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New to online bdsm chat and community, but I live a 24/7 D/s married dynamic, here to learn and get new ideas. Okay, I'm getting that "funny feeling" that this guy is just out for getting his online rocks off, and not really helpful to my specific situation at all... Am I just jumping to conclusions here or could there actually be something to learned here? quote:
*some random 26yo dom*: you're seeking a Teacher? Default: I am, she is very submissive by nature, I was the stubborn one who only recently realized how the BDSM lifestyle is more than meets the eye. It's already taken our relationship to new levels that I never thought possible, and now I am trying to learn what I can about myself, her, and our established roles. If you have the time, I'd love to ask you some questions about a few things, to make sure I'm on the right track, and maybe get new ideas of fun things to try with her. What's your experience in the lifestyle? *some random 26yo dom*: It's instinctual to me and is the only thing I've ever done. I am a true Alpha Male. I am fine with talking to you, but I would have to ask what would be in it for me. I like the thought of taking a couple under My wing, but by that I mean truly under My wing. Default: Interesting, I'm not exactly sure what you're implying by truly under your wing, but I do know I would love to hear your advice and follow your guidance. As for what's in it for you, if you were local I would let you teach me by example with her, but I'm pretty clueless as to what we can offer just being online. I've realized dominance is like a missing puzzle piece for me in life, as she puts it, I have all the signs of being dominant and aggressive with her, but my overall attitude is more easy going and laid back. My biggest problem is coming up with meaningful rules, figuring out when and how to punish (she always has great excuses), and then the timing of when and where (we work opposite schedules and have two young kids). *some random 26yo dom*: Do you guys have skype? That's a start for Me. And then we could move forward from there.
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