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Adored, Ignored, Ridiculed


Adore me, you writhing hunk of male fuckmeat
  40% (9)
Ignore me, oh the horror of your attention
  54% (12)
Ridicule me, cuz I'm a humiliation whore like that
  4% (1)


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Adored, Ignored, Ridiculed - 11/5/2014 3:18:58 PM   
ExiledTyrant


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Status: offline 		Okay, the 10 hours in NYC has taken on a life of it's own. I've kept my comments on the fun and games level, because I've seen the video and if they had called her a fat ass whore she would've spent ten hours crying.

Often cat calls and other shit can get out of hand, but I want to take a poll of our Ladies and /girls... so, here we go!

Would you rather be adored, complimented, and heaven forbid, cat called. (clothing manufacturers, cosmetics companies, etc... think you do or they would be all bankrupt).

Ignored completely, invisible, non existent. (that's gotta be the sweet life. Imagine what it could do for the self esteem)

Ridiculed, mocked, and insulted. (I do not think the GAP stands for Guinea-Sacks And Pigsties)

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RE: Adored, Ignored, Ridiculed - 11/5/2014 3:33:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		There isn't a good answer. I pick ignored, because personally that kind of behavior triggers me. I've spent five minutes being upset for having been called fat by a stranger, then hated myself for caring. I've spent five minutes doing breathing exercises because a stranger followed me on the street and "complimented" me the whole time.

I know the difference between YOU saying I'm pretty, someone with whom I have talked extensively, and whom I assume (could be wrong) has a shred of respect for who I am as a person vs some drunk guy calling me pretty or fat or pretty and fat on the street.

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RE: Adored, Ignored, Ridiculed - 11/5/2014 3:35:23 PM   
ExiledTyrant


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quote:

ORIGINAL: shiftyw

There isn't a good answer. I pick ignored, because personally that kind of behavior triggers me. I've spent five minutes being upset for having been called fat by a stranger, then hated myself for caring. I've spent five minutes doing breathing exercises because a stranger followed me on the street and "complimented" me the whole time.

I know the difference between YOU saying I'm pretty, someone with whom I have talked extensively, and whom I assume (could be wrong) has a shred of respect for who I am as a person vs some drunk guy calling me pretty or fat or pretty and fat on the street.



Nope. Not a shred of respect.

Jus sayin

It's more like an ocean.

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RE: Adored, Ignored, Ridiculed - 11/5/2014 3:40:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		For real though, in a country where 1 in five women have been raped (ok, even if those are all mostly false reports, cause we know that's next, say 1 in 10) have been sexually assaulted...do men really still think we should take this as a compliment?

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RE: Adored, Ignored, Ridiculed - 11/5/2014 3:41:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm going with ignored too. I'm perfectly ok with being ignored on the street really. I might miss passing the time of day with a few strangers but I wouldn't be crying myself to sleep about that.

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RE: Adored, Ignored, Ridiculed - 11/5/2014 3:43:32 PM   
ExiledTyrant


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ORIGINAL: shiftyw

For real though, in a country where 1 in five women have been raped (ok, even if those are all mostly false reports, cause we know that's next, say 1 in 10) have been sexually assaulted...do men really still think we should take this as a compliment?



At no point did I say rape is a compliment... unless it's after the "Panty Ritual".

Jus sayin

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RE: Adored, Ignored, Ridiculed - 11/5/2014 3:47:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		No, you implied that cat calling was a compliment. I think it is a potential predecessor to assault.

ETA- disclaimer- no not always. Not all men are bad. Blah blah blah

< Message edited by shiftyw -- 11/5/2014 3:49:06 PM >

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RE: Adored, Ignored, Ridiculed - 11/5/2014 3:54:20 PM   
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Status: offline 		That's the point of the poll, shifty. The odds of cat-calling stopping aren't very good, but the poll is about all or nothing. I'm not a cat caller kinda hippy, but I notoriously compliment women and men. Guys are easy, they accept the compliment, women are complicated. Some are offended that I had the audacity to say something, and most just giggle and blush. So, should I never compliment another woman again or just risk the odd cock juggling thunder cunt that is going to get offended?

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RE: Adored, Ignored, Ridiculed - 11/5/2014 4:01:06 PM   
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Status: offline 		Complimenting in the right context, is fine, you know that.

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RE: Adored, Ignored, Ridiculed - 11/5/2014 4:07:19 PM   
ExiledTyrant


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Status: offline 		Yep, but there is still those who cannot accept a good compliment, for what ever reason, usually to stir shit... but the reasons vary. I complimented a girl on her name today, twas quite awesome, and she took it with great grace, a bit of a stammer, but still accepted it well. However, others around her looked at me like my face had fallen off cuz I had the nerve to compliment her and then say something about her name that no one in earshot had the literary knowledge to grasp. She understood it and that was all that mattered.

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RE: Adored, Ignored, Ridiculed - 11/5/2014 4:19:43 PM   
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Status: offline 		Am I the shit stirrer in this instance?

For the record, 13 pages is just showing off. And 10 page threads are a fetish on fet now. You're all welcome.

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RE: Adored, Ignored, Ridiculed - 11/5/2014 4:20:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		At this stage in my life? Adore me please. I've reached the age of being invisible and it is weird. I've always been quiet (despite my prolific typing) and usually blend into the background, but having reached the age of *cough cough cough* it is sometimes hard to know I won't turn any heads.

