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How to tell a Master to stop asking me to try women.. o... - 7/1/2014 6:23:52 AM

SinfulBashful

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I have a master.. he is not exclusive to me, has said he will never be monogamous to me, and I am not expected to be exclusive to him either (although I am right now). He thinks I am a slave to him and would never want to be involved with anyone else which is a little true. At this time he is seeing another woman who he says also "worships his cock". So, that is the kind of thing we have going and no lies works for us.

He makes comments like, "Its such a shame you are not bisexual" and "wouldn't you like your clit licked while getting pounded? What does it matter if its a man or woman doing it?". I'm not bicurious and he wants me to do it. I have told him I'm not curious about being with a woman at all and he just says, "All women are bisexual".

The subject is coming up often and I don't want to do it. I just assume the threesome would involve one of his other girlfriends. On a separate level, I don't have any desire to meet or be involved with his others either.

He isn't asking me to do it; he's telling me its going to happen. If I were to do it, It wouldn't be because i wanted to or liked it, it would be just because I wanted to make him happy. If he made me do it, I think I would feel very badly afterwards and not want to see or talk to him for awhile.... maybe ever.

He's also mentioned taking me with him to the swingers club but I said I didn't want to because I'm not interested in women... but dicks, yes yes yes, bring it on, 3 at once! To that he said "Ok, you don't have to do it"

How do I get him to stop bringing up making me play with another woman, or how do I indulge him without hating him for it?

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RE: How to tell a Master to stop asking me to try women... - 7/1/2014 6:25:54 AM

crazyml

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Hey, and I say this without any snark at all, have you considered telling him to stop being a dick?

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RE: How to tell a Master to stop asking me to try women... - 7/1/2014 6:30:01 AM

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If you have told him it will not happen, and he continues to say it will, time to walk away, as hard as it may be. Been there, done that, got the t-shirt.

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RE: How to tell a Master to stop asking me to try women... - 7/1/2014 6:38:36 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SinfulBashful
He isn't asking me to do it; he's telling me its going to happen.

^^^ THIS ^^^ tells me everything I need to know.

Time to kick this asshat to the kerb...
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RE: How to tell a Master to stop asking me to try women... - 7/1/2014 7:08:39 AM

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I will never leave him. Even if I fell in love with someone, I would still be worshiping this guys dick on the side. Just have no interest in oral pleasure from or for a woman.

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RE: How to tell a Master to stop asking me to try women... - 7/1/2014 7:10:39 AM

crazyml

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In that case, if I were you I'd get ready to lick pussy, because if you don't there's a chance he'll get bored and leave you.

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RE: How to tell a Master to stop asking me to try women... - 7/1/2014 7:40:50 AM

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I'm with Crazyml on this one! If ya won't leave him and he won't stop asking, what other choices do you have?

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RE: How to tell a Master to stop asking me to try women... - 7/1/2014 7:50:13 AM

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"Surprise" him with another man. Invite the other guy to dinner without telling your Master. Explain that you've thought your Master has bi leanings for some time now and you want him to feel free to indulge them.

Failing that, quit calling the doofus your Master and dump him. Since you state that you'll never leave him, just give him a safeword every time he brings your bi-ness up.

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RE: How to tell a Master to stop asking me to try women... - 7/1/2014 7:51:45 AM

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Let me guess, First Ds Relationship? First time a guy has paid you attention like this?

You will leave him on average a Ds relationship lasts much shorter then a vanilla one because most people settle for people incompatible to them, and then after time grow to resent the things they settled on.

The guys an asshole, If you agree to do this you will HATE yourself for the rest of your life. It will be something that hurts, that you regret that changes the way you look at yourself in the mirror. And he wont care that it made you so sick you ended up puking for an hour or three, or that you run and hide from him. Because hes an ASS who doesnt respect your limits, and he will never respect your limits...

Ive been there... Ive done this... Ive got the funny story of puking directly on to the girls cunt.. The only thing that will come about this is you hating yourself and him.

Dump him, and find a shrink, work on yourself, Whatever it is that is making you think its okay to hurt and debase yourself to some dude totally not worth you...

And when your better stronger or what ever, remember one important thing...

When you settle for someone incompatible 9 out of 10 times it ends in going badly.

