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questioningdream -> RE: For you younger girls who like older men... (1/14/2015 9:42:08 AM)
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My first two D/S-vanilla combination relationships were with guys that were a year younger than me. I decided then, that going younger wasn't really for me, as I found it difficult to get on their level mentally.
My Master, who I entered into a vanilla relationship first that then developed into a D/S one as well, was 44 years older than me. I was 21 when we first got together, and he was 65. I was not aware of his age until two weeks into the relationship. Not because he didn't tell me, but because it was unimportant, to me, to ask. He was dynamic, magnetic, and charming as well as intellectual. We shared common hobbies and interests, travel passions, religious beliefs and the like. I was the one who introduced him to BDSM, which he took to swimmingly. He was a '100 sit-ups & 100 push-up's a day' man, and contrary to a few snide questions I was asked from friends, he didn't need any assistance - be it in the form of herbs or a little blue pill - in the bedroom department. His family accepted me, and mine, him. The only reason we aren't together now is because he had a massive stress-induced heart attack at the end of November last year, with no warning in the slightest.
So, regarding age, how old is too old? At this point, my mail control is set for the upper limit at 35, which is a reasonable gauge. My Master was the exception to the rule regarding how old I would date. The likelihood of anyone comparing to him is slim. There also may be some variants between how old I would go for a play partner, how old I would go regarding just friendship, and how old I'd go for ownership and/or a relationship.
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