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ORIGINAL: littleladybug

If I let someone "park" on my couch, without any sort of agreement, whether written or verbal, in place, "squatter's rights" won't come into play nearly as soon, if at all. There's a vast distinction between "employee" and "invitee".

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ORIGINAL: DaddySatyr

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ORIGINAL: littleladybug

If I let someone "park" on my couch, without any sort of agreement, whether written or verbal, in place, "squatter's rights" won't come into play nearly as soon, if at all. There's a vast distinction between "employee" and "invitee".

In, at least, three states of which I am aware, if they have mail delivered to your address, they've "taken up residence".





There's a vast difference between "changing your address" with the post office, and an actual "residence".

To go back to the example I gave with my friend in California...sure, I could go over to the post office and change my mailing address. At the end of the day, what does that prove? That I can find the post office and fill out the form?

Without any additional proof as to my residence, that's not likely to fly. Sure, in California, I'd have to go prove it in court, but, yeah, that buys me, what? 30 days? Chuckles...I can see the judge saying to the landlord, "hey, you want her out? Then give her the 30 day notice now". And that's giving me, the trespasser, the complete benefit of the doubt.

Just out of curiosity, what are these three states that you know of?

(in reply to DaddySatyr)

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ORIGINAL: MistressKel



Good points...

1. I have a vested personal interested to help young mothers due to my own personal past situations, and yeah, we made a bad choice trying to help her at all--this is true.

2. One of the major issues we had is that once we accepted her as an actual slave she got rid of her kid. Yep, she sent him off to live about an hour away with her grandmother because I wouldn't help her with her kid--I don't WANT a kid, I normally would NOT accept someone with a kid into my service at ALL, but she cried constantly and said she needed to be owned...

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ORIGINAL: MistressKel

Ok, this will sound like the same bullshit you hear from most who have a situation completely blow up in their face, and I'm not really into telling the actually story...but we had a slave from this site move in with us and live with us for a couple of months and she is seriously bad news...listen, this girl faked her own kidnapping and the FBI even got called in when the cops traced her cell traveling across the country as they stood here watching her text about how she was locked in a trunk in the back of a pickup truck--Hell, we can provide ALL of the proof you would need on this wackjob.

So, this chick was a complete psycho, cops got called twice (I called them when she abused her 5 month old son), and now she's on here begging for a place to stay and stuff...And I'm wondering, why the HELL can't I warn members of this community about this person? I mean, the police records are a public matter, and this chick is fairly dangerous because she will con men into doing her dirty work for her...

*shrugs* Hope no one here gets messed up by this one...I know that she's also been CONVICTED of falsely accusing another Collarspace member of rape...again, a matter of public record...we felt bad for her, believed her, and got screwed hard...Oh, and she faked at least 4 abortions from members of this site to get money from them (no proof of this though). Bad news....baddddd news...

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ORIGINAL: MariaB
So you put the pressure on her to get rid of the kid? She was clearly mentally unstable but you told her she could only be your slave if the kid was out of the picture.

You do not help young needy mothers. You destroy them.

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ORIGINAL: crazyml

So, do you mind if I ask who you want to warn the community about, this messed up vulnerable girl or you?

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ORIGINAL: MistressKel

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ORIGINAL: MariaB
So you put the pressure on her to get rid of the kid? She was clearly mentally unstable but you told her she could only be your slave if the kid was out of the picture.

You do not help young needy mothers. You destroy them.

Apparently you haven't been paying attention or I didn't make myself clear. We ONLY took her in on the condition that it would give her a better environment to raise her child in than a DV shelter. There was no leveraging the kid away. Our primary demand of her was that she take care of her child and as soon as he got in the way of her being a slut, she shipped him off to the aforementioned relative's house.

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ORIGINAL: MistressKel

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ORIGINAL: crazyml

So, do you mind if I ask who you want to warn the community about, this messed up vulnerable girl or you?

So why is it you insist on trolling? Does it make you feel manly to wield a keyboard with such strength? If you aren't going to read, and troll intelligently, don't bother, because you are a waste of space on these forums with these intelligent people.

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ORIGINAL: BigBearSwats

As a noted comedian is fond of saying, "you can't fix stupid".
To that I'll add that you can't "fix" anyone.
OK..ok..you can have them spayed.
Not the same thing.
To take in ANY ONE who is so obviously desperate for someone to rescue them and expect them to be any different once settled in is insanity.
As for the kid..he's probably better off not being with a mother of her sort.
Yeah, yeah, I hear all the "owners rights", "mothers rights" and more out there ready to lynch me.
That's fine. You feel the way you want to.
Me, I think it borders on criminal to permit a kid to live with such an obviously fucked up "mother" who will fuck up her kids life.

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ORIGINAL: MariaB

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ORIGINAL: BigBearSwats

As a noted comedian is fond of saying, "you can't fix stupid".
To that I'll add that you can't "fix" anyone.
OK..ok..you can have them spayed.
Not the same thing.
To take in ANY ONE who is so obviously desperate for someone to rescue them and expect them to be any different once settled in is insanity.
As for the kid..he's probably better off not being with a mother of her sort.
Yeah, yeah, I hear all the "owners rights", "mothers rights" and more out there ready to lynch me.
That's fine. You feel the way you want to.
Me, I think it borders on criminal to permit a kid to live with such an obviously fucked up "mother" who will fuck up her kids life.

I disagree but then I was that kid. If I had a penny for every person who has ever told me I was better off without my parents I'd be a wealthy woman. My question is, why didn't someone help them so that they could keep me?

How can we make judgement on this girl? we don't know her and we don't know her side of the story. If she does have a co-dependant personality then its help and support and counselling she needs. Throwing people like her in the trash and believing the child is better off without them is something that happens all too often.