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ORIGINAL: Spiritedsub2

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I'm still new enough to ask: is this shit (no pun intended) for real? Do people live like this?

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ORIGINAL: GoddessManko

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ORIGINAL: davezzo

First: This is in no way a personal add! I am still a few years away from being able to make this happen. I seek information and advice from the wise Mistresses here, hoping 1 or two are kind enough to reply.

I have some advanced kinks. For example, full toilet service to one or more strong Dominant Women. Literally to live in the waste of several Woman 20+ hours a day. This from a user named {removed by Moderator}, "...You see a male toilet slave in this Woman’s family lives in the basement of our home in a box the size of a coffin. Its whole body is in the toilet not just its head. The toilet box is lined with plastic and it lives in the waste of the family. Any Woman, is allowed to use the male toilet slave at any time. At the moment, there are no men living here and there may never be. But there are my four daughters and I, and I can assure you that you will be used and trained as our toilet for the rest of your miserable life...". if I found myself in such a situation it would be my life's fulfillment.

This Woman speaks of keeping her Toilet in the box 22 hours a day, only coming out briefly to clean my box (my home!), clean myself, and to get some real exercise. If I were lucky to have it all, I'd hope to receive some brutal punishments during the time out of the box, too.

So my questions: I'd be perfectly happy exchanging my sizeable social security check (I'm 6 years away from retirement) if the recipient could accommodate me in a fashion similar to that described bu [removed by Moderator]. Are there Woman out there who might find such an arrangement attractive? How does one find them?

PS/ I am aware of and accept the health risks - its my strong desire to retire into this lifestyle even if that means a rather short retirement. :(

Thanks for reading this. I look forward to any response that, if I'm lucky, might come my way...?

*Blinks*
*Rubs eyes*
*Blinks*
OK....OP....f you want a very slow death of salmonella poisoning, infection and high fever and a number of other ways then yes, I'm sure some maniac body modification inclined wackjob who would also circumcise you with a rusty spoon would be happy to indulge. And people didn't believe that some of these subs actually insist on doing stuff like this and some D who thinks this is viable might actually try to indulge.

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ORIGINAL: davezzo

subrosaDom, thank you for the serious advice. I am not alone in viewing (full) toilet service as a highly intimate surrender to the dominant. Yes, it is very rare. And as with all paraphilias the numbers of men far exceed the numbers of women with similar interests. However, interest in these things (far short of the fantasy shared in the OP) are in and of themselves not a mental illness. it does not rise to that level until and if they cause significant distress and/or impairment in other aspects of one's life.'

You're welcome. Yes, absolutely true.

However I recognize that realization of the fantasy will cause "distress" and "dysfunction". So, yes, I'm sure you and others are right that it crosses the line from an alternate lifestyle to illness (I feel properly rebuked by the many responses here - reality check accomplished).

Again, absolutely true.

As a person with deeply unusual needs and desires, I long ago came to appreciate that what looks crazy and inexplicable from the outside can be perfectly understandable and sane from inside. I thus respect and can accept that others get thrills and satisfaction from things that do nothing for me. My experience (maybe I've been lucky) is that most of us who have had to deal with our own kinks feel the same. So I ask the equally open minded here, where does one draw the line here? Is it the consensus that any indulgence of the fantasy just crazy and wrong or was it the unrealistic extremity of the OP scenario?

It's the medical risk, the disease vectors, the impossibility of what you're describing being anything but suicidal. So the extremity is in going from something unusual and paraphiliac to something endangering you and others, medically and legally. And I don't think suicide is inherently evil, either. If you had ALS, I'd completely understand, for example, albeit not by this particular method. I -- and I suspect most others here -- readily acknowlege thrills and desires others get that have no appeal to each of us, respectively. Look, I'm straight. So gay male sex does nothing for me. Similarly, consensually beating a woman black-and-blue does nothing for me, either. Neither does "consensual" amputation of her arms, but of course you'd likely agree that's simply not right.

There is comfort for me in surrender to another, someone interested in me solely as object through which their own needs are met. The fantasy I outlined comes from an ad from another person - it seemed to me to be the most intense way to realize such surrender. I'm sure there are other ways that fall far short of all the complications of the original fantasy, but I confess that I found it very exciting.

I can't speak for you or what turns you on, but most urolagnic fantasies are realizable, although a recent study found urine isn't nearly as sterile as thought. Still, its sterility is >>> feces. Or perhaps you could emulate what you have. I would imagine it's possible to with dyes and other chemicals and even olfactory agents to safely emulate the consistency and odor of feces. I'm not willing to research that for you ;) -- but that would be one way to attempt to experience something paraphiliac and otherwise dangerous without the danger. Or I would imagine with Oculus Rift, the potential is there for some kind of VR experience that gets inside your head without any risk at all. I'd look in directions such as those.

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ORIGINAL: kkaliforniaa

Why has no one addressed this?

"I married, had children, divorced, and now I'm approaching retirement pretty much free of encumbrances."

Would his children, possibly his grandchildren, his friends, and other family members, really not care if they never saw this guy again? And even if they did, if he was living as a human toilet, how would that be explained? "Oh! I must have fallen in a bath of cologne?" "Bedsores? What bedsores?".. Even taking that fantasy out of the equation, living 24.7 as a chained slave, same situation, would his friends and family really not care if they saw him one day and not the next?

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ORIGINAL: GoddessManko

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ORIGINAL: davezzo

First: This is in no way a personal add! I am still a few years away from being able to make this happen. I seek information and advice from the wise Mistresses here, hoping 1 or two are kind enough to reply.

I have some advanced kinks. For example, full toilet service to one or more strong Dominant Women. Literally to live in the waste of several Woman 20+ hours a day. This from a user named {removed by Moderator}, "...You see a male toilet slave in this Woman’s family lives in the basement of our home in a box the size of a coffin. Its whole body is in the toilet not just its head. The toilet box is lined with plastic and it lives in the waste of the family. Any Woman, is allowed to use the male toilet slave at any time. At the moment, there are no men living here and there may never be. But there are my four daughters and I, and I can assure you that you will be used and trained as our toilet for the rest of your miserable life...". if I found myself in such a situation it would be my life's fulfillment.

This Woman speaks of keeping her Toilet in the box 22 hours a day, only coming out briefly to clean my box (my home!), clean myself, and to get some real exercise. If I were lucky to have it all, I'd hope to receive some brutal punishments during the time out of the box, too.

So my questions: I'd be perfectly happy exchanging my sizeable social security check (I'm 6 years away from retirement) if the recipient could accommodate me in a fashion similar to that described bu [removed by Moderator]. Are there Woman out there who might find such an arrangement attractive? How does one find them?

PS/ I am aware of and accept the health risks - its my strong desire to retire into this lifestyle even if that means a rather short retirement. :(

Thanks for reading this. I look forward to any response that, if I'm lucky, might come my way...?

*Blinks*
*Rubs eyes*
*Blinks*
OK....OP....f you want a very slow death of salmonella poisoning, infection and high fever and a number of other ways then yes, I'm sure some maniac body modification inclined wackjob who would also circumcise you with a rusty spoon would be happy to indulge. And people didn't believe that some of these subs actually insist on doing stuff like this and some D who thinks this is viable might actually try to indulge.

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ORIGINAL: Ninebelowzero

Would constipation be classed as tease & denial?

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ORIGINAL: BecomingV

ETA - If this became an obsession, I'd suggest taking a vacation from work, and everything and simply lie in your bathtub for 22 hours, day after day... just an empty tub and see what the effects are of that. Add your own feces, if you are so inclined... and see what nature does with that. Reality may interfere with the obsession in ways which nothing else will.