That is my honest answer!

Edited to ask if I can have the adoration minus insults and humiliation please n thanks.

< Message edited by camille65 -- 11/5/2014 4:25:32 PM >

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RE: Adored, Ignored, Ridiculed - 11/5/2014 4:35:06 PM   
smileforme50


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Status: offline 		I'm going with "ignored" too. I really do not have a problem with complete strangers not talking to me.

I don't usually have a problem with guys making crude cat calls at me as I walk past them. What I have had a big problem with is what happens when I would be at a stop waiting for a bus. It's one thing for them to just say "hi" and acknowledge me and anyone else at the stop, but very often what would happen is that they would invade my personal space....either sit right next to me so that our hips and/or legs touched. What makes it worse is that I could tell that they were doing this intentionally ....not by accident or because there wasn't enough space on the bench. Sometimes they would even put their hand on my knee. Then if I got up and walked away from them sometimes they would call me a fat pig bitch.

I was always totally relieved if they just completely ignored me and never looked up from their phone.

The best things that ever happened to me are the Walkman and iPod.....then I could just crank up the music and never even know they opened their mouths.

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RE: Adored, Ignored, Ridiculed - 11/5/2014 4:36:48 PM   
Greta75


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Status: offline 		Ignored completely, invisible, non existent. <---- Definitely THIS by strangers!!!

Of course not by the man you are having a relationship with. But other than the man I am having a relationship with, I don't want any attention from any other males that exist in this world.

While women should not have to suffer being objectified by the way they dress, but fact of the matter is, many men are stupid and their brain turn retard when they see a woman dressed in a way that is sexually appealing to them.

I actually usually dress down at work to prevent any sexual harassment. Baggy pants, baggy shirt, look like a butch. I only dress in my high heels, short skirt, cleavage showing type of attire with a man I am having sex with. As his the only man I want to be sexualising me.

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RE: Adored, Ignored, Ridiculed - 11/5/2014 4:38:15 PM   
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Status: offline 		I realise that you've just done this for fun but I'm not sure that you're going to get a very realistic survey response with the choices you've put up, not everyone is going to read the text underneath and just see adored and pick that as meaning that. Cat calling is not being adored, its kinda like a mixture of the first and third choices.

< Message edited by SweetForDaddy -- 11/5/2014 4:41:24 PM >

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RE: Adored, Ignored, Ridiculed - 11/5/2014 4:40:18 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: camille65

At this stage in my life? Adore me please. I've reached the age of being invisible and it is weird. I've always been quiet (despite my prolific typing) and usually blend into the background, but having reached the age of *cough cough cough* it is sometimes hard to know I won't turn any heads.

That is my honest answer!

Edited to ask if I can have the adoration minus insults and humiliation please n thanks.


Ha, honestly you probably are still getting gawked at but probably not from where you'll expect or will be receptive. I notice the younger guys at my gym...high school to college age CONSTANTLY checking out the older ladies there. It's to the point where a 15 year old complained to me about it when I first joined but I notice it now that I've been there awhile. And these ladies are of all shapes and sizes. I don't expect to look the same when I hit 40 but omg, CAN'T WAIT!

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RE: Adored, Ignored, Ridiculed - 11/5/2014 4:41:08 PM   
ExiledTyrant


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quote:

ORIGINAL: shiftyw

Am I the shit stirrer in this instance?

For the record, 13 pages is just showing off. And 10 page threads are a fetish on fet now. You're all welcome.


That depends, are you going to ask your BF "what he's going to do about" me complimenting you and call him a pussy when he does nothing?

13 pages, for your own edification, equates to a meat tenderizer.

Jus sayin

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RE: Adored, Ignored, Ridiculed - 11/5/2014 4:59:44 PM   
shiftyw


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Status: offline 		Seeing men fight is boring. Plus the way that I'm feeling today, I'm pretty sure he would put me on loan to you so that I stop pestering him.

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RE: Adored, Ignored, Ridiculed - 11/5/2014 5:04:16 PM   
ExiledTyrant


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quote:

ORIGINAL: shiftyw

Seeing men fight is boring. Plus the way that I'm feeling today, I'm pretty sure he would put me on loan to you so that I stop pestering him.

GOOD

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RE: Adored, Ignored, Ridiculed - 11/5/2014 5:17:19 PM   
camille65


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quote:

ORIGINAL: GoddessManko


quote:

ORIGINAL: camille65

At this stage in my life? Adore me please. I've reached the age of being invisible and it is weird. I've always been quiet (despite my prolific typing) and usually blend into the background, but having reached the age of *cough cough cough* it is sometimes hard to know I won't turn any heads.

That is my honest answer!

Edited to ask if I can have the adoration minus insults and humiliation please n thanks.


Ha, honestly you probably are still getting gawked at but probably not from where you'll expect or will be receptive. I notice the younger guys at my gym...high school to college age CONSTANTLY checking out the older ladies there. It's to the point where a 15 year old complained to me about it when I first joined but I notice it now that I've been there awhile. And these ladies are of all shapes and sizes. I don't expect to look the same when I hit 40 but omg, CAN'T WAIT!


:)

I bet a lot is attitude too, I need to cultivate Attitude dang it. So I can be adored. Heh.


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