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sexyred1 -> RE: For you younger girls who like older men... (11/18/2014 5:34:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RockaRolla quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 Gee, I guess he is lucky he is a man. So annoying to have to worry about that pesky biological clock. I should've clarified. By bio-clock I was referring to a rush to settle down and have kids, which wasn't for him (or me.) Not sure if that ruffled feathers, but it wasn't intended. It's ok. I was ruffled on behalf of many women I know who are dying for kids. They date these men, the same age for a long time and the guy says, nah, no kids. When they finally break, the women are often past child bearing age and the guys can still father kids. So it is a big issue. I am regretful that I was unable to have kids since I adore them. It's just another unfair difference between men and women.

DerangedUnit -> RE: For you younger girls who like older men... (11/18/2014 5:50:18 PM)
I read a study a while ago that might make you feel better, I'll link to a quick google rehash. In short it states that many disorders including down syndrome and increased cancer risks are caused by the mans sperm being old.... men have a biological clock too. And actually an older woman still has completely fine eggs as ours are set and not made on demand. In most cases you can find a young stud and go ahead.... my childhood friend's mother was 56 when she had her, she had given up and it was a surprise. http://how-old-is-too-old.blogspot.com/2014/11/mutagenic-effect-of-advanced-paternal.html?m=1 That was the best I could find quickly... digging up old studies is always a pain, but something to look into if you are interested in genetics

FieryOpal -> RE: For you younger girls who like older men... (11/18/2014 6:43:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DerangedUnit I read a study a while ago that might make you feel better, I'll link to a quick google rehash. In short it states that many disorders including down syndrome and increased cancer risks are caused by the mans sperm being old.... men have a biological clock too. And actually an older woman still has completely fine eggs as ours are set and not made on demand. In most cases you can find a young stud and go ahead.... my childhood friend's mother was 56 when she had her, she had given up and it was a surprise. http://how-old-is-too-old.blogspot.com/2014/11/mutagenic-effect-of-advanced-paternal.html?m=1 OMG Deranged, please don't say that about your 56-year-old friend. I've been going through peri-menopause for 5-6 years now and have been having false alarms of menopausal onset for the past 2 years. I didn't dare take any chances after being widowed and started on the pill then. The nurses and other staff in my gyno's office were snickering outside the exam room about how a woman over 50 was insisting on not just a diaphragm (cuz I won't use those nasty-tasting spermicidal jellies) but on birth control pills at my age. I was just starting to feel safe mid-year and stopped taking them. Damn. Double damn. [:@] (Not an issue at present, but thinking toward the near future.)

DerangedUnit -> RE: For you younger girls who like older men... (11/18/2014 7:17:22 PM)
Haha sorry I know how you feel, when I went to get on bc I found out I was listed as a clotting risk and no doctor would give me bc because they didn't want to risk getting sued if I died... I basically had to blackmail the planned parenthood lady, I felt so bad pulling a guilt trip but it was necessary. I was like "you see my record. Are you telling me that the legal risk I present overcomes your moral obligation of preventing a child from being born into that..." she gave me the iud but with the warning that if their were problems she wouldn't put it in again.... I getcramps so bad I can't walk the week I ovulate and menstrate but this is my last option currently... ah doctors

brattykajira -> RE: For you younger girls who like older men... (12/12/2014 2:15:17 AM)
Master is 22 years older than myself and its rarely a problem other than my ignorance of His history, being able to understand His youth/childhood and getting many of the references He uses. Sometimes a simple phrase like "45 rpm record", "bottle opener" or "dialing a phone" leads Him to a 20 minute lecture on my lack of knowledge. Subs/slaves who are the property of an older Dom/Domme have a little extra homework to do to adapt. Dom/Dommes often keep up with the technology that us 20-somethings grew up with, so its only fair that a good sub/slave retrace the background of their owner's life and times. As far as appearance, I've watched Master begin to gray in the last 5 years, and I have to say that it doeasn't bother me at all. I would much rather see him with a head full of long gray hair than balding. (no offense to those older men who have a head thats attractive with no hair...but Master wouldn't be the same without hair) :) At 50, Master rarely acts ready for retirement and a rocking chair on the porch and often has more energy/drive than I do. I've seen Him color on the floor with kids teaching them artistic techniques, playing video games with them teaching them strategy/problem solving and watched Him run the 100 yard dash and beat high school kids while helping the local coaches. lol Because of the age difference, I refer to Him as my "One"...parent, teacher, priest, lover and Dom. So far He has not been referred to as my "Father" in public by anyone, and He prefers the term Master over any parental designation like "Daddy" (even tho I'm often referred to as His baby-girl by Him) The age difference dynamic is as old as any Biblical "marriage" I've learned. Its a common practice in the D/s lifestyle, and one that suits me.

