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something to ponder ?? - 7/11/2006 7:28:55 AM   
Tamerofwild1s


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Status: offline 		just sitting here this morning drinking a hot cup of coffee when this thought popped into my head. I am an only child and I have noticed a few other Dominants talk of being as well ..... so I guess the question should be worded like this:
 
Are you an only child or maybe the senior sibling in your family, and do you think that may lead to your "status"?
 
would love to hear other peoples thoughts on the subject

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RE: something to ponder ?? - 7/11/2006 7:46:39 AM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		Nope girls above us...... My twin brother and I are totally different.  I am the brains, he is the brawn.

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RE: something to ponder ?? - 7/11/2006 7:48:41 AM   
SirKenin


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RE: something to ponder ?? - 7/11/2006 8:12:10 AM   
IronBear


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Status: offline 		I too am the eldest of two brothers... He has come to me to learn about Gor and slavery (his partner is very subby)

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RE: something to ponder ?? - 7/11/2006 8:13:08 AM   
impishlilhellcat


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Status: offline 		I'm an only child and while I have major switch tendancies for the right person I am all submissive quite possibley even slave.

Edited to Add: Sorry to butt in on the Master's post, but I thought I would add another side to this topic.

< Message edited by impishlilhellcat -- 7/11/2006 8:14:15 AM >

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RE: something to ponder ?? - 7/11/2006 8:14:19 AM   
MasterFireMaam


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Status: offline 		I'm the youngest; my brother (full brother) is 9 years older. As kids, he tormented me (imagine a 4 year old girl and a 13 year old boy!), but I've worked through that. Growing up, it's like my parents had two different families. We never even went to the same school system, let alone schools. By the time I was old enough to establish a halfway meaningful relationships with him, he went off to college. He's a good guy and seems to be an excellent father, but I don't feel I know him very well...more like an aquaintance that I talk to about twice a year.

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RE: something to ponder ?? - 7/11/2006 8:14:49 AM   
subedana


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Status: offline 		Let's see, I'm second eldest of 4 and a switch but lean to the submissive.
Jim is the youngest of 3 and is very Dom
Older sister is a first daughter of a first daughter and very very Dommie. She just doesn't know it.

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RE: something to ponder ?? - 7/11/2006 8:33:13 AM   
RavenMuse


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Status: offline 		Only child. Don't think it directly relates, but indirectly because I HAD to become highly self reliant at a very early age, thus confident in my own ability to deal with almost whatever life has to throw at me. Self-reliance and confidence are definatly helpful, but I think I'd have turned out this side of the dynamic anyhow, there are indicators of it from a VERY early age.

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RE: something to ponder ?? - 7/11/2006 9:27:31 AM   
Sab


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Status: offline 		Second youngest in a family of eight, Tamer. 

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RE: something to ponder ?? - 7/11/2006 9:58:56 AM   
juliaoceania


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RE: something to ponder ?? - 7/11/2006 10:15:35 AM   
Wildfleurs


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Tamerofwild1s

Are you an only child or maybe the senior sibling in your family, and do you think that may lead to your "status"?
 
would love to hear other peoples thoughts on the subject


Both my owner and I are eldest children.

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RE: something to ponder ?? - 7/11/2006 10:23:44 AM   
mastersayed


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Status: offline 		I was raised as an only child.
I got seperated form my siblings at a young age due to a custody battle/ kidnapping to another country.

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RE: something to ponder ?? - 7/11/2006 10:32:16 AM   
TheShadows


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Status: offline 		I have 1 older brother.  I actually think my Dominance stems from my father raising me and my brother by himself for quite a few years, back when it wasn't popular to be Mr. Mom.  He always told me not to count on anyone else for anything, to root for the underdog, and be in control of my life.

As always, YMMV...
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RE: something to ponder ?? - 7/11/2006 10:36:42 AM   
PlayfulOne


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Status: offline 		I am the oldest,  but my girl is also the oldest.  Idon't actually see any conection

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RE: something to ponder ?? - 7/11/2006 10:41:53 AM   
Tamerofwild1s


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quote:

ORIGINAL: TheShadows

I have 1 older brother.  I actually think my Dominance stems from my father raising me and my brother by himself for quite a few years, back when it wasn't popular to be Mr. Mom.  He always told me not to count on anyone else for anything, to root for the underdog, and be in control of my life.

As always, YMMV...
Mrs. Shadows


I find that to be funny in thats something this Mr Mom has told his son on many occasions . worded a bit different but the same context ...

I also want to say that I too was an only child who at an early age had to be come self suffiecient and thrown into the lions den of surviving on my own . being in control of my own destiny

It's interesting to see placement in a family and how it relates to your placement in the lifestyle or should I say the avenue you chose for yourself ...

I see alot of the only child syndrome where we had no choice but to take control of situations . I also seen the youngest scenario .. especially when there may have been a huge gap in ages .... as far as twins I believe on person in the twins will carry dominant tendencies and the other more submissive tendencies ...

I look forward to seeing the phsyce of those in the lifestyle based on there placement in the family. it really is something to ponder afterall

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RE: something to ponder ?? - 7/11/2006 7:37:26 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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Status: offline 		Youngest and only daughter......created submissive?..Tempting

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RE: something to ponder ?? - 7/11/2006 8:06:32 PM   
Flame73


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Status: offline 		Cross is oldest of 3 boys. I however, was raised as an only child.
 
 
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RE: something to ponder ?? - 7/12/2006 12:23:16 AM   
SusanofO


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Status: offline 		I am the oldest of three girls, and I am a submissive (possibly a Switch).

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RE: something to ponder ?? - 7/12/2006 1:19:34 AM   
WayWardSoul


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Status: offline 		I am the youngest boy and the oldest was a bully until I got bigger and stronger and put a stop to it. He might beat me down at the time but I always came back later and got my shot in. Now he will only mouth off to me if we are on the phone (which hasn't happened in many years) and he knows I don't know where to find him. I have a brother and sister between us and a sister younger then me.

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RE: something to ponder ?? - 7/12/2006 1:25:40 AM   
Pulpsmack


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SirKenin

I am the eldest of two brothers.



ditto

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