ExiledTyrant
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Okay, lemme clear up muh other post.
1. Anyone can Top. They may totally suck Satan's balls at it (yep, that goes either way)
2. Anyone can bottom. They may be soooo experienced they nap through all your boring shit, or scream bloody murder over the diabolical bunny flogger (not the Bannicula variety, that one is fukin scary)
3. You're either a sub or you're not. You can play sub, but if you're not you'll fool the people that don't know better.
4. You're either a Dom or your not... (^ same shit)
Now, let's clear up some shit that most people don't get or are confused about.
1. Being a Dom is nothing like being Oz the great and terrible. Dom's do what Dom's do, fuck everything else. Dom's indulge their proclivities, just as subs want to indulge theirs. A Dom is not going to rush out and master "this" because it will be so Uber at play space. A Dom is going to Master exactly what turns their crank and the victim will 99% of the time reap that reward in private
2. Being a Dom is like being the one, Neo, you just are, you were born that way, and the only real shit you're bringing to the dynamic is that deep primal predatory dominance that makes that (particular) /s turn to goo.
Now, let's look at the Top
1. Unlike some Doms ( I put some in there, but you can read it as most) Tops are driven. They are driven to do better, learn more, perform better, and be the Picasso of kinky things. Many Tops are driven to satiate their kinky needs, and some think that is what a real and true Dom will do.
2. In the world of kink, kinky pleasure, absolute mind blowing play experience the Top doesn't beat the Dom by a nose, the Top laps the Dom three times and wins by an entire length +3 laps.
3. There are exceptions to the rule... Our Diva of destruction being a fine example. Nevertheless, when you are looking for the goose that laid the golden flogger, you should be looking for a Top.
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Now we'll have a look at me. I'm not a Top. I can get schooled by the majority of the people in the kink world if I ever chose to poke my nose in things I don't understand. I am a Dom, a primal evil fucking prick that absolutely gives off a tangible energy to "some" /s's. When I get around an /s that is tuned into my D, Mother Teresa disappears and the whore of Babylon takes over. The /s knows, on an intuitive level that I can grab it, take it, keep it, and do whatever the hell I want to it and she is just going to grin and agree. To the proper /s I am a full dose of Stockholm syndrome in 15 minutes; the slut is mine and will do whatever I tell her to do, even honing her mind reading abilities just so she can please me more efficiently.
The down side of that is, I'm a Dom with a specific agenda that only does what I like to do. I do not get involved with /s's that need more than what I do, cuz I just ain't gunna do it. I will not Master a single tail for play. I'm pretty handy with a whip, but that is just for killing shit (yes, I've travelled and lived in some pretty freaky places). I am not, nor will I ever be the amazing Top that everyone wants to see. At the very best I am that weirdo that an /s just wants to spend 15 minutes with to see if all that shit I said above is true.
Jus sayin
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