FieryOpal
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Joined: 12/8/2013 From: Maryland Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: michelle46135 anyone can expline me what is a mistress? thanks.....MICHELLE Honey, you are listed as a (bisexual) transsubmissive, yet in your profile you say you are a bi male switch. You may want to edit your profile settings to switch instead of submissive. A Mistress is a female Master. A Master *traditionally* owns a slave or a submissive. All Masters and Mistresses are Dominants. All Dominants, however, are not Masters or Mistresses. There seems to be more of a distinction with Doms (male Dominants) needing to be seen as experienced before they can get taken seriously as a Master. With Dommes/FemDoms (female Dominants), however, there doesn't appear to be much of a distinction, except for individual preference of honorifics. There are Dommes who do not want to be addressed as Mistress or even Ma'am (short for Madame). I personally will not let a submissive call me Mistress unless I am HIS Mistress and I have collared him as my own submissive. Other Dommes insist upon being called "Mistress" or "Goddess" or "Superior" right off the bat by practically any s-type (submissive, slave). I hope this has shed some light on this matter for you.
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