?

There are really some rude ass people on this site that feel if you aren't into what they are, or do things their way you are fair game for a nasty mail. Grow up, and get on with your life! I didn't look you up, you looked me up.

I'm sorry, but it really still amazes me how ill mannered some people can be.

MN

It might have something to do with the fact that you are charging money, despite admitting on another thread that you have no idea what you are doing. I don't care about findom as a kink, but I don't respect opportunism. You come across as the mature-woman version of a finduck, so it is unsurprising that people aren't impressed.



MsNymph -> RE: What ever happened to.... (5/28/2014 10:34:29 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

It might have something to do with the fact that you are charging money, despite admitting on another thread that you have no idea what you are doing. I don't care about findom as a kink, but I don't respect opportunism. You come across as the mature-woman version of a finduck, so it is unsurprising that people aren't impressed.


You have your right to your opinion of me, as I do of you.

I have no idea what post you are referring to, please point it out if it does exist.

Hmmm, I went to check your profile, but it isn't coming up for me...



GoddessManko -> RE: What ever happened to.... (5/28/2014 10:40:50 AM)

It's nice to see the same uninformed band wagoning continues. Keeping it classy. :)



youbeyou4u -> RE: What ever happened to.... (5/28/2014 10:49:48 AM)

I see your online ...How do I get into the changed site name of collarme ???

Would like to delete my profile

Thanks



MsNymph -> RE: What ever happened to.... (5/28/2014 10:52:39 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: youbeyou4u

I see your online ...How do I get into the changed site name of collarme ???

Would like to delete my profile

Thanks



Here ya go http://www.collarspace.com



GreedyTop -> RE: What ever happened to.... (5/28/2014 10:53:51 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: youbeyou4u

I see your online ...How do I get into the changed site name of collarme ???

Would like to delete my profile

Thanks



You contact support, not the OP.



RedMagic1 -> RE: What ever happened to.... (5/28/2014 10:56:37 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MsNymph
I have no idea what post you are referring to, please point it out if it does exist.

I find it hard to believe that this request is a serious one, but ok. I'm talking about your currently-active thread in Ask A Submissive, where you state that you have no idea what to provide as a reward for an online slave.

In my world, before asking anyone for money, I need to be trained, certified, and to come with references. I consider anything less to be unprofessional at best. You, by contrast, are making it up as you go along, much like the pouting 20-somethings who call men losers once a month so they can pay their rent. I think it's likely that, far from being a financial dominant, you are a financial sub to something, whether it's an expensive relationship, or your unexpected underemployment or unemployment.

All that said, I would never send someone a message out of the blue unless it was a positive one. You, by contrast, posted on a public forum, wanting to know why people might think "your kink is not ok." So I figured I'd tell you what I see. I don't think you're engaging in a kink at all; I think you're trying to create a survival strategy. Speaking only for myself, my ethics would not permit me to experiment on other human beings while taking money from them at the same time.

You did ask.



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