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i got Online Slave , how to train - 7/12/2006 2:27:36 PM   
online2nddegree


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Status: offline 		hello everyone , i got a  slave online ... she is pretty and well obedient  , well we  will decide to go for real time in future but for now  it will be online ... As  she  is  online slave  can anyone tell me what does a  female  online slaves expect from there  masters/mistress ... how should i  use her ... what sorts of punishments i  can give her online .. she is always conntected to me with chat  on  camera.
Thanks .
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RE: i got Online Slave , how to train - 7/12/2006 2:30:01 PM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		Just walk away LT, just walk away................

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RE: i got Online Slave , how to train - 7/12/2006 2:33:26 PM   
online2nddegree


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Status: offline 		did not understand what you mean Latig . please explain . i am new to bdsm just donot know  much about it . Thanks

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RE: i got Online Slave , how to train - 7/12/2006 2:36:43 PM   
yourMissTress


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Status: offline 		 Where to start....What makes you a Master or Mistress?  Why do you have a slave?  What do you want from a slave?
 


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RE: i got Online Slave , how to train - 7/12/2006 2:47:11 PM   
online2nddegree


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Status: offline 		let me try to answer .

what makes me master/mistress ?
Answer : my desire of being  served  by someone and  my better understanding of life  makes me dominant . ofcourse  i would not  hesitate  to punish  my slave  if  i feel they are ignoring me but  i am very soft hearted in nature .

Why do i have slave ?

because  my slave wants someone to  serve and may be  want someone   to punish etc etc ..  my slave could better answer it ,

What do i want  from my slave ?

Physical pleasure ,  and  want help in my daily jobs like    cooking etc ... also  massage or other kind of  thinsg will work ...  want  to see naked dance  my expectations  are unlimitied from my slave .

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RE: i got Online Slave , how to train - 7/12/2006 3:06:27 PM   
yourMissTress


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Status: offline 		Now you know what you want and what you want your online slave to do for you.  So...what's the question?  How do you teach her to cook and clean for you online?

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RE: i got Online Slave , how to train - 7/12/2006 3:06:35 PM   
MistressLorelei


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ORIGINAL: online2nddegree

hello everyone , i got a  slave online ... she is pretty and well obedient  , well we  will decide to go for real time in future but for now  it will be online ... As  she  is  online slave  can anyone tell me what does a  female  online slaves expect from there  masters/mistress ... how should i  use her ... what sorts of punishments i  can give her online .. she is always conntected to me with chat  on  camera.
Thanks .


Simply having desires or fantasies of someone doing your dishes, dancing for you, and massaging you, does not a Dominant make.  If you don't know how to treat your 'slave' beyond what you eventually want her to do for you...  then perhaps you aren't capable of having one.

If you indeed are a Dominant creature, then you will want to learn, explore and grow before taking someone under your wing who will be deserving of the treatment she deserves by putting her trust in you.

That's how I see it anyway.

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RE: i got Online Slave , how to train - 7/12/2006 3:12:25 PM   
online2nddegree


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Status: offline 		i Agree  mistress Lorelie  but  i am sure  i have dominant  nature  . i always  lead everywhere  in  life . i have capability to take quick and right desicions for someone  else ..  so thats why i think i am dominating however i was expecting  a  procedure to dominate   from  this  forum .

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RE: i got Online Slave , how to train - 7/12/2006 3:19:48 PM   
Owned1


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Status: offline 		With all due respect there is no "procedure to dominate"  There is no Dom rule book as there is no subbie rule book.  Online is a place to meet others with like minds, and if you are lucky meet someone you might connect with.  However as others have said one needs to find out themselves who they are, what they want, and where they want to go.  This is not something that can be told to you.  I would suggest you may have the capablity or inclination of a Dom however the next step would be learning what exactly Dom means, what the responsiblities are, and who hyou are in this title.  As in all walks of life there are many types of individuals this applies as well to Dom or sub/slaves.  We are all created differently and we all have different needs wants and desires.

I guess the short answser is there is no such thing as an instant Dom where you can simply add water and watch them grow.

Cheers

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RE: i got Online Slave , how to train - 7/12/2006 3:22:22 PM   
sophia37


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Status: offline 		The first thing you as Master, needs to learn, is the art of proper communication. If you can't even write a full sentance, then you're hardly in the position to be telling other people what to do. I can hardly understand you. Why should you expect anyone else to?

You're going to get into mis-communication trouble by about the third email. Just my opinion. But most likely a pretty sound one. 

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RE: i got Online Slave , how to train - 7/12/2006 3:26:18 PM   
MHOO314


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ORIGINAL: yourMissTress

Now you know what you want and what you want your online slave to do for you.  So...what's the question?  How do you teach her to cook and clean for you online?


Lots of windex.

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RE: i got Online Slave , how to train - 7/12/2006 3:29:31 PM   
sophia37


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Status: offline 		Actually, this is a pretty funny thread. Thank you Owned One. For this encyclopedia definition,..., "Instant Dom: Where one can simply add water and watch subs grow." lololol I like that. This is exactly what many readers here are looking for. Lets get together. How are your marketing skills? lol It's a fortune I tell'y! A fortune! Any other ideas?