Arturas -> RE: For you younger girls who like older men... (12/12/2014 1:26:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant quote: ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant quote: ORIGINAL: TheGirlRescuer A question for all of you females out there who seek older men. How old is old? is there a minimum age? or is it simply older than yourself? Is it when they graying begins? Retirement begins? The age of your own father? where does that line begin for you? That is way too subjective. Let's tighten the noose a bit. Hey, bitches, sluts, whores, and all you yummy /s types that I drool over... What is your maximum age difference in dating/playing/boinking? Jus wunderin P.S. My grandmother, RIP, was dating a guy three years younger than me when she was in her 60's. He was bi, wild, and brought her boy toys to play with. I really wish she would've married him. Yes, I quoted myself here, because I thought I better clarify something for the newer posters on the site. The part I bolded isn't something you should try at home boys and girls. I can get away with it because our /girls and /boys know me well enough to know that I hold them in the highest of regard, respect, and that I am ridiculously playful. The Men and Women of the site also know that I respect their dynamic, partners, and opinions not to ever insult them. I may disagree with them, but I have not one shred of disrespect for them. That said, until our members come to know and understand you, do not try this shit. As lovable and submissive as our /boys and /girls are, they are a beautiful pack of carnivorous gazelles and they can and do eat rogue lions. Jus sayin A bit off subject your post appears to be. That subject being you. For some reason you believe someone cares that you think you can say any shit and we all love you anyway. Fuck that bullshit. You are fooling yourself. Now, back on subject, star is 17 years younger than I. Most of the submissives I've seen judge men by criteria other than age when they meet them in the blind, at the club or in a munch. Star decided to meet me based on what I wrote her even though she had reservations about my age.

sexyred1 -> RE: For you younger girls who like older men... (12/12/2014 3:16:17 PM)
Well, actually, many people here, men and women, love ExiledTyrant, so speak for yourself. His sense of humor and intelligence is highly honed, thus, not surprising you don't get him. Also, he does not take himself seriously, as so many are wont to do. You may have Star, but he has fully formed harems and minions. Don't be jealous.

GamerChic -> RE: For you younger girls who like older men... (12/13/2014 6:50:18 PM)
For me personally I cant go beyond maybe 10-15 years. Once in a while I will break my mold and try to connect with someone who is like 20-25 years older if I see that they young for there age. I have nothing against those that like the older crowd or anything just in my experience if they are much older they are usually a Daddy Dom type and I don't react well with Daddy Doms. I have serious Daddy issues of my own.

PandoraFoxxx -> RE: For you younger girls who like older men... (12/13/2014 7:01:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 Well, actually, many people here, men and women, love ExiledTyrant, so speak for yourself. His sense of humor and intelligence is highly honed, thus, not surprising you don't get him. Also, he does not take himself seriously, as so many are wont to do. You may have Star, but he has fully formed harems and minions. Don't be jealous. [sm=agree.gif]

Arturas -> RE: For you younger girls who like older men... (12/14/2014 3:04:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 Well, actually, many people here, men and women, love ExiledTyrant, so speak for yourself. His sense of humor and intelligence is highly honed, thus, not surprising you don't get him. Also, he does not take himself seriously, as so many are wont to do. You may have Star, but he has fully formed harems and minions. Don't be jealous. I dont believe that someone yelling out "hey you bitches and ..." represents a sense of humor and intelligence highy honed. If you are somehow amused by him then perhaps your bar needs to be raised. If he had fully formed harems and minions he would not have time to be here so much.

RockaRolla -> RE: For you younger girls who like older men... (12/14/2014 3:24:37 PM)
I was not offended by ET's use of the phrase. Judging by the responses to this thread, I'll guess nobody else was... except for you. And the comment wasn't even directed at you, so I'm not sure why you've taken offense.

ExiledTyrant -> RE: For you younger girls who like older men... (12/14/2014 6:27:08 PM)
Gosh, I'd love to come and play with this but there is just no path this side of the TOS to do it. Perhaps we should add a little flavor to the question. How old is old? is there a minimum age? or is it simply older than yourself? Does fibromyalgia weigh in on your decision? Does living in a house of 6 effect your decision? Does school play a factor in your decision? Jus wunderin

Moderator3 -> RE: For you younger girls who like older men... (12/14/2014 6:34:29 PM)
What's up with members coming in lately and telling other members how to post and how members should look at things? Are people applying for a volunteer moderator position?

