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GoddessManko -> RE: Yep, It's Too Much to Ask a Woman to be Your Fetish/Kink Delivery System (11/18/2014 5:51:57 PM)
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In fairness to the OP of that thread, he was willing to go to a professional and pay for that experience. He made no mention of trying to get any of the pretty Dommes in his area (or online) to fulfill his fantasy for free. He had an itch that wanted scratched and didn't know how to go about it. His problem wasn't that he was greedy, it's that he was inexperienced
Granted there are plenty of guys on the site and the local scenes who think that they can get any Domme to do anything for him and Dommes are secretly dying to fulfill whatever abusive kink they can dream up. But I didn't get the vibe from that guy. He's just a noob.
LTRs are great, but it's not always what people are looking for. There's nothing wrong with seeking a temporary thrill and at least this guy was honest about it.
On topic: Yes, it's too much to ask that I join your newly opened marriage because I'm bi and non-monogamous. Because of course I'll be equal in importance to the mother of your children and I won't be pushed back to threesome-only territory once she gets scared of anything more than freaky bi-monthly sex.
Ha! If only that were the case. I get too many of the "I have been in the lifestyle 25 years". Me; "yet you are uncollared?" alleged sub; "well yes, I have never met a "true Domme" (which of course as we know is harder than finding the holy grail.) Me; "well that's unfortunate, perhaps you should take your search offline."
What he should have said is "i have had a relationship with my computer, You should have seen how huge it was, and paid for cheap thrills here and there for 25 years, thank goodness for the creation of wifi. Before that i would have to shove stockings in my mouth and slap my own balls, audience of ONE."
Just wankers placing labels on themselves and thinking for some reason we would find their ideas of a good time "charming". Age and so called "experience" have nothing to do with it. Though sometimes, it REALLY IS a matter of experience. Depends on if they are eyeball deep in femdom porn and no real life experience.
And LOL Fiery!
A true Domme is a woman who will indulge your fetish without question or hope for reciprocation of some sort. Everyone knows that.
A true sub has the same definition. The difference is in how abusive your fetish is.
Ha, oh really? Shit, I'm one selfish bitch then because I really much prefer indulging in MY kink. Submission is just what it is, to submit, otherwise it's kinkplay which is fine too. But I tend to make the rules, not my boys. One didn't even have sex with his gf on her birthday because he was 40 days into chastity. Ah, the carefree days of playmates, they're so easy to find and unfortunately too easy, now even they bore me.
In all fairness though, I tell my boys to outline their hard limits very clearly because everything else is free game. If I don't have the element of surprise I'll get bored out of my mind, so serious. I also have them tell me their pain tolerance, for different things. Sometimes I call out kinks they may or may not know just in case.
But if I really love a sub as much as my ex-collared, then I indulge and indulge to my heart's desire and his expressions as they change, OH YES! JUST LIKE SEX. LOVE IT.
I SO, SO hate when someone is faking it when I'm just testing them, it's like faking an orgasm, it's unsexy and the wounded animal look is a total turn off. Just a difference of perspective.
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