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When did you fall in love with your Master/Mistress and... - 8/26/2014 10:37:05 PM

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Where did you fall in love and why did you fall in love?

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RE: When did you fall in love with your Master/Mistress... - 8/27/2014 3:57:37 AM

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I fell in love with Master when I was on a trip to Ireland with my niece and realized that I couldn't wait to get back to the hotel at night and share my day with him over YIM.

The why? He is kind, honest, funny, attentive, chivalric, and adores me right back. He is free with his words, always letting me know where I stand. There is no jealousy for me because I have no doubts how he feels about me. He doesn't keep secrets.

Side note: does your username mean what it seems to imply? If it doesn't, an empty profile isn't doing you any favors.

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RE: When did you fall in love with your Master/Mistress... - 8/27/2014 12:56:48 PM

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~FRing it~

Saw your explanation on the name in the other thread. Unfortunate coincidence as far as first name and graduation date, eh?

I honestly don't know exactly when I fell in love with my guy. It just kind of dawned on me in an epiphany moment, but I think it had been building itself all along. The thing is that I never intended to fall in love with him due to our distance, but the heart wants what the heart wants...and doesn't care about things like distance.

Reasons why I love him? So many to be able to express. We are a lot alike, have been on similar journeys in life, etc. it's like Im the female version of him and he the male version of me. We just click and the chemistry we share took over. I do not trust people for the most part. But in him, I found someone I could trust without fear.

I think of us like the Fox and Little Prince in the story The Little Prince. He tamed me...and I tamed him. I don't know when it happened or how. It just is...and that's good enough for me

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RE: When did you fall in love with your Master/Mistress... - 8/27/2014 1:00:37 PM

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Before we met in-person, we talked on-line and by phone for a few months before we actually met and waiting to meet was due to 500+ miles between us. I had feelings for him before we met but I don't put much stock in feelings for someone you only know by on-line and by phone.

The first time we met was for a week at his beach house in NJ, I did feel like I was in-love with him then but only a week together, I needed more time to know if it was love or infatuation or living out a fantasy we built up over the months talking. For me to really know if it's love comes after spending time together and really getting to know all of the person.

I can't say where I fell in love with him but I can say when I realized I was in-love with him and that was when I traveled to NC to stay with him for a few months. The day I had to leave to drive back to PA, I totally lost it and fell apart in his arms, that's when I knew I was in-love with him. He held it together for my sake but I could see the sadness in his eyes when I was leaving. I'll never forget his words to me that day, he said..........don't cry sugar, you'll be coming back home to me real soon.

Being with him all day, every day for those months, seeing all sides of him, the great sides and the things about him that annoy me, how he treats me all the time, seeing how he handles different parts of his life, good times and not so good times, stresses, disappointments, etc., and still wanting to be in his life every day, wanting and willing to relocate to be with him, I knew then that it was the real deal.

Why I fell in-love is because of who he is, everything about him. I can't pinpoint one, two or ten things about him for the reasons I'm in-love with him, it's everything that makes him who he is.

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RE: When did you fall in love with your Master/Mistress... - 8/27/2014 1:26:46 PM

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Don't have a real "where" just realized it was happening. Why, She is caring, intelligent, fun to talk to, understanding, dominant, cruel, caring, sadistic, cute, eyes are mesmerizing and has an incredible smile, is unlike any women I have been around in years, we fit well together in the kink department I could go on and on.

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RE: When did you fall in love with your Master/Mistress... - 8/27/2014 4:58:09 PM

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Oh, he had me at "Get your shit together or fuck off."

(And two years later, he's still just as romantic. **swoons**)

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RE: When did you fall in love with your Master/Mistress... - 8/27/2014 5:39:47 PM

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Why does anyone fall in love?

He is highly intelligent, protective of those he loves, has the same political leanings as I do, cares as deeply for his children as I do for mine. We had the elusive chemistry which I needed.

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RE: When did you fall in love with your Master/Mistress... - 8/28/2014 9:30:49 PM

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I fell in love at some point. I am not sure when, really. We went from casually seeing each other to holy shit I am pregnant.
Why? Shrugs why does anyone. We were so young back then that I do not think we even knew what love was. We were a couple of kids who liked to party and have sex, and had a birth control failure.

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RE: When did you fall in love with your Master/Mistress... - 8/31/2014 10:00:12 PM

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it took a couple of years to fall madly in love with Master.... it was strictly a Master/slave relationship with no sex ,... it was going along fine until one day we both realized we loved each other... met in 2000 and we got married in 2004 to present... and I love him more now than before if that's possible... why did I fall in love with him, cause he was everything I was looking for in a Master and a man ....

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RE: When did you fall in love with your Master/Mistress... - 9/2/2014 6:40:11 PM

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ORIGINAL: MasterK09

Where did you fall in love and why did you fall in love?

Oh yes, my sweetest takes my every cent.

Knew I was in love when I replaced BOTH engines after this past winter ...

The bitch, THAT is expensive!

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RE: When did you fall in love with your Master/Mistress... - 9/2/2014 11:40:07 PM

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Oh, he had me at "Get your shit together or fuck off."

LOL I love this

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