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RE: i got Online Slave , how to train - 7/12/2006 3:35:00 PM   
yourMissTress


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Status: offline 		LOLOLOLOLLLLLLLLLLLLL

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RE: i got Online Slave , how to train - 7/12/2006 3:36:37 PM   
Owned1


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Status: offline 		:)  i do find online there are too many who think,   hmmm i think i can control someone, i can make decisions for myself therefore i should own someone. 

Alternativly it works for the sub/slave,  hmmm i would like to be told what to do (of course only when i decide) i think i will look for a Dom/me.

Before even venturing out into this life imho one should first take a good hard (no pun intended) long look at themselves, sort out who they are etc, needs wants desires, and how they can then move to either owning or being owned.

If you are in this for the play and are honest about it great!  Because lets be honest the play time is great fun, better than almost anything else we can do as consenting adults. 

btw can anyone help me get rid of the vanilla thingy under my name when i post its really offensive  ;)

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RE: i got Online Slave , how to train - 7/12/2006 3:39:17 PM   
jadedshadow


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hello everyone , i got a  slave online ... she is pretty and well obedient  , well we  will decide to go for real time in future but for now  it will be online ...
 First, rather than slamming you because you both chose to go the safe route and explore this online, I want to congratulate you both. Online BDSM can be a great way to test the waters before making the leap into r/t. 
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As  she  is  online slave  can anyone tell me what does a  female  online slaves expect from there  masters/mistress ...
 They expect the same things from them as in r/t. The need and desire to please is still there. They want to serve, and expect to be trained to please you. 
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how should i  use her ... what sorts of punishments i  can give her online .. she is always conntected to me with chat  on  camera.
Thanks .
  My advice is to take it slow. Communicate a lot first, and continue to openly and honestly communicate as you both grow together. You know what you want and what you expect, but have you asked your slave what she expects? Make sure you both are on the same wave length with what will or will not be happening. There is no right or wrong way that this should be done. Anyone who says otherwise is full of it. Don't set your relathionship standards up by what others here or anywhere says. The important thing is to find out what you both want.  As to what to do, that will very well depend on the specifics of your relationship with one another. Some of the things I would suggest would be setting up a schedule for her with tasks that would be pleasing to you for her to do each day while you are not present - you can have her take cam pics or something to prove it if need be. Have her make a list of her fantasies and see which of them can be done online. Have her write an email to you on how she can please you via online. Get her to start an online journal where she can put her thoughts on all things on it for you. Position train her, using the cam to make sure it's done properly. Have her buy some toys and let her use them on cam for you. Choose her clothing, letting her model each outfit for you.  And the list goes on and on and on.. some or none of these things may work for both of you..the main thing is whatever you choose to have her do is to make sure her mind is getting set that she belongs to you. Just take it one slow step at a time.

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RE: i got Online Slave , how to train - 7/12/2006 3:55:03 PM   
sophia37


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Status: offline 		Owned One, by posting number 26, your title will change to something else. Me personally, I would have stuck with an ice cream cone forever. I was prepared to have great fun being here, listed as Vanilla Ice cream. Yeeessss! lolol Now I'm Sophia37 Indecent or something just as indecent.. So sad. lolol

Anyway, Oneline2ndDegree has fantasies of someone doing dishes, dancing, and massage-ing as a slave. According to this theory/request, there is a, "better understanding of life". Well I don't know. There's certainly a Different understanding of life happening here. Im not quite sure it's a Better understanding, so I'm waiting to hear more from OnLine2ndDegree.

OnLine2ndDegree, can you enlighten us further? Sorry to make fun. But we need more info. Thanx Sophie xoxo

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RE: i got Online Slave , how to train - 7/12/2006 4:09:37 PM   
SweetSarijane


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From: KC area Missouri
Status: offline 		There are books you can buy that will help you find your way, find where you fit, what fits for you. Books like The Loving Dominant, The Topping Book, SM 101, Consensual Sadomasochism, Different Loving: A Complete Exploration of the World of Sexual Dominance&Submission, Screw the Roses Send Me the Thorns, as well as reading The Bottoming Book. You take from them what resonates with you and go from there. As to your online slave, my suggestion is full open communication between both of you. Find what her limits are right now, respect her as a person as well as someone who has chosen to submit to you. You'll better find a dynamic that works for both of you by doing that. Just my thoughts from my experience to date.

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RE: i got Online Slave , how to train - 7/12/2006 4:27:39 PM   
kc692


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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Just walk away LT, just walk away................


Me too, thanks for the advice LT, smiles.

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RE: i got Online Slave , how to train - 7/12/2006 5:39:59 PM   
Owned1


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Status: offline 		sophia37 thanks for the information re changing my ice cream cone

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RE: i got Online Slave , how to train - 7/12/2006 6:14:11 PM   
skaterboy


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Status: offline 		on line is like a fish or crab...nibbling but not biting.....You got nothing.
Reel her in on real time and come talk to me for advice..in the mean time, your not only fishing....your baiting yourself for ridicule and you my friend, are getting lots of bites............ouchy!

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