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Anal Punishment???? - 7/11/2006 6:37:49 PM   
waverider66


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Status: offline 		I've met a wonderfull young lady (on another site) who is very inexperienced, shy, reserved and very nervous about the whole scene.

Her fetish is to be punished for being naughty by inserting various size dildos up her ass. I assured her I would be gentle at first and we would go at her pace, like I said, she was very nervous.

She declined my offer to meet for coffee first and said she would soon be coming over. She said she would stop by the local adult toy store and buy an assortment of what she wanted put inside of her.

We had never met and to be honest I hadnt even seen her pic. You wouldnt believe how incredibly hot this girl was....but thats a different story.

Anyways, we spent a few hours of her bent over with her ass in the air and me exploring her ass with first my fingers, some light spankings and then went gradually up in size with the various dildos. She's only about 5'4" and is a dancer so I was quite surprised to see how much she can take. That's my dilemma....I thought it would take weeks to get where we were and it happened on the first night.

So, what I am asking is any advice, ideas or techniques anyone may have on anal punishment. For now, that is all she is into and I want to still be around when she opens up her mind to other ideas.

Yes, I know some of you will say I need to take controll but she is scared and we will only play by her rules untill I gain her trust.

Thank you for any replies,
Lucky Guy
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RE: Anal Punishment???? - 7/11/2006 6:40:44 PM   
JohnWarren


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Status: offline 		You might try a different approach than size and get a TENS unit with an mono- or bi-polar butt plug. I was using one today on Rio and she was screeching like a buzz saw.

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RE: Anal Punishment???? - 7/11/2006 6:42:16 PM   
wild1cfl


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Status: offline 		well were you able to fisther that first night? that is just another thing that works well being stuck up her ass. I do this on a regular basis with my slave and she loves it everytime. I do not think this girl will get tired of the dildoes that quickly,but definitely try getting your fist in there.
Other things that I have uses are wine bottles, champagne bottles grapefruit and oranges.  Best of luck

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RE: Anal Punishment???? - 7/11/2006 6:42:41 PM   
chocolateman


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Status: offline 		greetings lucky guy either she was pulling your chain or you should not use lube and go in dry that should be punishing.

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RE: Anal Punishment???? - 7/11/2006 6:43:48 PM   
wild1cfl


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ORIGINAL: JohnWarren

You might try a different approach than size and get a TENS unit with an mono- or bi-polar butt plug. I was using one today on Rio and she was screeching like a buzz saw.

Oh yes definitely try this,I forgot all about my Tens unit that I use with an anal insert, it is awesome!!!


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My Falcon now is sharp, and passing empty; And, till she stoop, she shall not be full gorg'd, For then she never looks upon her lure. Another way i have to man my haggard, to make her come and know her keeper's call. Wm. Shakespeare

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RE: Anal Punishment???? - 7/11/2006 6:45:35 PM   
Tamerofwild1s


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Status: offline 		anal punishments can also be using a variety of enemas followed with a butt plug or even a ginger root plug . I have heard those are extremely nice as tortures or punishments on a young girls ass. I commend you for going slow by the way and not wanting to scare her away from something she will soon open up to and enjoy thoroughly. Good Luck there Lucky Guy
 


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RE: Anal Punishment???? - 7/11/2006 7:22:55 PM   
justheather


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Status: offline 		Habanero pepper sauce.
Nuff said.

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RE: Anal Punishment???? - 7/11/2006 11:10:22 PM   
wild1cfl


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ORIGINAL: justheather

Habanero pepper sauce.
Nuff said.


ooohhh Heather, a woman after my own food fetish heart LOL

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My Falcon now is sharp, and passing empty; And, till she stoop, she shall not be full gorg'd, For then she never looks upon her lure. Another way i have to man my haggard, to make her come and know her keeper's call. Wm. Shakespeare

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RE: Anal Punishment???? - 7/12/2006 1:48:57 AM   
slave4mzpatti


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Status: offline 		Take her out for that coffee with a butt plug in place.

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RE: Anal Punishment???? - 7/12/2006 4:37:18 AM   
nephandi


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Status: offline 		That is a good idea, a but plug that is no problem at first can be quite anoying after a few houers of walking around.

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RE: Anal Punishment???? - 7/12/2006 5:40:45 AM   
MrrPete


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Status: offline 		Try a dab of peppermint oil, toothpaste, spray or roll-on deorderant.

I agree with your approach. Go slower than slow lighter than light and biuld, build, build.
You can never go wrong taking it slow and at her level.

If your cock is included in this here's something to try.

