DomKen
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Joined: 7/4/2004 From: Chicago, IL Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady Forget athletics and bathrooms. Think realistically. No boys or girls, just children. Ok, so what do you tell them when they notice that difference in "plumbing?" Its not uncommon for a girl with a couple brothers to wonder why she doesn't have a "thing," or the boy with a couple sisters to question what the hell happened that he has a "thing., do they suffere from GID? No, they simply notice the difference. No boys or girls? Ok, so there is also now no such thing as being heterosexual or homosexual, everyone is technically now bisexual because until the clothes come off, no one has any idea what parts the other has. "Infant gender assignment" is a term made up by the author, not a recognized term. I'm all for allowing children to ply with whatever toys they like or wear what clothes they find comfortable. Gender identity disorder means your insides don't match your outside from a psychological/mental aspect. I don't mean its a mental health problem ratther that the head and body don't match. Logically, that means your outside has to have a particular gender for your head to disagree with. When that happens, by all means one deserves the right to make them match. However, the reality is that the vast majority of people match inside and out. The writer obviously has not overcome all her issues with her SRS (or just her transgenderism if she has not compleated surgery). She seems to be confused with what "equal rights" really means. It doesn't mean taking away the identity of those who don't have GID just to make her feel better. Did you not understand the essay at all? The writer is not saying never have gender. The point is not to have anyone outside assign the gender solely by looking at the genitalia but instead to wait and let the child choose their gender themselves when they get old enough to express it.
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