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RE: Is the dynamic more about pain or about sexuality? - 12/2/2014 4:17:30 PM

Miyani

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Some dominant women slap breasts. Or cunts (a particular favorite of mine).

Some dominant men slap cocks.

For me, it's a combination. They are sensitive areas, and that's a lot of the motivation for me. However, I get off in a BIG way on vulnerability, and fear, and having one's genitals exposed and tortured can create both.

I do, though, also enjoy hitting, pinching, slapping, kicking, areas that are not generally considered sexual or erogenous, because they can take more punishment and because I just like it. I will always be gentle where I need to be, but it's fun to be able to haul off, too!

(in reply to CaptR)