Have her wear a belt 1.5" wide to 2." Positon her on all fours with her knees on the edge
of the bed. Enter either hole and grab the belt. Tell her to lean forward as you lean backward with your
shins braced against the bed as a counterbalance and thrust, UP rather than straight in, hard and often.
When finished don't pull out. Push her down on her tummy. As you relax you naturally slide out. Then
do what you like to do after sex. Works well with a heavy chain too.


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RE: Anal Punishment???? - 7/12/2006 6:06:58 AM   
MasterMC35


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Status: offline 		Ginger root plugs are VERY effective, after 15 minutes of insertion she won't be able to sit still. Check out www.figging.com

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RE: Anal Punishment???? - 7/12/2006 6:15:41 AM   
Lordandmaster


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Status: offline 		I'm a little confused.  Why are you calling this "punishment."

I also have to doubt that she's really as inexperienced as she has led you to believe, but that's just a sneaking suspicion of mine.

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ORIGINAL: waverider66

So, what I am asking is any advice, ideas or techniques anyone may have on anal punishment.

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RE: Anal Punishment???? - 7/12/2006 6:34:22 AM   
Driver1961


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Status: offline 		He enters, dips His lid.  

Greetings to all...

Nice start Waverider.   Yes it is about going 'slow' regardless of the sub's yearning to devour all and more! 

This is my checklist for myself.

Feel  safe with what you do... be 90% prepared for all positive reactions and 100% prepared for any negative response.
Prepare, prepare, be prepared and finish with 'I was completely prepared' If  I am unable to say (Post) 'I was completely prepared' then I had failed in reinforcing my submissive's trust in me.

Part of my preparation is speaking to others who can unequivably answer all my questions through personal experience.  A Dominant's perspective on say 'figging' may be (and generally is) completely different to a submissives.  I always ask other submissives on their views with new experiences that I may plan with My Precious. It doesn't show my weakness but engenders My personal'strength' within my Lifestyle Community for safe, sane and consentual play. 

  For example, what is used to diffuse the burning from ginger or hotpepper sauce instantly?  Have I spoken to someone who has tried to diffuse this.  Should I know I am prepared by putting some hot pepper sauce in the eye of my penis and rapidly using the 'diffuser' for the sauce.  How else can I honestly say to my sub- 'Submit, recieve!" and have her offer herself knowing that I care for her?

I am respected within my local community because of this 'preparation' or is it because of my stunning  polyPrecious and her preparedness to spread for another woman's tongue when I am respectfullly requested?  Ummm, it's my preparation and I'm sticking to it!

Warm regards,
Driver1961, Sir to His loving Wildchild.

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RE: Anal Punishment???? - 7/12/2006 6:52:51 AM   
JohnWarren


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Status: offline 		There has been a lot of good advice here, but I'll add the names of a few books you might want to look at which will give you a more complete picture of anal play.

The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women
 
Anal Pleasure and Health



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RE: Anal Punishment???? - 7/12/2006 6:52:56 AM   
MrDiscipline44


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Status: offline 		I agree with L&M, you can hardly call it punishment when she's in control and enjoys whats going on.

Anyway, you know there are expandible butt plug, right. You can also get a plug same as an animals cock. Other things you can put up her ass are: a banana, a table leg (preferably not still attached to a table), remote controls......

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RE: Anal Punishment???? - 7/12/2006 7:13:24 AM   
Driver1961


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Status: offline 		Sorry Mr Discipline but I question your view on punishment heren .

If one fux a girl over, then fux the girl over when she's so fuxxed, then fux the girl over when she is so fuxxed over from being fuxxed over- have you not punished her body but acted consentually so pleased her mind?

Her arse is punished in this case but she is foreshadowing the punishment her body will recieve, recieving psychological pleasure and He is reinforcing His Dominence by being safe, sane , and consentual yto enable better (rather than less) dynamic between them? 

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RE: Anal Punishment???? - 7/12/2006 7:41:13 AM   
SCORPIOXXX


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Status: offline 		As others have noted, you are actually reinforcing her wishes = her pleasure... But how about WHIPPING the sphincter with different size belts/crops/whatever...then hard fucking, no lube...

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RE: Anal Punishment???? - 7/12/2006 7:42:36 AM   
bklynbbw


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Status: offline 		Hmmm   I was thinking how is any of this is punishment ??....until I got to the ginger root and hot pepper sauce...lol I have to rethink this...  **going back to my corner and be quiet*

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RE: Anal Punishment???? - 7/12/2006 10:43:25 AM   
Kinkypupper


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Status: offline 		Habanero pepper sauce.
Nuff said.


NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO Not a safe thing.
It is damaging to the tissues
Go with the Ginger.

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