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RE: How many enjoy begging? - 7/13/2006 4:37:23 AM   
SusanofO


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Status: offline 		How about: "Please, oh, please"...(soft whimper followed by low moan) - "please, please"?

I am kidding you, I hope you are not - and I am not an expert beggar - I just like it a lot (a whole lot, hehe). I have no idea what I am ever going to say, it is pretty much driven by pure need - but" please" makes sense to me, so I just keep saying it, over and over.

- Susan

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RE: How many enjoy begging? - 7/13/2006 5:35:22 AM   
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Status: offline 		Susan, you an absolute darling..

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RE: How many enjoy begging? - 7/13/2006 5:44:41 AM   
Sasy


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Status: offline 		I know I  dont ennjoy it 

But my  feelings on begging are that it is his choice whether or not I will be allowed something and no amount of begging is going to change that.. Tho after one extended visit with a vibe I begged for it to be turned off and at a point I  began praying for the  batteries to run down

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RE: How many enjoy begging? - 7/13/2006 5:49:37 AM   
SusanofO


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Status: offline 		I appreciate the reply, Sasy.

Ditto, Iron Bear.

- Susan

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RE: How many enjoy begging? - 7/13/2006 5:50:25 AM   
litleone8620


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Status: offline 		Master loves it when i beg. I think it's because i don't do it very often.

I am not particularly fond of begging. I think it's because i don't like knowing that i need/want something bad enough to beg for it.

The ONLY time i will beg without being told to is for sexual release.

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RE: How many enjoy begging? - 7/13/2006 6:45:11 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MrDiscipline44

<makes note>

Jessie begs 4 orgasms = YES!!!!


You just keep right on making those notes MrD Sir <grins>  Maybe someday they will be handy for something LOL  You might also add to these notes that I will also beg NOT to have the nipple clamps taken off after being on for a significant amount of time... (found THAT one out last night LOL)

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RE: How many enjoy begging? - 7/13/2006 6:54:06 AM   
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ORIGINAL: JessieMe

quote:

ORIGINAL: MrDiscipline44

<makes note>

Jessie begs 4 orgasms = YES!!!!


You just keep right on making those notes MrD Sir <grins>  Maybe someday they will be handy for something LOL  You might also add to these notes that I will also beg NOT to have the nipple clamps taken off after being on for a significant amount of time... (found THAT one out last night LOL)

Such a nice rush of blood to a certain portion of the anatomy, isn't it?  Especially when they come off just as blood is being demanded in another portion of the anatomy....

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RE: How many enjoy begging? - 7/13/2006 7:01:55 AM   
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ORIGINAL: BelleAnne44

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Srllile said....I am completely new at the whole begging thing. Well at almost the hole thing but still on the topic of begging. I still feel really out of place when doing it, it awkward and I have yet to decide if I like it or not. At this point the whole verbalizing what I want is the hindrance I think. I still have a problem begging or even saying I want something it’s the love hate that Caretakr mentioned for me. I want it but I do find it embarrassing to ask for a lot of stuff


I'm so there.  It is so hard for me to even think of what to say... I'm so literal that it takes me out of my body and into my head.   I wish I could do it better, because a Dom I play with loves it...he knows it humiliates me to no end and flusters me. 

He'll wait till I'm on the edge and then make me verbalize exactly what I want...who I am....he flips me out of my body with it for orgasm control.  But eventually I get to a place where I don't care what the heck I have to do for permission to cum, and the begging flows like water over a bursted dam.....there's no more humiliation...just pure unadulterated begging for release with every cell in my body.  I think I need him so completely in that moment ....more than any other....hmmm....smart man.

But at the start....it just kills me trying to come up with words that don't sound really dumb to me.


Several have now mentioned the idea of how hard it is to come up with the words:  either they sound dumb to the submissive or it is humiliating to put what it is they want into words...for me, and at least some other dominant friends of mine, this is part of the enjoyment at this point in time. 

As noted in that post, there is the whole affirmation of power going on and this is one of the things that can enhance it...watching the submissive struggle to find the right words or watching her blush as she writhes in her ropes or physically (though impossibly) tries to pull away from the clamps digging tight into her nipples or tries to push her ass towards/pull it away from one more strike, etc., struggling to say what it is she wants.

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RE: How many enjoy begging? - 7/13/2006 9:14:26 AM   
liltxsubby


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Status: offline 		It depends on the type of begging and the situatuion.  Fangs loves to tease and make me beg.  When it's just playful begging, I'm all for it.  Maybe I want to go out. Fangs will tease mercilessly.I keep asking please please lets go do this or that.  Eventually he'll say yes or no.  No means no and that's the end of it.  Yes almost always comes with conditions.

As for serioius begging, I can't bring myself to do it.  I feel awful, too but it's like somebody steals my voicebox.  The words won't come out and I just stare at him dumbfounded.  No amount of spanking can make me be able to do it either.  Anybody else experience this?

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RE: How many enjoy begging? - 7/13/2006 1:00:43 PM   
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Status: offline 		I like other people begging. I think it's cute.

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RE: How many enjoy begging? - 7/14/2006 7:59:08 PM   
ruthfw


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Status: offline 		My pet has a lot of trouble with it.

So did the last one.

Surprisingly little has been written on the "how" of begging.

For me, it is an affirmation of the power imbalance between us--it's not at all about whatever he's begging for.  I just want to watch him beg.

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RE: How many enjoy begging? - 7/14/2006 8:04:51 PM   
SusanofO


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Status: offline 		Well, most of the time I did it, I was begging for an orgasm. And all I did was say "please, please, oh please"...(whimper-moan)..."please" over and over again - not very imaginative, but I was on the verge of "sub-spacing", and am not sure if I could have come up with more than that - and, my partner seemed pretty happy with what I was doing.

- Susan

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RE: How many enjoy begging? - 7/14/2006 10:34:40 PM   
ravn


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begging. OMG.

Let's see, the ups and downs of begging:

UPS:
-It truly makes me desire what i'm begging for- whether i truly want it or not
-It gives Master ever more control over me
-It gives me a chance to use the puppy dog eyes without getting swatted for it!

DOWNS:
-Master makes me beg for my punishments ='( ( and by punishments i don't mean play sessions, i mean the original, corporal punishment/home correction)


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RE: How many enjoy begging? - 7/14/2006 10:58:44 PM   
ownedgirlie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: ravn
DOWNS:
-Master makes me beg for my punishments ='( ( and by punishments i don't mean play sessions, i mean the original, corporal punishment/home correction)


I have had to do that, also.  It is quite difficult.

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