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Are Gay Men Stronger with Fellings then Straight Men? - 7/11/2006 5:20:58 PM

MistyMenthal

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When it Comes to Bdsm,
Are Gay men Stronger with Feelings then Vanilla Men?

I have a Friend who is Gay and try's to act Real Macho,
but he is so Submissive.

I know the Bear, and Leather Gay Men are really {Rough}
tough when it comes being the Man.
Well they appear to be, i've been around
them enough.

Is one More Sensitive then the Other?

KISSING, Misty

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RE: Are Gay Men Stronger with Fellings then Straight Men? - 7/11/2006 5:25:52 PM

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men are rough and tough, soft and tender, caring and uncaring, hard and soft, loving and unloving.. They each are what they are, secual preferences dictates not.

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RE: Are Gay Men Stronger with Feelings then Straight Men? - 7/11/2006 5:28:13 PM

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Of course not....

You tread into treacherous waters with that question. Gay makes you no different than any other person. It is just about who you love.

It does not change your morality, your mentality or your sensibility.

Does being straight make you .. hell I don't know, intrinsically better at fixing motors or some other 'manly man' task?

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RE: Are Gay Men Stronger with Feelings then Straight Men? - 7/11/2006 5:43:59 PM

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Ok,
Yes You are both right.
just was wondering if one was really more
Sensitive or Submissive/tough then the other.

Sorry, Did not mean to offend.

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RE: Are Gay Men Stronger with Feelings then Straight Men? - 7/11/2006 5:55:13 PM

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Oooh not at all offensive.. just tossing in my jingling two cents!

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RE: Are Gay Men Stronger with Feelings then Straight Men? - 7/11/2006 5:57:29 PM

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thats i think is a steriotype

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RE: Are Gay Men Stronger with Feelings then Straight Men? - 7/11/2006 5:59:47 PM

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What's a stereotype? That my two cents jingle?

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RE: Are Gay Men Stronger with Feelings then Straight Men? - 7/11/2006 7:35:49 PM

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He enters, dips His lid in classical stereotypical fashion.

Departs, oops a one liner!! Ha Ha.

Gay men are blessed.   They can be femme queens or rough macho bears and people just say, they're QUEER or don't realize anything different about them.
Does this mean they are 'SENSITIVE' / 'are in touch with their feminine side'? One queen I know is definately 'in touch' but with all the negative bits, self obsessed with beauty products, always on full or extended credit limit and a complete bitch with what thoughts fly out of his mouth! Ah but he is lovable even though detestable.

I have been viewed by Macho and macho lovers as 'gay' yet have no problems 'picking a trench', 'stacking pallets', chainsawing a massive tree' and puffing my chest and talking about the 'sock' in my pants but I really can't be bothered changing to suit others.   I do have my doubts of how others view me at times but hey.... I am me and I have travelled a long way picking up knowledge to be where I stand today... so accept the black leather coat, black hat, and white leather tennis shoed Dom before you.... If you don't accept me...it's your loss cos my friends return the fierce loyalty and strength that I give to them.- so obviously you don't possess these in the first instance- hence your loss.

I can sew, recover a lounge suite, cook, and natter on about the best of 'female business' with more knowledge than your average female.   I am not gay (I'm a gay batchelor but those evil 'Bastards' hijacked that lovely GAY word for their own sense of identity!'

sexual orientation does not possess empathy and understanding.   It is society's wish to categorise people into mutually acceptable groups reflecting all encompassing values. (stereotypes)

There was a metrosexual thread last week, now we might have a gay thread, and we have numerous threads on what is desirable in a Dom. I fit to all yet refute many of these 'elements' that slot one into these stereotypes.

I love and hate stereotypes, it is an unfortunate part of life that our psyche demands 'categories' for knowledge and learning but it is the less journeyed that fail to see this.

Warm regards to all, and please.... I am serious about the gay batchelor bit, and have said this amid much laughter in gay clubs.

Driver 1961. Sir to His loving WildChild.

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