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RE: something to ponder ?? - 7/12/2006 1:53:09 AM

Padriag

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I was an only child, and the oldest of the grandchildren.

So I don't share well and I got stuck with being responsible for all my cousins.

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RE: something to ponder ?? - 7/12/2006 2:53:35 AM

wandering4u

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Third of four. Birth order may have more to do with experiences allowed (or not) by parents. Not sure it applies here but who knows...

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RE: something to ponder ?? - 7/12/2006 5:15:33 AM

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I am the eldest of four...and the only girl. I'm the consummate Mom; parenting since I was ten. I am a strong, capable, submissive woman.

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RE: something to ponder ?? - 7/12/2006 5:21:35 AM

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I am the oldest, but my middle sister sort of took over the "do everything right and what my parents always said" role. I was the wild one; at least the one who would not fail to "try new things" (not all of them wise things), with or without anyone's "approval". Of course, that was mostly in my late teens and early twenties, and that may have largely been due to other things I was going through at the time. I do consider myself today to be very responsible, and caring (and was back then, too, or at least tried my best, under the circumstances) - and I do love my family - a lot.

- Susan

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RE: something to ponder ?? - 7/12/2006 5:30:55 AM

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I am the middle child of three, with an older sister and younger brother. I have been dominant since I can remember, and my brother was basically my first submissive. LOL

I used to make my sister cry constantly, as she was supposed to be in charge of us, but I would never listen and tease her till she broke-down. Needless to say, I have repented to both of them and begged their forgiveness.

Now I only Dom one, and she loves me for it...

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RE: something to ponder ?? - 7/12/2006 6:12:26 AM

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Oldest of 3, have two younger sisters. While being raised was told time and time again it was my duity to take care of my sisters. Then my father was also a big time Holy Roller and loved to talk about how in the times of the Bible women were property and could be sold and even killed if they displeased thier men. I'm sure that had something to do with me becoming Dom in a way but I'm not sure how much. I do know that even as a child I could care less what others felt and always did my own thing. My parents house became just a place to eat and sleep and my parents became people I just helped pay bills.

Thinking back about that I do find it ammusing now that if my father knew exactly how Dominant I am he would give me a rant about how its wrong and the Bible forbids that kind of behavior. They know I'm in control of my family but they dont realize how much in contrl that is.

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RE: something to ponder ?? - 7/12/2006 8:20:58 AM

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Interesting post.

I am the oldest and extremely submissive.

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