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RE: Please Give Me Your Perspective :) - 10/25/2014 6:52:50 PM

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

jeff, jeff, jeff...

I once made a submissive buy a land line so I could hear her clearly because her cell phone reception sucked. She obeyed and got a land line. We got to talk without stress and she ended up moving to Florida and living with me for a several years. Of course that was because she was sincere about jumping the hurdles it takes to start a relationship.... it wasn't just all about her.

Skype - When you failed to put forth the little effort it takes to make a Skype account for the Domme that wasn't asking you for money, you showed that Domme you felt communicating with her wasn't worth the effort. You failed and she seems pretty smart about filtering out cock-centric relationship partners. Good on her.

As far as all the other pay to play comments, you are in a sea of cock-centric submissive males. Once you stop acting like a walking penis, you may get some interest from real people instead of professionals who's career is to service walking penises.

Depending on how soon she insisted on the Skype account I would have to disagree. I've run into that situation more than once and asked the same question: What's wrong with talking through the website where we met for a bit? In my experience this comes up after one or two messages and it really boils down to the other person not having the attention span to wait for messages so they rush to chat/IMs.

In your example I'm guessing you and this sub were talking for some time? That I could understand. But demanding new avenues of contact when the first hadn't been exhausted seems unnecessary and impractical to me.

There could be parts of the conversation that were omitted in the OP, but the Domme immediately accusing OP of being a flake when he was communicating from the start, and refusing to answer his question is a red flag in my book.

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RE: Please Give Me Your Perspective :) - 10/26/2014 9:39:04 PM

LookieNoNookie

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Rule number 1.

If they ask for money, they are scamming you.

Rule Number 2.

See rule number 1.

The trouble with this philosophy is that everyone I've corresponded with so far is asking for money up front. 100% can't be scammers. Of course, it could be my age bracket.

You're right.

It's probably closer to 99.9999999999999999999%

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RE: Please Give Me Your Perspective :) - 10/27/2014 12:41:22 PM

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I can only speak for myself as a male sub. I personally wouldn't just buy a "giftcard" or send tribute to anyone I only talk to on the internet. I understand Domme's wanting to weed out the "fake's". From my end, I also want to weed out the "fake's" too. How do I know if the other "Domme" on the internet, isn't just a scammer to get some free money and then disappears. Now, if I did have my own Domme that I've known for awhile and have met in real life, then that's a different story. However, even if the other girl on the internet really is a "Domme", that I haven't met, I still wouldn't send money blindy. I have nothing against Fin-Dommes but don't expect tribute on me on the sole fact that they are a Domme and I am a sub. It doesn't work that way with me. I've been talking to a great Domme for well over a year myself. She has given me amazing insight into this Lifestyle from a Dommes angle, that I couldn't get just being a sub alone. If I have any personal question's and issue's, I consult with her first. I take the advice of other's, if it seem's to make sense. That's just my 2 cent's. Nothing more.

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RE: Please Give Me Your Perspective :) - 10/27/2014 12:56:11 PM

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I'm curious about why an 18 year old doesn't have Skype!