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RE: constant money requests - 6/8/2014 8:14:51 PM   
FortWayneSub


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ORIGINAL: dink22

Although this has been talked about, it's a serious problem on this site that CM has elected to do nothing about. What is disgusting is the people who actually defend it.



You may not believe it but it is a real fetish for some people. Not one of mine mind you but there are subs out there that really get off on findom.

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RE: constant money requests - 6/9/2014 7:35:15 AM   
dink22


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RE: constant money requests - 6/9/2014 4:13:31 PM   
Killerangel


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ORIGINAL: dink22

I'm talking about the people who are fakes.


Which ones are those? The fake ones....?

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RE: constant money requests - 6/9/2014 4:25:34 PM   
TNDommeK


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Status: offline 		Oh he thinks anyone who is into that fetish is fake, or a whore, or jobless etc.
He disappears and comes back from time to time complaining about this subject.

The admins just love him. I'll be curious as to how the new ones react.


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RE: constant money requests - 6/9/2014 4:27:16 PM   
angelikaJ


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ORIGINAL: dink22

I'm talking about the people who are fakes.


And how are you determining that they are fakes?
I am sure some people would categorise me as a fake; after all I am a slave whose Master insists she uses safewords.
Am I a fake?
Is He?


Or are you a fake because you only really choose to discuss how fin-dommes are fake?

Sadly, your single-mindedness probably makes you seem somewhat unattractive to lifestyle dommes.



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RE: constant money requests - 6/9/2014 4:32:02 PM   
GoddessManko


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ORIGINAL: angelikaJ

Sadly, your single-mindedness probably makes you seem somewhat unattractive to lifestyle dommes.




You would think that if someone's approach doesn't seem to be working for them they would try a new one YEARS later, but no, I think I'll just sit back, complain and hope it will just land in my lap. Perhaps OP you need a bit of hindsight at what hasn't been working for you, if you hope to ever take whatever you're doing offline at all years later. And a bit of foresight as to the most pragmatic approach to stop running in this hamster wheel of giving your money away and complaining about it thereafter.
As all the other posters stated, you have the option to block them so if you give it's of your own accord. Sorry for once again, being Captain Obvious.

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RE: constant money requests - 6/9/2014 4:53:04 PM   
Killerangel


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quote:

ORIGINAL: TNDommeK

Oh he thinks anyone who is into that fetish is fake, or a whore, or jobless etc.
He disappears and comes back from time to time complaining about this subject.

The admins just love him. I'll be curious as to how the new ones react.



Yes, I know, I was being disingenuous, I know all about him. I wanted to see what explanation he would give...you know how you give enough rope to people to hang themselves and all that. It's all he ever talks about. Obviously, he's not a chick magnet since he's been sadly alone all this time while going off on his rants of not being able to get his rocks off for free.

Sorry I didn't mean to waste your time, but thanks for being kind enough to answer

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RE: constant money requests - 6/9/2014 5:22:01 PM   
RockaRolla


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ORIGINAL: dink22

I'm talking about the people who are fakes.

Asking for money doesn't make one a fake.
Having a kink you don't like doesn't make one fake.

People are way too quick to cry "fake!" every time they get an answer they don't like on a dating/personals site. It's a load of horse shit and nothing more than a cheap tactic to try and coerce someone into doing what you want.

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RE: constant money requests - 6/9/2014 6:59:58 PM   
stef


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ORIGINAL: angelikaJ

And how are you determining that they are fakes?

If they don't want anything to do with him, they are fakes. Consequently, everyone but him is a fake.

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RE: constant money requests - 6/9/2014 8:09:00 PM   
princessBrina


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ORIGINAL: RockaRolla

quote:

ORIGINAL: dink22

I'm talking about the people who are fakes.

Asking for money doesn't make one a fake.
Having a kink you don't like doesn't make one fake.