DaddySatyr -> RE: For you younger girls who like older men... (12/14/2014 9:07:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Moderator3 Are people applying for a volunteer moderator position? Are there *paid* positions? I want me one o' them! Michael

DarkSteven -> RE: For you younger girls who like older men... (12/14/2014 10:15:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Moderator3 What's up with members coming in lately and telling other members how to post and how members should look at things? Are people applying for a volunteer moderator position? I dunno if I'll allow that post, Mod3.

sexyred1 -> RE: For you younger girls who like older men... (12/14/2014 10:20:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Arturas quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 Well, actually, many people here, men and women, love ExiledTyrant, so speak for yourself. His sense of humor and intelligence is highly honed, thus, not surprising you don't get him. Also, he does not take himself seriously, as so many are wont to do. You may have Star, but he has fully formed harems and minions. Don't be jealous. I dont believe that someone yelling out "hey you bitches and ..." represents a sense of humor and intelligence highy honed. If you are somehow amused by him then perhaps your bar needs to be raised. If he had fully formed harems and minions he would not have time to be here so much. l You obviously haven't read many of his posts or writings and as I said, you lack a sense of humor. As for harems and minions, I can again only assume you are jealous, otherwise his popularity would not bother you.

Arturas -> RE: For you younger girls who like older men... (12/15/2014 3:55:14 PM)
quote: As for harems and minions, I can again only assume you are jealous, otherwise his popularity would not bother you. Well, this I know: What man would want to deal with a harem and why do you think that is special, so many of us have had that opportunity including myself. I know also that he must post to himself to explain, to apparently lessor forum posters, that they should not post like he can; he must tell them how not to post. I also know he is not popular with me and that is what counts to me. Finally I know you feel you have to speak for him

Arturas -> RE: For you younger girls who like older men... (12/15/2014 4:03:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven quote: ORIGINAL: Moderator3 What's up with members coming in lately and telling other members how to post and how members should look at things? Are people applying for a volunteer moderator position? I dunno if I'll allow that post, Mod3. I agree. His posting tells members how not to post unless you are him. My post tell others not to call others such names because you don't know them all and you need to respect them all or shut the fuck up and save it for Cmail to your "harem".

ExiledTyrant -> RE: For you younger girls who like older men... (12/16/2014 4:39:56 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Arturas quote: As for harems and minions, I can again only assume you are jealous, otherwise his popularity would not bother you. Well, this I know: What man would want to deal with a harem and why do you think that is special, so many of us have had that opportunity including myself. I know also that he must post to himself to explain, to apparently lessor forum posters, that they should not post like he can; he must tell them how not to post. I also know he is not popular with me and that is what counts to me. Finally I know you feel you have to speak for him Well, /arty, that's because you have such a limited capacity for... well, historically and a matter of record on this site, everything. She does not feel a "need" to speak for me, she loves me and sexyred has always protected, aggressively, those that she loves. Again, this will elude you because you lack the capacity to comprehend it. As for the lessor forum posters, we only have one C.H.U.D. on this site, the rest are new and learning the ropes. I do and say things that you may want to do, but cannot do, cuz the B/boys, G/girls, Ladies and Gentleman on this site know me and understand the nature of my interaction, which works well for me, not so much for you because they do not receive C.H.U.D.'s well. Jus sayin

DeviantlyD -> RE: For you younger girls who like older men... (12/16/2014 6:25:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Arturas quote: ORIGINAL: sexyred1 Well, actually, many people here, men and women, love ExiledTyrant, so speak for yourself. His sense of humor and intelligence is highly honed, thus, not surprising you don't get him. Also, he does not take himself seriously, as so many are wont to do. You may have Star, but he has fully formed harems and minions. Don't be jealous. I dont believe that someone yelling out "hey you bitches and ..." represents a sense of humor and intelligence highy honed. If you are somehow amused by him then perhaps your bar needs to be raised. If he had fully formed harems and minions he would not have time to be here so much. He actually does have plenty of free time because minions like me are making his money for him. :) And I do it joyfully with no hesitation because he is a fucking amazing human being. I do feel sorrow that you don't know this awesome man beyond the acerbic exchanges you've had on this site. If you did know him, you would understand how and why it is he has a harem as well as dutiful minions like me. :)

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