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RE: How to tell a Master to stop asking me to try women... - 7/1/2014 7:55:33 AM

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The cock might be worth worshipping, but the useless skin attached to it sounds like the real dick.

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RE: How to tell a Master to stop asking me to try women... - 7/1/2014 8:13:45 AM

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<wipes eyes>

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RE: How to tell a Master to stop asking me to try women... - 7/1/2014 9:54:56 AM

SeekingTrinity

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~FRing it~

If you will never leave him and will not stand up for yourself as far as what your hard limits are, get used to the idea of some woman touching you and you touching her. Because it's going to end up happening.

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RE: How to tell a Master to stop asking me to try women... - 7/1/2014 10:37:33 AM

SinFix

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Honey, great dick is easy to find; a good man near impossible..

As others have said, he will leave if you aren't going to do it, it is that simple. Think on what is most important to you, your values and limits or a dime a dozen cock...

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RE: How to tell a Master to stop asking me to try women... - 7/1/2014 11:32:49 AM

DesFIP

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If 'all' women are bisexual then all men are also. So ask him wouldn't he like a big cock up his ass pounding him? After all, it will give him prostate massage which is supposed to feel pretty damn good.

Tell him one of your other partners would be glad to do him while you take pics.

Well, that's what I would like to say to such an idiot. In actuality I always suggest taking the high road.

Tell him you're looking for a man who doesn't think you're a liar or delusional about your own needs. Which is what he's doing and it's unbearably rude.

Wish him good luck finding two women to do each other, suggest he tries calling an escort agency. And block and delete him unread in future.

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RE: How to tell a Master to stop asking me to try women... - 7/1/2014 11:44:40 AM

subrosaDom

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I suggest a version of the Ludovico Technique (from A Clockwork Orange). Tell this "Master" you will be happy to do just what he wants, but in order to get you prepared, you need to be really hot -- and the only way to get you that hot is for you and him to watch the nastiest gay male porn for about 6 hours in a row straight -- with only the most well-endowed men in the world, only the closest of close-ups -- and that if he keeps his eyes pinned to the screen for 6 hours (and masturbates himself throughout), then you'll be ready to go. If he objects, just tell him that you know he'll love it.

One other point: if you tell him you'll never leave him, then you have no leverage whatsoever, although why you would want to stay with this personification of dick suggests that you need to look inside yourself and consider why you believe you are so undeserving as a human being that you deserve him.

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RE: How to tell a Master to stop asking me to try women... - 7/1/2014 1:24:04 PM

AthenaSurrenders

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You realise you're not a person to this man, right? You're just a blow up doll to fulfill his fantasies and massage his ego. Of course you are bi, and of course you want to have a threesome with a woman of his choosing, and of course you will find that random woman attractive and you will both just love waiting your turn to suck his dick because he doesn't see you as a human being, just an extension of his masturbatory fantasies.

You think his dick is good? Wait until you try one that's attached to a guy who gives a shit about YOUR enjoyment.

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RE: How to tell a Master to stop asking me to try women... - 7/1/2014 1:57:03 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SinfulBashful

I will never leave him. Even if I fell in love with someone, I would still be worshiping this guys dick on the side. Just have no interest in oral pleasure from or for a woman.

Then why the hell are you here asking questions about how to make him stop doing something. No matter what he does, you are not going to leave, so I would suggest you get ready to eat some pussy or have yours eaten by a chick.

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RE: How to tell a Master to stop asking me to try women... - 7/1/2014 1:58:26 PM

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The cock might be worth worshipping, but the useless skin attached to it sounds like the real dick.

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RE: How to tell a Master to stop asking me to try women... - 7/1/2014 2:50:05 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SinfulBashful

I will never leave him. Even if I fell in love with someone, I would still be worshiping this guys dick on the side. Just have no interest in oral pleasure from or for a woman.

In that case you have no business asking for advice.

You've pointed out serious red flags from this "Master." You've had these pointed out to you. And you don't care.
Keep on worshiping, sister. You already know the answer to your question.

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RE: How to tell a Master to stop asking me to try women... - 7/1/2014 4:52:40 PM

Gauge

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I had something really really good to say, but it would seem that I have been scooped by people already.

OP, if you will never leave this guy then you will get what you deserve.

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