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My sometimes Dominant submissive. - 6/4/2014 7:03:04 AM

darchChylde

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I had fractured 2 ribs in a coughing fit about 3 months ago and three days ago I fractured two more ribs I my mid back, causing even greater pain and far less ability to do the things around the apartment (which I take as my responsibility since she's the one actually working her ass off to keep rent pain and me full.

So I told my loving submissive of my worry of becoming depressed due to my feeling of helplessness, hell even making love is almost too painful and my having an orgasm can ruin my day through pain (think of what moves when you yawn and stretch).

My submissive chyldeschylde, has decided the she needed to be my part time Dominant during the important first two weeks of healing an injury that cannot be truly treated as the best way to take care of her Dominant (myself, a long time and long term submissive before our relationship).

To wit, has given me a 2 week assignment that is threefold. First I have to groom myself, since she knows much of my confidence comes from my appearance and that I am usually too sleepy from pills or too afraid of the pain to do anything but keep clean and let myself get scruffy.

Second I have to get something productive done, even if its something very small because mostly my depression stems from feeling helpless or useless.

And finally, since it's hard to be negative and still be thankful I have to each day give three things that I'm thankful for.

Today I am going to shower, shave and go to Social Security (which will be a major task as i can't afford to be jostled around on a crowded bus (which they all are with Muni's Sick Our) and will walk it there and back.

Finally, i am grateful for a love that is not afraid to be exactly what I need when I need it. I am also grateful for after several years actually having a home that I contribute to and that is actually in my name. And 3rd I am grateful to the many people who have loved and supported me that helps me to become exactly who I wanted to be.

< Message edited by darchChylde -- 6/4/2014 7:07:57 AM >

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RE: My sometimes Dominant submissive. - 6/4/2014 8:32:21 AM

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She is "Finest Kind". We are lucky to have such women who somehow love us enough to take charge when needed. When we are sick or injured she steps up and can and will run things, even us, when we cannot.

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RE: My sometimes Dominant submissive. - 6/4/2014 8:47:06 AM

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~FRing it~

I hope you begin feeling better soon. From personal experience, I remember how horribly painful rib fractures are. All the best for a speedy recovery. This is but a mere stumbling block on your journey. Things will get better.

It's also sweet to see your submissive care about you enough to brave giving her dominant his marching orders. And he isn't too stuck on himself to realize she is right...and comply

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RE: My sometimes Dominant submissive. - 6/4/2014 1:35:31 PM

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Wow. She sounds like an angel, better keep her. It's nice to see the appreciation.

Quick healing to you.

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RE: My sometimes Dominant submissive. - 6/4/2014 1:41:27 PM

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Best wishes for a quick recovery. I've been there, just breathing was an effort let alone try to do anything else. Try not to be hard on yourself, they take time to heal but you'll get back to doing what you want with time.

Master needed surgery 2 years ago and there were many things he was used to doing that he was under doctor's orders not to do. I know him well and knew as soon as he started feeling better he would want to start doing things he wasn't supposed to do but I made sure he didn't. I wouldn't say I became his dominant but I made sure he followed the doctor's orders.

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RE: My sometimes Dominant submissive. - 6/4/2014 4:03:08 PM

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This was so romantic and cute.
Sending healing vibes your way! All will be back to normal shortly!

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RE: My sometimes Dominant submissive. - 6/4/2014 5:08:50 PM

darchChylde

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Thanks for the kindness and sympathy, but my post is really just gloating about the wonderful woman my girl is!

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RE: My sometimes Dominant submissive. - 6/4/2014 5:26:43 PM

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Ouch, hope you recover quickly.

Basically, men make terrible patients. They don't listen to doctors' orders and they make themselves sicker. It's self preservation to sit on them when ill to make sure they recover properly.

I've dragged him into the doctor and demanded he talk about things he's hoping will go away on their own. He's done that for me also. But much less often.

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