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ResidentSadist -> RE: What's with all the subs on here thinking they're special snowflakes? (10/11/2014 9:11:53 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SweetnStormySub
Flounce? Educate me on that one, please

On the net it means to leave, quit, delete profiles or any other emo inspired exit.

Flounce - to go or move in an exaggeratedly impatient or angry manner: "he stood up in a fury and flounced out"


I don't get my knickers in a knot over someone silly girl on the internet that was here for a day and complains she didn't find her match or that not enough people have long hair. The bad personality displayed explains why this 22 yo EuroDomme is high and dry, still seeking when the market is flooded with submissives.

But . . . in her flounce, she says she is "better off sticking to Fetlife". ROFLMAO I have never dated someone from FetLife. Their database isn't searchable and it is only filtered by area. I meet more people in my area at munches and events, never from FetLife... their software sucks for that sort of thing and I wouldn't waste my time. And Fetlife has never brought anyone 4 pages of responses even if you posted the kinkiest sex video of yourself and have land on the Kinky & Popular page... you still won't get 4 pages of dating requests. So her flounce stuck out in my mind... especially since it was a fake flounce and she is still here, just not posting to her thread.




SweetnStormySub -> RE: What's with all the subs on here thinking they're special snowflakes? (10/12/2014 8:25:10 AM)

Ohhhh, otherwise known as a hissy fit! LOL thank you!




SweetnStormySub -> RE: What's with all the subs on here thinking they're special snowflakes? (10/12/2014 8:29:58 AM)

I found it curious she posted to the "ask a sub/slave" forum. That one would be better off learning whilst on her knees. Just my humble opinion.
Thanks for the flounce tutorial!




YouName -> RE: What's with all the subs on here thinking they're special snowflakes? (10/25/2014 12:30:41 PM)

Quantity over Quality, isn't that the creed of our consumer society?

You think being a woman is bad?
Try being an employer!

People are encouraged seeking *anything* everywhere and in large quantities instead of commiting to a few things they really want. The results are evident.





YouName -> RE: What's with all the subs on here thinking they're special snowflakes? (10/25/2014 12:31:59 PM)


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ORIGINAL: SweetnStormySub

I didn't know being a special snowflake was a bad thing! Note to self: become dull, apathetic, and blend in with the pack. Being common rocks my world!
Seriously, you did post this in the "ask a slave/submissive" forum, so that's this one's two cents.


Lol! Good point. If everyone did consider themselves and others special little snowflakes there would probably be alot more aiming instead of aimlessness




ItalianStallion -> RE: What's with all the subs on here thinking they're special snowflakes? (10/27/2014 7:25:29 PM)

Because they are desperate.... This site is a very poor place to find someone nowadays. People are already ten times pickier on the internet to start with. A person you find attractive in RL usually isn't appealing at all online. The issue at this site, is when you wade through scam artists, shallow people in it for the $$$, and professionals, what you are left with is a bunch of women who have already been paired off, or even have multiple partners. Stick a fork in the dating side of this site.




stef -> RE: What's with all the subs on here thinking they're special snowflakes? (10/27/2014 7:29:04 PM)


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ORIGINAL: ItalianStallion

Because they are desperate.... This site is a very poor place to find someone nowadays. People are already ten times pickier on the internet to start with. A person you find attractive in RL usually isn't appealing at all online. The issue at this site, is when you wade through scam artists, shallow people in it for the $$$, and professionals, what you are left with is a bunch of women who have already been paired off, or even have multiple partners. Stick a fork in the dating side of this site.

Leaving already? How long will we have to wait for you to return and once again share your vast wisdom with the poor unwashed masses?




ItalianStallion -> RE: What's with all the subs on here thinking they're special snowflakes? (10/27/2014 7:38:38 PM)

I'm not here for a date, though of course I am open to the possibility :) I am fully aware of the odds. I see it as something like gambling - go, have fun, but realize you are going to lose 9/10 if you wager anything. I'm finding these forums quite enjoyable actually. And you guys are educating me a great deal. So I hope you don't mind if I stick around for a while before I disappear for another seven years ;)




ExiledTyrant -> RE: What's with all the subs on here thinking they're special snowflakes? (10/27/2014 7:41:25 PM)


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ORIGINAL: stef


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ORIGINAL: ItalianStallion

Because they are desperate.... This site is a very poor place to find someone nowadays. People are already ten times pickier on the internet to start with. A person you find attractive in RL usually isn't appealing at all online. The issue at this site, is when you wade through scam artists, shallow people in it for the $$$, and professionals, what you are left with is a bunch of women who have already been paired off, or even have multiple partners. Stick a fork in the dating side of this site.

