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Geeky/Normal-Sadomasochistic-Dom/Sub Says Hi! - 6/5/2014 2:47:09 PM

Nightowluk

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Hello All,

First day on the site thought i'd say Hi!

As you may see from my title i'm a bit of a jack of all trades.

Here to make friends hopefully :)

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RE: Geeky/Normal-Sadomasochistic-Dom/Sub Says Hi! - 6/5/2014 3:17:44 PM

FieryOpal

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I'm sure the usual welcome wagon will be along within the next 24-48 hours, but meanwhile, I was going to point out that being a "Dom/Sub" would make you a Switch.

Then in your profile, you have classified yourself as a Switch, but you claim to be 99% Dom.

There really isn't 100% Dom, although a few might argue that point with zeal.

I see you've started a thread on wanting to experience "an extremely hard kick to the balls...or someone squeezing them very hard for a prolonged amount of time."
This must be the 1%, I infer. Hey, to each his own. I would say, Hope you find what you're looking for; but under the circumstances, I'll leave it at: Be careful what you wish for. You just might get it.

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RE: Geeky/Normal-Sadomasochistic-Dom/Sub Says Hi! - 6/5/2014 3:24:51 PM

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*waves* Welcome to the site! Hope you enjoy it on the forums. =]

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RE: Geeky/Normal-Sadomasochistic-Dom/Sub Says Hi! - 6/5/2014 4:01:46 PM

Nightowluk

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@FieryOpal

Absolutely correct...a dom/sub is a switch (doh!) I guess i just ran away with the idea for a title with lots of opposing things e.g. 'light/heavy...dom/sub...happy/sad guy' etc and forgot there was an obvious term for it! >.<

I would say i'm naturally dominant...but exactly what you said..noone is 100% anything! For the right person and for a 'bit of a change' i have been submissive before...makes a nice change and almost takes the pressure off of making sure your sub is enjoying herself..being submissive CAN sometimes be more relaxing..in a weird way!

As for the 'kick to the balls' thing...lol yup i guess that's just one of those extreme fantasies..i have genuinly (i promise i'm not lying) never been kicked in the balls at all...and i've always liked the idea of it being done extremely hard...and then being totally helpless..sounds strange but i actually can't imagine what it would feel like to be curled up helpless..even being unable to stand...
Guess the squeeze is just an extension of that...pain which doesn't stop after a second!
And hey...if the girl doing it was enjoying herself while doing it then it's win win!

I guess i'd happily..willingly experience it the once..but i reckon it's pretty unlikely it'll happen for real that bad...(probably not a bad thing in reality!!!)

Thank you so much for the welcome though!

and Thanks CrazyHarleyQuinn (awesome name btw!)

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RE: Geeky/Normal-Sadomasochistic-Dom/Sub Says Hi! - 6/5/2014 5:54:00 PM

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Well, you're very straightforward. This is the Intro section, which is supposed to be a relatively cut & dried process. You did the right thing by posting your discussion topic on the non-Intro forum. If you haven't already, you should check out the Ask a Switch forum.

From what I've read over there, which you may or may not have yet encountered IRT there in the UK, here on line there is a polarization with Dominant women and submissive women. Ordinarily, Dommes want subs and femsubs want Dominants, not Switches. Don't take it personally.

You should have better success with female switches. The reason why I'm telling you this is because virtually no Domme will be interested in a guy who says he's a 99% Top-oriented Switch. I am one of the few who will consider a straight male switch, but he has to be 75-80% sub at the very minimum. Your best bet with a submissive female is to downplay any bottoming tendencies. You can discuss BDSM compatibility later, not right off the bat in most cases because there are more Collarspace women seeking LTRs than a mere NSA play partner. If and when you engage in primal play, you will almost assuredly get kneed, kicked and/or punched in the groin.

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RE: Geeky/Normal-Sadomasochistic-Dom/Sub Says Hi! - 6/8/2014 9:11:22 PM

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Hello and welcome to the discussion forum where we talk about a wide variety of subjects ranging from relationship issues to exchanging recipes. If you have any questions, we have a Search feature that will help you find past threads on just about any topic you can imagine. Take a look around and see what we are all about and if a topic interest you, then join in and tell us your thoughts and feelings. Its nice to have you here with us ......Good luck in your search.

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