People are way too quick to cry "fake!" every time they get an answer they don't like on a dating/personals site. It's a load of horse shit and nothing more than a cheap tactic to try and coerce someone into doing what you want.


this is so true..i get the "your fake" a lot on here usually nowhere else..many oeople are trying to just get me naked on cam and that is not what i am into. Even verifying to everyone showing your real is a hasstle but i do t in hopes and have found a local slave from doing so...anythings possible everyone no matter what they are into will have to weed out through bullshit

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RE: constant money requests - 6/10/2014 3:53:32 AM   
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ORIGINAL: princessBrina

this is so true..i get the "your fake" a lot on here usually nowhere else..many oeople are trying to just get me naked on cam and that is not what i am into. Even verifying to everyone showing your real is a hasstle but i do t in hopes and have found a local slave from doing so...anythings possible everyone no matter what they are into will have to weed out through bullshit

You're a young lady, so this can be expected on either side of the kneel and in between. As many fin-Dommes as may be on this site, it is far more infested with HNGs-Horny Net Geeks. The closest I've come to being called a fake, which I haven't (yet), is when a rude "slave" left a message after reading my profile telling me I had no right to be "lecturing" [male submissives]. It's my effing profile, you know. I can damn well write whatever I want in there. If I specify I want a sub who has monkeys flying out of his butt as my solitary criterion, then I have every right to be as delusional as I choose.

Playing devil's advocate momentarily, dink22 did not explicitly say that ALL fin-Dommes are fakes. He has a right to express his opinion null ad hominem, as do the rest of us, no matter how wearisome it is to hear complaints about scammers and whatnot. (As if this isn't the Interwebz.) Let the buyer beware.

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RE: constant money requests - 6/10/2014 7:45:36 AM   
TNDommeK


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I'm curious to see what he has to say as well. We should start a dink pool.
I'm gonna go with "women who demand money are whores"

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RE: constant money requests - 6/10/2014 9:56:55 AM   
MissKittyDeVine


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Status: offline 		I'll add 'scammers,' 'real dommes don't ask for money,' and 'get a real job'. Dink bingo!

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RE: constant money requests - 6/10/2014 10:54:05 AM   
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RE: constant money requests - 6/10/2014 4:20:36 PM   
RockaRolla


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ORIGINAL: FieryOpal
Playing devil's advocate momentarily, dink22 did not explicitly say that ALL fin-Dommes are fakes.

True, but we are still waiting for clarification on that point. He did jump in a thread about findommes and started complaining about the mass of fakes that CS refuses to address, so what are we supposed to think?

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RE: constant money requests - 6/10/2014 4:23:37 PM   
RockaRolla


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Source.

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RE: constant money requests - 6/10/2014 5:07:03 PM   
TNDommeK


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RE: constant money requests - 6/11/2014 5:51:44 PM   
BecomingV


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Status: offline 		dink, Is it a serious problem to you that some male Doms control the purse strings of their submissives, without calling it a tribute?

quote:

ORIGINAL: dink22

Although this has been talked about, it's a serious problem on this site that CM has elected to do nothing about. What is disgusting is the people who actually defend it.


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RE: constant money requests - 6/12/2014 8:58:52 AM   
TNDommeK


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Status: offline 		OOOOOhhh this is a good question. I'm curious as to his answer.
Let's just hope he actually answers the question.

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RE: constant money requests - 6/12/2014 2:34:52 PM   
Moderator3


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ORIGINAL: dink22

Although this has been talked about, it's a serious problem on this site that CM has elected to do nothing about. What is disgusting is the people who actually defend it.


Actually, this is not currently true. Support has been doing a lot of cleaning. The kink is allowed and many members wish to take part, though there are abuses and those are being dealt with. If you will note the journal entry page, is very much different than it used to be.

Let's give some credit where credit is due. Support is doing an amazing job of cleaning up many things that have been left undone for many years.

Maybe you can give us some consideration here, as we are trying.

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