Leaving already? How long will we have to wait for you to return and once again share your vast wisdom with the poor unwashed masses?


OMG ~stef, it has to rain some time. Go out an play in it.

This has been a Wisdom for the Unwashed Masses special announcement.




SweetnStormySub -> RE: What's with all the subs on here thinking they're special snowflakes? (10/27/2014 8:08:40 PM)


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ORIGINAL: ItalianStallion

Because they are desperate.... This site is a very poor place to find someone nowadays. People are already ten times pickier on the internet to start with. A person you find attractive in RL usually isn't appealing at all online. The issue at this site, is when you wade through scam artists, shallow people in it for the $$$, and professionals, what you are left with is a bunch of women who have already been paired off, or even have multiple partners. Stick a fork in the dating side of this site.


I am not desperate, nor do I have multiple partners. You're making quite an assumption with your post...and not an accurate one at that. Submission doesn't equate promiscuity...ever. Me thinks that broad brush you're painting with should be tossed out with the rubbish.




ItalianStallion -> RE: What's with all the subs on here thinking they're special snowflakes? (10/27/2014 8:13:36 PM)

Methinks you greatly misunderstood!




ItalianStallion -> RE: What's with all the subs on here thinking they're special snowflakes? (10/27/2014 8:14:46 PM)

The OP was complaining about sub's who approach despite the minimum requirements. Hard to see how this applies to you.




Gauge -> RE: What's with all the subs on here thinking they're special snowflakes? (10/27/2014 9:35:34 PM)


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ORIGINAL: ItalianStallion

Because they are desperate.... This site is a very poor place to find someone nowadays.



Demand your money back.

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People are already ten times pickier on the internet to start with.


You are a guy looking for a woman, women can afford to be picky due to the amount of response they get from men just like you.

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A person you find attractive in RL usually isn't appealing at all online.


Horseshit. I met my slut online and I found her profile very enticing and our email exchanges were amazing. We met in person and I was even more impressed. Whether or not someone is attractive online depends on the person.

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The issue at this site, is when you wade through scam artists, shallow people in it for the $$$, and professionals


The issue with online dating in general is what you describe here, it certainly is not exclusive to this site.

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what you are left with is a bunch of women who have already been paired off, or even have multiple partners.


Or, if you are patient and diligent, you can find the ones that are real, single, and looking for someone.

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Stick a fork in the dating side of this site.


Ever think it is this attitude that prevents you from finding someone? It takes some serious time to wade through the dreck, but when you do, there are women out there, willing and ready to talk to someone who is sincerely looking. The decision is yours entirely.




ItalianStallion -> RE: What's with all the subs on here thinking they're special snowflakes? (10/27/2014 9:49:38 PM)

Already been finding people. So not sure what your point is. And when you are speaking of someone who's desperate, patience is not going to work




Gauge -> RE: What's with all the subs on here thinking they're special snowflakes? (10/28/2014 12:47:52 AM)


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ORIGINAL: ItalianStallion

Already been finding people. So not sure what your point is.



Well, your indictment of the site is that it is a poor place to meet someone. How could you make that assessment and claim to be finding people? So, that is my point.

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I'm not here for a date, though of course I am open to the possibility


Interesting that you would say this, and yet you are finding people, and you are not here seeking.

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And when you are speaking of someone who's desperate, patience is not going to work


Who is desperate exactly?





HeartAndSoul31 -> RE: What's with all the subs on here thinking they're special snowflakes? (10/28/2014 6:15:14 AM)

To special snowflakes


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ItalianStallion -> RE: What's with all the subs on here thinking they're special snowflakes? (10/28/2014 2:06:54 PM)

Obviously I am finding them off this site ;)




xgender -> RE: What's with all the subs on here thinking they're special snowflakes? (10/28/2014 2:47:33 PM)

To the OP (who is probably gone by now)

Boo Hoo

Try being in my shoes. I'm non-binary trans - not a fetishist, I LIVE the life - and most people think that I'm some CD fetishist. I rarely get replies to my messages, and you're complaining about getting too many?!?!? You sound more like a princess than a Domme...




forcedsensuality -> RE: What's with all the subs on here thinking they're special snowflakes? (12/1/2014 8:44:11 AM)

Gosh, what a tantrum.

Again, where is the acknowledgment that negotiation is important ? Women with too many hard requirements scare me.. I worry that they might just end up with a really naive snowman who can't stand up for himself and gets pushed into whatever this woman wants. The odds, the numbers of s. vs. D., I pity submissive people who end up with dictators that will not compromise or negotiate.

Hey mISTRESS pOSTURE-pERFECT, you really got me thinkin' and yOU reminded me of an old Frank Zappa lyric. Now I suspect Zappa ain't too popular around here, given the number of cheap and uninformed shots he took at BDSM back then. Nevermind. Consider this lyrical excerpt that seems especially suitable and applicable to you, yOUR hELLISHL lOWNESS :

Hey, let's get serious.../ God knows what he's doin'
He wrote this book here /An'the book says:/ He made us all to be just like Him,"
so...
If we're dumb.../ Then God is dumb.../(An' maybe even a little ugly on the side)

see, I just figure your preposterous sub-Paris-Hilton(in character) tirade reveals that awful truth.. We're trying to enjoy a mutually-consensual thang here, and some self-appointed gODDESS imagines herself beyond reproach and criticism, while laying down the law for the serfs. Now the serfs might be all pox-marked and stuff, less than perfect, sorry, but that's just the feudal reality ain't it ?

I mean you might be a little limited in the all-seeing and all-knowing dept, don't ya think ? Oh, you're one of Stephen Hawking's numerous offspring are you ? Or are you perhaps prodigy of the Genius Sperm Bank Project and have traced yourself back to Nobel Prize Winner William Shokley have you ? You're a gODDESS, you're perfect, what you say goes does it ?

I prefer Zappa's view of gods and goddesses here (along with the Greeks, whose gods were your typical soap opera misfits) .. ok If god created us in his image, then either we're all perfect, or we're all far from perfect, including those self-appointed goddesses amongst us. I don't believe in the big god, and if you're planning on being the goddess form hell, well your limited assumptions and misplaced diplomatic and social aplomb all point to your, well, let's not say 'dumbness', no, actually i felt myself more drawn to "maybe even a little ugly on the side" ..

Yeah, you're one of those ugly-on-the-inside would-be-divinities out there, you are one of the newly styling and profiling wanna-bees that we subs, slaves and potential recipients of your warmth, wit, role-playing prowess, brutality, brinkmanship and other charming my-way-or-highway negotiating style have to WADE OUR WAY THROUGH, just to be erring on the side of caution.

Thankfully you have revealed your fast-decision-making and sadistic-prison-screw mentality sufficient to warn all who might accidentally have their sunlight blotched by your shadow. Thankfully your post will help others, will allow your monstrous black-hole shadow to precede you.

I would suggest you rub and clank and hobble and blister along for at least a year in a slave's chains before venturing further into this form of sexual expression.

Having merely glimpsed the devil's evil mind for that snapshot, it rekindles a thought I sometimes have, see I do sometimes wonder if there really should be a register of "self-appointed-psychopath-dominants", much like a sex offenders register, so that innocent and thoughtful and imaginative submissives don't find out just what you think of compromise and just what sort of play you as a gODDDESS consider to be your mandate only when it's too late and they're imprisoned in your basement. Just for safety's sake,.. a "redder-than-black" or "bluebeard register" of meanly-intentioned wannabees such as yourself that could exploit the scene ..

Presumably you will find yourself in prison yourself soon enough, although hopefully not at the expense of anyone else's health or wellbeing.

Yes, people are gentle and different and suffer real pain Ms Rough-Tough-Cream-Puff-Eater. If you can't tolerate human weakness, then you're in the wrong group of people, darling. Why don't you re-locate to North Korea ? Sounds like you'd fit right in.




sexyred1 -> RE: What's with all the subs on here thinking they're special snowflakes? (12/1/2014 9:36:53 AM)

Nice post!




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